Marsha Norman's Buenas Noches, Mama

She frequently contrasts the characters in Ellen’s life with the African-Americans she meets. A few notable examples of the people in Ellen’s life are her alcoholic and abusive father, her spiteful grandmother, and her insensitive and stubborn Aunt Nadine, who calls her a liar and tells her to, “…find herself evil little self some hole for to crawl in” on Christmas day. On the other hand, Starletta’s family, although poor and “colored”, loves each other deeply and makes sacrifices for each other, like the expensive presents her family bought her for Christmas. Also, the colored families who live in the houses that Ellen repeatedly spies on seem to be content and happy with what little they have, while Ellen rich grandmother is hateful with her treasures. Gradually over time, Ellen begins to realize that the colored people she regarded as inferior are really better people than she

Her grandmother treats her badly. She acts as if Ellen is to blame for her daughter's death. This is how Ellen describes the beginning of hers’ and her grandmother’s relationship, “My mama’s mama picked me up in her long car that was like the undertaking car only hers was cream. I told Roy and Julia on more time I did not need to go. If we have to live together the least you could do is talk to me like you know I am in your car is what I thought to say to her. I figured she would warm up to me. But all she asked on the way to her house was when does school start again? Lord it just ended and I sure am looking forward to the summer at your house I said for the icebreaker. I asked you when school starts. I do not need the commentary is what she said back to me hot. So September. I said September. I said my answer quick and on time like the army way. I saluted in my head.” {P. 61}

     Mrs. Sommers is a middle aged timid mother of a handful of children, and is apparently not well to do anymore after her husband’s death; Not that she probably ever was, but more so than her luck would have it now. She is small framed with tattered old clothes, as if she hasn’t been able to purchase

Very aggressive, cold demeanor similar to the bunkhouse. Always tries to find a reason to get mad like the train being late or Grandmother not making potato salad, etc. Appears to have a poor/uneasy relationship with her daughter, Beth. As noted by “I can’t bring myself to ask father about it, Ewen. I simply cannot do it.”… “There wouldn’t be much point in asking… when the

In the Television show “Saved by the Bell” Jessica "Jessie" Spano is a lifetime friend of Zack, Screech, Slater, Lisa and Kelly. Jessie is the smartest, athletic, outgoing, shiest, and courageous person you will ever encounter from a television show. Jessie was the class president; and one of the head cheerleaders. Jessie’s role in the hit show is represented as a liberal, with very strong feminist interpretations. Jessie was known for being the first to speak up when she felt something was unjust. Jessie was always on the scene; she was a part of every organization or club there was. Jessie thought she had to be perfect and get things done right the first time instead of being your typical teenager. Jessie was very hard on herself; wouldn’t take any crap from a man; and thought she had to do it all.

The daughter is bored with her mother's dreams and lets her pride take over. She often questions her self-worth, and she decides that she respects herself as nothing more than the normal girl that she is and always will be. Her mother is trying to mold her into something that she can never be, she believes, and only by her futile attempts to rebel can she hold on to the respect that she has for herself. The daughter is motivated only to fail so that she may continue on her quest to be normal. Her only motivation for success derives from her own vanity; although she cannot admit it to herself or her mother, she wants the audience to see her as that something that she is not, that same something that her mother hopes she could be.

Instead, she wants her daughter to live a happy life full of ignorance. Although Daisy wants her daughter to live a better life than her, she preps her daughter to be beautiful at a very young age. “That’s because your mother wanted to show you off” (117). To Daisy, her daughter is more of a doll than an actual human being. She plays dress up with her daughter as if she’s a barbie instead of having her daughter play with barbies. Her daughter’s only existence is to be Daisy’s entertainment.

The characterizations of Connie’s family members have great effects on Connie. And onnie’s mother’s characterization is the main motivator for Connie’s rebellion. She always compares Connie with June, who is the “ideal daughter” in her eyes, and blames Connie for some little things, such as improper dressing and not having a tidy room. Oates suggests that the reason for Connie’s mother prohibiting Connie to dress up like an adult is that “ Her mother had been pretty once too” (Oates 1), but now “her looks were gone and that was why she always after Connie” (Oates 1). Therefore, she is jealous about Connie’s beauty and feels uncomfortable when seeing Connie wear beautiful outfits. Meanwhile, she likes June so much because June is obedient and plain, which makes her feel that she is dominant in the relationship. In the short story, Connie’s father is not given much description by the author, but his characterization has an effect on Connie as well. The irresponsible father spends little time with family and seldom has conversations to his daughters. When hearing his wife’s complain about Connie, he just bends his head with saying nothing, which makes Connie feels ignored and lonely. Urbanski states that “The father, who spent most of his time at work, is weak” (Urbanski 200) to reveals the father is not an active figure in his daughter’s life. Therefore, lacking of the company and communication of family members, Connie becomes upset. In addition, Connie’s sister June, who has the opposite characterization, is also one of the reasons for Connie’s rebellion. In Connie’s eyes, June is a

Mothers are typically seen as kind, loving, and nurturing, at least in a perfect world, that’s how they are. Rather, in the real world many of us wish that is how all mothers are. Various situations can lead to a woman to be too mothering. It is a factor that transcends real life. This conflict causing dynamic is very prevalent in numerous stories, films, and plays. Two plays where it is shown in significance are Machinal and The Glass Menagerie. In both cases, the actions taken by the mother roles in the shows, resulted in some of the character’s roles ending in unfortunate events of some sort.

Her father's rampant drinking and inability to hold a job, coupled with her mother's lack of responsibility causes Jeannette to inwardly question her role in society.

Jeannette talks about how her parents at times were ignorant at how they were parenting. For example, Jeannette states countless situations in the book where she felt excluded or neglected. There was a situation in the book where she was cooking or preparing herself hotdogs and she got her dress on fire. The flames grew on her rapidly and the injuries became severe; soon after that her mother and father expressed to her that they were little to no concerned about their daughter. In the book it states, “Mom, in an unnaturally calm voice, explained what had happened and asked if we could please have a ride to the hospital. The woman dropped her clothespins and laundry right there in the dirt and, without saying anything, ran for her car” (9-10). This just shows the mother wasn’t the least bit scared for her daughter’s life, she didn’t even panic or react the way a mother should. With that being said, we can even notice that the neighbor was more affected by the situation than that of the mother. This is the earliest stories Jeannette can recall, which is mentioned in her book, and all the stories and memories after that only go to show the neglectful lifestyle she had to endure. It is really a sad reality of this woman’s life. However, Jeannette Walls is now a successful author, and journalist in New York, is one of the few people in this world that has made a successful life from a horrible and neglectful

The mother/daughter relationship between Mrs. MacTeer and her two daughters, Claudia and Frieda, is loving and strong. They are taught their own self-worth through their mother’s strength and example, although this love isn’t fully appreciated by the girls until they are older. During Claudia’s illness, she is treated with a mixture of concern and anger. Although Claudia is scolded and her mother complains of cleaning her vomit, at the same time her mother is nursing her, giving her medicine, and checking on her throughout the night. Claudia discovers later that her mother’s anger is not directed at her, but at the world, as she must raise her black family in a world ruled by white culture. She protects her children and equips them for survival in a hostile environment.

The novel begins with the mother ignorant to modern society. Junior emphasizes this. "No one had ever taught her anything. She was an orphan at six months"(23). "At the age of thirteen, she was married off to a man rolling in money and in morality whom she had never seen. He would have been the age of

There are other characters in the play that act as though they are trying to help the Younger family or are happy for them, but we realize that they are trying to help themselves or others around them. One of these characters is Wilhemenia Johnson. She is a neighbor of the Youngers. One day she stopped by their apartment for a quick visit. She tells Mama how happy she is that they are

In the next scene, Halie meets with the community minister to talk about a statue for her dead son Ansal, which is somewhat disturbing. She is dressed in a black vale, extended black gloves, and a long black dress. It seems that she is going to a funeral for her lost son, instead of going to lunch and chatting with the minister. In addition, the reader hears about the last son, Bradley, who has had a serious accident with a chain saw where he cuts his leg off. Not much is know about Bradley in the beginning of the play except of his amputation, and also that he is the younger of the two sons who has a fake leg. Before the climax of this play, the reader should be able to see that something is wrong with this family. In this play, there is not one event that stands out as being completely peculiar, but there are clever hints that allow the reader to know that there is far more to this family.