To put it simply, Spike Jonze's 2013 film Her tells the story of love in the not-so-distant future. While just a story of fiction, what does Her tell us about love in a time of constant advancement, and what does it say about loneliness?
From Black Mirror all the way to this oscar winning film, viewers are often shown our world with technological advancements that don't seem too far away. While the former primarily focuses on the dangers of advancing, Her shows us almost the opposite. Her shows us a futuristic love story. While still heartbreaking, Her shows us loneliness in a world where relationships are just a few words away. From the surface, the film looks simple: A love story. When you analyze it, though, and really look into it, you can see that it is so much more. Spike Jonze is talking about loneliness, which we can all relate to even if we’re not dating an operating system like our lead character, Theodore Twombly.
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In today's world we do have the ability to form relationships through things like the internet, but Her takes this a step forward. In the beginning of Her, the viewer sees how easy it is for Theodore to talk to someone. By just speaking a few words to himself, he is connected to someone through an earpiece and is able to have a conversation, albeit a meaningless one. This process is taken a step farther through the introduction of Theodore’s love interest and OS, Samantha. Theodore is able to develop a meaningful relationship with her, and they fall in love. We see Theodore and Samantha in love, go on dates, sing together, and their relationship looks beautiful from a surface view. Obstacles are presented throughout the film as well, like Theodore’s realization that Samantha is in love with so many others beside him. They seem to be able to overcome these problems and still maintain their beautiful, loving
In Stephen Marche’s ”Is Facebook Making us Lonely”, the author starts with an grabbing or interesting story that made headlines about a women named Yvette Vickers. He uses this anecdote to grasp the reader’s attention. Moreover, the writer is trying to appeal to the audience about loneliness. In the text it says “Social Media-from Facebook to twitter- has made us more densely networked than ever. Yet for all this connectivity, new research suggests that we have never been lonelier”. The author presents his argument and gives some factual evidence for the argument. Moreover, he compares his views with others. He gives the readers a problem that many people face nowadays is loneliness. Marche informed “Despite its deleterious effect
from the barn rafters, and to cut the tub from the roof of the barn
And when «she knows it's happening: that thing, that connection» between them, when she dances for him and «making him fall in love with her» she says to him: «We've got all we need. We don't need love. Don't diminish yourself – don't reveal yourself as a sentimental sap. You're dying to do it, but don't. Let's not lose this.» (p. 231). She knows she's driving him nuts, she knows that her rejection of his feelings makes him want to attach to her sentimentaly even more. She dances for him and teaches him what life really is. She – a 34-year-old illiterate janitor, teaches him – colledge proffessor, ex-dean, a member of highest rank of society class, what life is all about.
Through using applications to keep in touch with her boyfriend who lives on a different continent, to mentioning the dating app You & Me, Wortham creates an idea for her audience that sometimes, virtual dating works best for others and can still lead to face to face conversation successfully.
It is tough being a lonely misanthrope. Hating society and being lonely are two traits that definitely do not go together and are hard to deal with. In The Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger, Holden Caulfield has just those problems. Holden is not a hugely happy guy, as he makes it clear many times throughout the novel. All he wants to do is connect with someone, but he has particularly high standards. Most of the time, he is the cause for his miserable attitude. Holden runs into a great deal of different problems which causes him to be the way he is.
Throughout the essay, “The Opposite of Loneliness” , Marina Keegan utilizes pathos to elicit a “sense of possibility” towards her intended audience. Keegan argues for all members of society to find their own “opposite of loneliness” through memorable moments with the people one cares about most. Keegan’s comical yet personable writing style and the usage of pathos is heavily present. By reminiscing about all the good and bad moments in her Yale experience, she uses the ability to draw out relatable situations and emotions for readers who are in the same position as herself. Keegan addresses to her fellow Yale graduates, though it can apply to other college graduates, since it focuses on the general college experience, not a Yale specific
This passage encapsulates the theme, tone, and characters from William Gibson's Burning Chrome. The "her" in question is, of course, Rikki, and the House of Blue Lights is Chrome's den of iniquity where simulated prostitution takes place. Rikki goes there, to the House of Blue Lights, towards the end of the story and immediately before she takes off for Hollywood. She needs money to buy her coveted Zeiss Ikon Eyes, the best on the market. Jack struggles knowing that Rikki did not need the Zeiss Ikons, and that she also did not need to acquire the money in the way she did. Rikki's low self-esteem precludes her from being satisfied.
She makes him forget the endless repetition of his life for a few moments. Which presents the power of the woman in more a subliminal
In this writing it will be discussing childhood development, as well as some vital issues that might come along during those stages of development. Child development consist of the stage where the child is developing physically, cognitively, socially and spiritually. During these stages of development a child is maturing from infancy to becoming a young adult. For many years theorist such as Sigmund Freud, Erik Erikson, and Lev Vygotsky’s have researched how children mature from infants to adulthood. Each of the theorist have profound facts to how children develop, but which of the three men are correct on their findings?
The relationship between Theodore and Amy is not strongly bonded but is opposite towards the the relationship between Theodore and Samantha because Theodore always put Samantha first because it is something he can control with just a touch of his phone and also by Samantha constantly being available. The relationship between Theodore and Amy is conveyed via the dialogue which Amy quotes, “I even made a new friend. I have a friend and the absurd thing is an operating system. Charles left her behind but she's totally amazing. She's... She's so smart. She doesn't just see things is black or white. She sees things in this whole gray area and she's helping me explore it and we just bonded really
Alienation and loneliness, are two of society’s biggest problems. Ironically, it is society itself that leads to this, because sometimes alienation is a way of protection. J.D Salinger points out various social issues within society in his novel The Catcher in the Rye. Holden Caulfield, who is currently in the middle of a big issue dealing with his “madness”, must go through a trial, a quest if one would say, which will allow the reader to see his struggle to be innocent in the eyes of society. Truly, Holden represents Salinger’s view of society.
The salt that the Tuareg bought was from Bilma. They made 1 trip annually to Bilma to buy salt and travel to the cities on the top of Nigeria. Normally the men in the village would take the caravan of camels to make a trip to Bilma each year to buy salt. This would be a very hard trip for the men each year because traveling through the desert can be very dangerous. Multiple stories have been passed around by the Tuareg people about caravans getting lost in the Sahara desert. As they go to Bilma they gather the money they had gotten from the last trip that they made for buying salt. On average the men would stay in Bilma for 10 days then leave due to competition selling the salt. They did this because this was their way of staying alive if they didn’t make this trip annually the would not be able to buy goods for their village. Occasionally this trip would be a boys rite of passage to become a man which is a very intense spiritual and physical journey.
I started to believe that the narrator has the mind of a man; perhaps she yearns for the chase. She searches for boys who are more than willing to be a quickie and she uses them for a good time. When she gets what she wants it's to late and the emotional damage has already been done. Our narrator reverts back to her female role and relies on emotions rather than logic; it is apparent that in having these quick relationships she is only hurting herself.
In the beginning of The Catcher in the Rye, Salinger brings up the motif of loneliness and depression which Holden reveals to the reader while at Pencey Prep. For example while writing a essay for Stradlater, he reflects on how after Allie, Holden's brother died, Holden "slept in the garage, the night he died and [he] broke all the god damn window." (39). This reaction to inflict pain on himself is evidence that the loss triggered severe emotional disturbances. Holden isolates himself after a tragic event proving Allie's death is the cause for his loneliness. Also, while alone in his dorm at Pencey writing a composition for Stradlater his roommate, Holden " couldn't think of a room or a house to describe… [he] wrote about [his] brother Allie's
being separated means being alone. This is true of every creature, and it is true of man