Listening Skill is a neglected Art

With the attention span of Americans getting shorter and shorter I think critical listening is turning into a lost art. When you turn on the TV or radio to listen to the news, everything is reduced to a sound bite. It doesn't require critical listening, so people are losing that skill. I believe without the ability to critically listen people can be easily manipulated and that can be very dangerous for a society.

I really appreciate your concern of the safety for the employees that you are responsible for. A lot of times individuals are so task focused and they are concerned with wanting to get things done, that they will sometimes jeopardize safety. Many employees that have repetitious assignments that they complete everyday, are so comfortable with the process that, they have to be reminded of the dangers associated with the job. I can also tell that you have passion for managing people, by you responding that you listen and take the advice to heart. Trust me it is very important when you take the time to consult with the person who is the lowest on the organizational chart. Sometimes just listening to a person, increases their sense of value and

Talking and listening are essential life skills. The ability to talk in order to communicate and exchange ideas and information, to negotiate with others, to express feelings and emotions, allows human beings to function well in the world and to be full and active members of society. Communication, to be effective, requires the ability to listen, to understand and to make sense of what is heard. On the personal level, when we listen, we give attention to the other person in such a way as to allow them to feel heard, understood and therefore respected. In that way, listening is more than

Ever since you were little, you probably knew what you wanted to be when you get older. You had your mind set on one job you loved. Up until eighth grade I had always only had one job in mind and was positive I wanted to do it. When Mrs. Pennington showed us cfnc.org, it opened up so many different possibilities and it made me realize there were many different opportunities than just what I had thought.

When I go over the list of the roadblocks, there isn't a single one I am not guilty of doing. For the most part, I have good intentions and don't mean to block conversation. After reading, I understand how doing these not only stop the conversation but also are self-serving and not client centered( Miller and Rollnick, 2013). Most of the time, I am guilty of doing these because I am curious about something or uncomfortable with something like feelings or conversations that seem to go nowhere to me. I am a little confused why agreeing, approving or praising is on the list as affirming is a core skill according to Miller and Rollnick (2013).

It's highly unlikely, regardless of how good you are as a key account manager, that you will never face the prospect of an unhappy customer in one of your key accounts. Issues happen. There are always aspects that are out of your personal control, so being prepared to deal with one of your key customer's unhappiness ahead of time is well advised. In the heat of the moment is not when you want to strategically try to come up with a plan to diffuse your customer as quickly as possible.

There have been many misconceptions about a counselor being a good listener and showing empathy. One must realize that just because an individual is a good listener does not mean that he or she is empathetic. Showing empathy does not mean that the counselor has had the same experiences as the client. When the counselor is listening, one should make the client comfortable disclosing information about himself or herself. At residency, I learned to make sure that if I did not understand what was being shared that I ask the client to go into more detail.

The ability to listen well is an important tool for understanding others. Sadly, very few people know how to listen well. In fact, most people can think of only one or two good listeners in their lives. Listening is not simply agreeing - it is much more. Good listeners are able to better understand and respond to others, complete assignments accurately, settle disagreements before they escalate, and establish rapport with difficult people.

Listening is a skill that is not regularly taught in schools. Therefore, I found that analyzing my listening skills taught me a lot about myself that I did not know before. I kept track of my self-talk and inner voice, did a seven day mental review, did the HURIER listening profile, and assessed how I listened in different social situations and listening contexts and what listening contexts I experienced the most. I also learned about my strengths as a listener being understanding and interpreting. My weaknesses were hearing and remembering. Additionally, I created some listening goals that I would like to accomplish this term.

After the videotaping practice, I found that I need to improve my active listening. Active listening is more than just pay attention. The content of the message and the feeling or attitude are the two components that any messages a person tries to get across. I need to be sensitive to the feeling content. People who are able to listen sensitively, they tend to listen to herself/himself with more care and to make clear exactly what they are feeling and thinking. When we confused with what client said, we seldom make the assumption of him/her, it is better to check with the client to make it clear.

Active listening is one of the best approaches for the conflict resolution. Conflict is not always bad. It becomes negative when it is recurring and unsolvable conflict. The positivity and the negativity of the conflict depend on the nature of the conflict and the way it has been managed. With Active Listening, The involved parties can listen to each other in the mutual respect to clear any misunderstanding that could be the source of their conflict.

I am glad that you emphasized active listening skills. As stated in the first post, communication is defined as a two-way process to express a message or pass on information and this process has to include a speaker and a listener.

Listening is to coherent speaking as reading is to effective writing. English and all other language irrespective of nation or dialect is a totality of four skills: Listening, reading, writing, speaking. Underwood (1989) simplified the definition of listening to "the activity of paying attention to and trying to get meaning from something we hear" (p. 1). Mendelsohn (1994) defines listening comprehension as ―the ability to understand the spoken language of native speakers.''

In teaching and learning English, there are two aspects that should be concerned. The first one is the language skills such as speaking, listening, reading, and writing. The second one is the language components such as vocabulary, and grammar. These two aspects are taught in order to make the students achieve the ability in communicating both in spoken and written forms.

According to J. Harmer in his book The Practice of English Language Teaching, “receptive skills are the ways in which people extract the meaning from the discourse they see or hear”. In the following text the main skill which is going to be practiced is reading, the sub skills will be reading for gist and details, also using new vocabularies in the context. Enhancement of receptive skills will increase the rate at which students comprehend English language and allow students to practice