stay home and take care of the baby. Her growing up is accelerated.” “It also upsets the family structure,” she adds. “The girl makes a grandmother out of her own mother before she’s ready for it. Her siblings are affected. There’s also the effect of hiya. Some still feel compelled to hide the girl until she delivers. After a while, the unwed mother learns to accept her condition. But it takes longer for her family.” “The sex drive is a powerful drive created by God,” says Gonzales.