Locker Room Talk By Stephen Dunn Essay

“You’re gonna run until I puke”! Said coach as me and the rest of the team stood in front of him.We were in trouble for leaving the locker room a mess after practice one day after coach said not to.

Everyone has a gender. It is something we are born into, and has an impact on every aspect of our lives. It affects how we walk, talk, and act on a daily basis. What truly is gender though? Gender is what defines many facets of our culture, and differentiates the roles people take on as men or women. Today, most countries define gender as the genetic and biological traits we are born with. However, what if someone felt they were supposed to be the opposite gender of the one they were born into? That is precisely the feeling that transgenders have from a young age. The feeling of not belonging in their own body and wanting to be someone else. To make things even harder, what if they were also an athlete? Not only would they feel like they don 't belong in their own body, but the sports they want to play or already play would be affected. With that, this paper will look at and discuss eligibility in sports, equality in the locker room, and self worth both on and off the field for transgender athletes.

Upon reviewing the details of Why Nice Guys Finish Last, the author Julia Serano emphasizes that with society being the way it is, men tend to become “bad boys” because society and culture is brought up to believe that the way to win a womans heart and attention is by being sexually aggressive. Julia Serano argues that in order to recognize rape culture, we must first learn to understand the predator / prey mindset. In this essay, I will argue that in order to neutralize the predator / prey mindset, society needs to stop looking at women as the prey and the men as the predators. I believe that if society learns how to overlook men as being hunters and women as the prey, that would make the amount of rape occurrences drop massively.

The first thing you notice is the harsh, musty smell that hits you like a punch in the face. Always crowded the boys locker room at Brooke Point High School leaves some vivid and unsettling memories. The walls were lined with small red lockers, all filled with cloths that were drenched in sweat. It had a water fountain that in the four years I attended, never was functional. The two stalls located in the middle of the long hall were functional, but never had toilet paper in them. The experiences I had in that room were awful, mainly due to the fact that all the schools money went to fund the football teams locker room and weight room. If you weren't on a sports team you were forced to change in a old musty and disgusting locker room.

In the mid-1920’s, there lived a young man named Tom in the rural area of Tennessee. He was the most popular man in his village because of his muscular body and his killing looks. He was handsome, smart, and muscular. Additionally, he was self-centered, hurtful, and lusty. In the town, every girl was attracted by his good looks and each one of them wanted to date Tom. He started dating the girls one by one, but once he had romanced with one girl, he would break up and move on to the next girl. Tom did not want responsibilities so he did not get married, instead, he wanted pleasure so he continued dating the girls. One day came, where he had dated all the girls in the town and still had the thirst of lust.

My father, Jason Katcher was my Coach for nine years. We have had our ups and our downs. Through all these years of sports there are these unfathomable moments in time that will be frozen in to my mind. One of these moments was for the championship in a football tournament. My team and I needed a touchdown to when the game. I hear the fans screaming, my heart is pounding, the other team is nervous, I look up less than ten seconds left, forty-five yards to go, I look left I look right like I do before every play and then I look at my coach.

In the 2005 film The Wedding Crashers directed David Dobkin show many normal gender stereotypes and gender inequalities that are still present in today’s society. The film mainly focuses on two divorce mediators Jeremy and John who enjoy sneaking into wedding parties in order to get drunk off free booze and seduce bridesmaids. Certainly, the film exposes the bromance relationship that Jeremy and John have, which opposes the hegemonic masculinity that society renders on. Their attendance to Secretary Williams’s party exhibits the patriarchy of a white, rich, and powerful man. And lastly the way the guys view women as part of objectification and women displaying sexual agency towards these two gentlemen has been able to change overtime in society where both concepts have become a norm.

Sexual transgression and sexual exploration is one of the most highly talked about topics in today’s society. The path to sexual liberation within society begins with experimentation and exploration, followed by personal acceptance, and finally, although not always, societal acceptance. Although we have come a long way on the path of acceptance of different sexual transgressions, the stories of Kate Chopin’s The Awakening, Tennessee Williams’ “Vieux Carre,” and Lyle Saxon’s “The Centaur Plays Croquet” show that this type of acceptance has not always been the case. Each story plays an integral role when looking at the steps on the path to societal acceptance. Chopin 's story dives deep into the area of experimentation and exploration, whereas Saxon 's story looks more at the areas of personal acceptance, and Williams ' story lies more along the area of societal acceptance, and whether or not acceptance is always the end result.

For decades women have been belittled by men. However, history shows that men ain’t sh*t. . Who stripped women of their rights? Men. Who degraded women for centuries? Men. Who did not want women’s rights? Women. Who continue to objectify women based on how many people they are involved with? Women. The objectification of woman has been proven to not be one sided but come from women themselves also. Kurt Vonnegut's short story of “Miss. Temptation” displays the life of a ravishing young woman named Susanna. Men desire her; Woman despise her. She is portrayed as a loose promiscuous woman. Despite the fact that these individuals know nothing of her personal life. Showing how easy people

My experience of attending an all male private Catholic school was a choice that played to my strengths, and played a significant role in my desire to attend the USCGA. However, there is one aspect my school that is both explicitly and implicitly discriminatory, its admissions process. Explicitly, it is an all male school and has been since 1930. The administration purports many benefits to a same sex education; however, the homogeneous environment resulting from this policy has mostly fostered a single minded, immature, “locker room talk” culture. The clearest example of this that I can recall is one of my freshman year teachers. Throughout the school year he constantly joked about how he beat his wife while doing and how women

In her most recent article in The Atlantic, “Boys on the Side”, Hanna Rosin wrote an insightful piece in which she argues the merits of hook-up culture

Last night, during a presidential debate televised to over 60 million people, America witnessed a presidential candidate unapologetically assign a catch phrase to rape culture. “Locker room talk” is the typically unacknowledged misogynistic banter that occurs between men when they believe women to be the lesser sex (Trump, 0:10:00); it evokes the thought that men are allowed to objectify women as long as they do it privately amongst themselves. ‘Locker room talk’ is what perpetuates sexist ideas and gives certain men a place to hide their true intentions. ‘Locker room talk’ is exactly what Judy Brady is satirizing in her now famous feminist essay, I Want a Wife. When her work was penned and published, 45 years ago, Brady beat men at their own game. Likely swept up in the peaking second wave of feminism occurring in the 1970’s, Brady adopts and rebrands the male perception to show sexist tendencies within her culture. Though we are currently experiencing the fourth wave of the same movement, Brady’s work remains relevant. She is not only aware and personally affected by how men think of women, but also by how men see marriage as a way to gain control over another person for selfish reasons. Brady’s version of ‘locker room talk’ is thick with sarcastic humor and intentional hyperbole to blatantly call out discrimination between the sexes. Brady understands that the only way to make these ideas accessible, to both men and women, is to approach them with logic, emotion, and

It has been identified that through sports psychology one can improve their physical ability and performance. Sports psychology is the study of how the mind, mental states and behaviour effect sporting performance. There are several sport psychology techniques, which have helped me become a better volleyball player. These techniques include planning for performance, controlling arousal levels, mental rehearsal and concentration.

Max Shulman’s piece, “Love is a fallacy” expresses many arguments expressed during every day social interactions. In the piece, the author comes into contact with his roommate, Petey Bellows and a possible love interest, Polly Espy. The author makes many unjustified guess pertaining to their wisdom and intelligence, and these false pretenses contribute to his interactions with the two, and he aims to take advantage of the opportunity of manipulating the two into achieving his own selfish desires. His plan backfires, and he is forced to reconsider his actions. In the process, Max Shulman reveals that his piece is both anti-women, anti-men, and Shulman underestimates the intuitive and emotional aspects of love.

Within Hollywood’s movies depiction of drug addiction, many have failed to represent all true aspects that come along with such lifestyles. The movie, The Basketball Diaries, is based off a novel Jim Carroll wrote from his own diary entries. As a teenager growing up in the sixties, Carroll reveals his progression of drug abuse which eventually leads him addicted to heroin.Heroin is a white powder derived from morphine found in opium. It is commonly prescribed as a painkiller, but is also a popular street drug.The director casted Leonardo DiCaprio as Jimmy, and concentrates on creating the character as a stereotypical drug abuser. DiCaprio’s most captivating scene is when he is going through heroin