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Memchoubi 'Who Are You'

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“The love only can make
The man a divine,
The divine a man”
Eager I to know and see it really. ( Kh Ibeton)

One contemporary prominent feminist writer Memchoubi, “Who are you” 1984 has a sharp and witty lines. In this poem she tries to share the plight of modern Manipur women, who are passive receiver and their voice unheard. The poet felt sad because she feels that women are neglected.

They don’t seem to exist.
You drench the earth with your blood
You arouse waves of excitement with your smile,
But you remain neglected,
Woman, O woman!
Whoever are you? (Memchoubi) The under need tone of the poem is quite strong; one can feel there is an urge to women to wake up and not be a passive receiver anymore. She is not happy to see the condition …show more content…

Previously women did not give much importance to their personal existence. They were living for the family and children. With modernization and the well informed world that we lived in bring a sea changes in the minds of women in Manipur. They started voicing out their feeling and do not want to be at the back stage anymore. They are today generation women and know the best for themselves. The verses which were discussed in the earlier part of article ranges from the earlier generation of writers who were romantic and trying to run away from reality. Poet like Memchoubi strongly believes in equal treatment strong influence of western feminism. And with activist like Sharmila there is a universal voice of standing up for their fellow being for the cause of humanity. The lines are simple so the any ordinary reader can associate with. Comparatively there are many women writers now. And each of them is contributing in shaping up the legacy of women tradition in Manipuri …show more content…

To draw lines or attempting to define it is quite difficult. Manipur women I should say does not want a separate identity. She is happy with collective identity. She is not complaining with the natural role of motherhood, wife, daughter, and daughter-in-law. The treatment towards women is also not so bad comparatively, but there is a minute mistreatment which is like a plague is spreading towards women in Manipur. The best example I can think of is that in a typical household of Manipur society, women folks have to wait until all the men in the family are feed, then women turn to have food comes. They can even dare to think to have food earlier than their husband or father-in-law. The culturally conditioned experience of women is so pathetic especially, a daughter-in-law. Those women who are sensitive can feel it the rest feel that it’s quite normal. For example take any household for that matter, women are always treated secondary. The whole focus is towards men in the family, from decision making to buying things, or anything for that matter. This sounded very silly since it’s taken for granted that it’s quite normal. That’s exactly my point here. Every woman takes that it’s normal. Those women who try to find problem in this is look as abnormal and self centered. Thus comes in the question what is the role of a women in Manipur. It is always a passive receiver an ideal women. Who has define the role of

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