Love and Marriage

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Love and Marriage Ever wonder why so many happy marriages become failed marriages? Love plays a big part of failed and happy marriages. Happy marriages are hard to obtain and keep in this day of age. Marriage is defined as “an intimate or close union” by Merriam Webster. Marriage has been used for mutual benefit, personal benefit, or just the simple uniting of a couple in love. Happy marriages seem to be rare now with the stress of jobs, life’s struggles, or just the simple temptations that can tear a marriage apart and even the lack of love. In history marriage wasn’t the uniting of a couple in love, it was for the benefit of kingdoms or families. Marriage was used to unite families for mutual benefit to gain a higher standing in a…show more content…
Telling a loved one, like a husband or wife that how they act or things they do drive them nuts can be very hard and hurtful. In the long run problems are better handled sooner than later. Waiting to resolve a legitimate problem usually makes things worse, the anger or frustration can build up. After so much anger or frustration is built up it’s only a matter of time before that anger releases and results into a fight towards the other person. Bursts of anger cause more trouble than they really should, when a spouse blows up and starts listing one thing after another or just belittles the other for something little or something that happened a long time ago, words are said or actions show things that the person really doesn’t mean it. Though the words and actions hurt, they are not meant in most cases and cause a lot of pain and emotional stress. When looking back at the reasons why the explosion of anger or grief occurred, it usually wasn’t a big deal at the time or wasn’t dealt with at the time. Dealing with problems is a part of being in a marriage or a relationship. Dealing with the problem is difficult but can make a marriage stronger. A strong marriage is very important to be happy and to make the marriage last. There is a couple from Shawnee who have been married for about 20 years and the husband has had some tough cards dealt to him. His wife went out of the marriage for a relationship while being married. Her actions caused a very
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