Male Friendships : Female Friendships

     Biology too plays a major role in the differences between male and female. Genetically, there are differing chromosomes. XY for male and XX for female. These chromosome differences account for the physical differences that men and women have. In dealing with body composition, males are more likely to be taller and more muscular. Males also have testosterone, the male sex hormone. It is said that males with high levels are more confrontational and smile less. Women that have low levels of estrogen, the female sex hormone, are said to be more disagreeable and confrontational. Maybe because men have such a huge advantage over women by being physically larger, they are supposed to be more aggressive and women having less physical strength are supposed to be the nurturers.

Women are able to show more empathy towards people which allows them to give good advice and build meaningful relationships, while men do not possess the same skills. An

Women normally won’t punch things when they get angry. They just have a tendency to yell at you or “bite your head off.” Women will cry more often than men. If you yell at her or she’s had a bad day and you won’t listen to her talk she might get upset and cry. Women put more emotion into things than men do. Women seem to stress more, even over little things that might not be that important to stress about. Women will come home and if supper isn’t made yet she will stress over supper when there may be something more important that needs to be worried

The first difference is how they listen to people talking. Women love to make “listener noises such as ‘mhm,’ ‘uhuh,’ and ‘yeah.’” They do this to show “I’m with you” (Tannen332). On the other hand, men listen in silence. When men are silent it usually is because they are trying to interpret the information. Another reason for a men’s silence is when they go into their “cave” because they are upset or stressed. Women misinterpret a man’s silence and they imagine horrible things such as “he hates me, he doesn’t love me, he is leaving me forever.” A women’s silence means what she’s about to say is going to hurt them or she doesn’t want to talk to them. If they can realize they have different ways of communicating then there wouldn’t be many worries or

What exactly is Friendship? this question has been asked for centuries, how exactly can you tell you have a true friend? Friendship is an relationship between two or more people who care a lot about each other. Your Friendship is something that will keep you happy and going, but its not always easy cake. Their will be some ups and downs in every friendship, but if you can bounce back from that downfall than you might realize you have a true friendship. Friendship includes time, effort, commitment and sometimes you have to put your pride aside for somethings. Their are a lot of different things that contribute to a true friendship such as loyalty, honesty, support, and most important trustworthiness. Having a friendship is supposed to

People need companionship to help them in times of hardship. Women tend to confide more in their same sex friends rather than men who, most of the time, find competitiveness in their friendships rather than telling them things that may show signs of weakness. People who have friends of the opposite sex at this time in their life, usually share some sort of romantic bond. These types of friendships normally come from school or work, but decline after the person is married. All friendships often decline after marriage because the people involved in the relationship find the closest bonds between themselves and spend most of their time together. During marriage people find friendships with their siblings to be closer than most.

Often times women’s studies are overshadowed by topics pertaining to other matters. Because of this, Steve Duck of University of Iowa calls women’s studies “understudied relationships”. In his book, Under-Studied Relationships: Off the Beaten Track, Steve delves into the complicated world that is friendship between women. He reveals that even the best of friendships, more often than not, will dissolve due to geographical distance, especially during the transition from high school to college. However, Duck claims that this occurrence is more detrimental to male friendships than female friendships. According to Duck, “…men’s inability to maintain distal friends may be due to a lack of awareness about and skills to utilize effective strategies that maintain a [friendship]” (184). This argument implies that men simply do not put as much emotional value into friendships as women do. While distance may seem challenging for women to overcome, they put more effort into preserving their friendship. Duck further instills this concept by explaining that “women’s same-sex friendships tend to be based more on intimate and emotional discussions than men’s…” (186). Men, Duck argues, lack the depth in their friendships that women possess and for this reason have difficulty sustaining a friendship that is met with the strain of distance.

Traditionally, young men and women preferred friends of their own sex and engaged in sex-specific activities with them. Male friendships centered on shared activities such as sports, cars, and contests (sometimes fighting with words, not weapons). Women’s friendships were more intimate and emotional, involving self-disclosing talk about health, romances, and relatives (p.437)

There have always been many differences between men and women throughout the years including the way they think, speak, show emotions, and face problems.Many people say that men and women “speak in different languages”. Between the male and female sex their communication skills are opposite of each other. When they speak they also have contrasting tones and behavior. Men and women have different outlooks on what words mean to them. Men have conversations about sports, politics, dirty jokes, and cars. Meanwhile women gossip, discuss the latest trends, and talk about food and movies.When women talk they tend to talk with feelings, emotions, and imagery. When men talk they do not go into great detail about a topic or talk with emotions. Language

As the laugh they all laughed, and the joke they all told, and the secrets they all shared. Female and Male friends are similar and distinctive in so many ways. But one thing they share among each other is their friendship. Such Conversations, Activities and personalities are displayed differently between male and females.

Lasting a year or a lifetime, friendship is something that we’ve all experienced and cherished throughout our lives. It has an impacted us in a good or bad way, teaching us a lesson for every encounter we come across: which brings a new meaning to the word friendship. I’ve had many good and bad friendships throughout my life, but one experience gave me a bigger outlook on the word “Friendship”.

From the detailed explanation behind each behavior I am surprised by how these important differences are never talked about. Growing up we are in constant contact with others but it is never questioned on why we interact or react the way we do. In most situations one person is thought of as wrong, but with this mindset conflicts escalate with unsound arguments due to misunderstanding. When a person is accused for the most part their initial reaction would be to argue and defend their side, creating a larger problem without clear communication. With open communication the problem is recognized by both parties and each put in effort to make a difference for the better. Since these differences are never talked about both sexes have relationship problems because they cannot understand each

Men and Women differ in many ways. One big difference is men are under the impression they are tougher than women. Women accept their judge but know this is not true, I can prove it with a little bacteria. Men are sickness babies, a head cold totally ruins their day and any worse ailment, and men lose their ability to function, completely! Whine, oh boy do they whine! Women, on the other hand, remind themselves of responsibility, accept the challenge, and fight the fight.

The five factors that predict interpersonal relationships are: proximity, familiarity, similarity, physical appearance, and reciprocity. Proximity refers to the geographical location of persons. People are more likely to initiate, engage, or maintain relationships if someone’s geographical location is near or convenient to the person they are to pursue. Relationships, whether romantic or platonic, are not as likely to be initiated if the proximity does not allow individuals to cross paths or maintain a certain level of communication. As well, familiarity plays an important role in the fostering of relationships. People are said to have an increased attraction and fondness for individuals that they see more often than those they do not. In lay terms, similarity can be summed up by saying that people enjoy the presence of those like (or similar) to them. Individuals are more often drawn to and feel less intimidated by others that share their culture and belief systems; thus, are more likely to form relationships with them. Next, is physical attractiveness; which can be defined in two different ways. First off, people tend to believe that beautiful things equal good things and are more likely to seek out relationships with individuals they find beautiful. However, people are also likely to form relationships with people they believe to be on

Friendship is an integral part of the life of any human being. Most people feel the need to have a person who they can communicate with and talk about their challenges at any given time. Friendship is essential in