Question 1 Dr. Montessori gave us a Decalogue. Comment on each one of them. What can happen if we did not did not follow them. You could refer to your personal experiences. The Montessori Decalogue are explained as below. 1. Never touch the child unless invited by him (in some way or another). Unless there is a very strong reason to (like avoiding an accident, for example), it is important that one should never touch a child unless a child requests it. Picking up a child without the child’s consent, even if in a playful manner, or grabbing her hand, pushing her, etc., should always be avoided. If children are engaged, looking at a book, working, playing, resting, the same principle applies. Children invite contact in many ways, and …show more content…
When a child needs help, she will ask for it. When a skill has been acquired and the child no longer needs assistance, adults should respect the child’s new acquired or reached level of independence. 10. Always treat the child with the best of good manners and offer her the best you have in yourself and at your disposal. Children who are respected will learn to respect others. Giving the child the best one has to give helps the child learn that you are someone she can count on, and teaches her to also give others the best she has to give. It is important the way Montessori puts it, “the best you have in yourself,” as if to say, always reach higher, but do not feel dismayed if you fall short, and “the best” that you can give is not the best you think or know you should give. If your best manners are not always what they should be—a common feeling parents harbor when children seem to be pushing their patience beyond the limits, do not lose heart. The way Dr. Montessori put it, is basically this: have realistic expectations towards the child, and yourself too. Give the best you have to give, but don’t feel guilty if you fall short. Simply keep striving to improve and always do your best. If you commit a mistake, giving the child your best may well be recognizing it and apologizing. “Amy, Mommy got upset and shouted. That was
Helping children realise which behaviours are appropriate and responsible gor is paramount. Good, strong teamwork between adults will encourage good behaviour in children There are two ways we help teach children good behaviour, through positive reinforcement of good behaviours and negative reinforcement of bad
Therefore, young children should be guided through multiple techniques in order to attain independence, self-discipline, and initiative. I believe that by promoting individuality as well as relying on consequences will allow young children to strengthen their independence. Through consequences, young children learn that what we do affects ourselves or peers. Another factor that needs to be considered when strengthening independence would be avoiding unmet needs. As we help young children to understand their own needs we are helping guide them to solving the problem and gaining what they require in order to be successful.
9. Children, as well as adults, need to be treated as worthwhile individuals who can think
Always kneel down, or sit along the side the child to talk to them on a
2. One developmentally appropriate practice to help a 5 year old remember to be respectful is by presenting a poster during circle time with the title of what is respect and below that will also say good manners are necessary to show respect for others. There will be three big squares. In each of these squares will present three respectful manners to follow in the classroom. The first square will be titled hello and goodbye and it will have examples on when and how to use these words. The second square will be titled please and thank you. In this square it will have pictures and examples on how to use this manner respectfully. The last square will be titled Table manners. In this square it will have a few examples on respectfully using table manners. Presenting this poster
Even if a child is well behaved and listens when they are told not to touch
• Every child is an individual – with different needs depending on their age and abilities, for an example, when physical play is involved more consideration must be given to a child who has become mobile than to an older child, when
Regardless of age, we all like to be noticed and praised for something good that we have done. Research has shown that in order to balance out a negative, we need to be given 6 positives. It is important therefore, to recognise and reward positive behaviour, especially for those pupils who perhaps need to be reprimanded more than others. Whilst it can be easier to simply react to the negative aspects of a child’s behaviour with “don’t do this, don’t do that”, it is also really important to point out what they are doing well, whether it’s sitting nicely, listening well, joining in, following instructions, etc. It is also important not to forget those children who always behave appropriately and openly praise them too. In the 1940’s BF
48). In my opinion, this is the definition of a teacher. You must know where your kids are at mentally and emotionally, but always try to push them past that so that they can be the best version of themselves that they can possibly be. Equip them with what they need to succeed and let them find their way and push those personal boundaries in their lives, because it will make them better people in the
17. Children should respect the friends and relatives to their parents and in their behavior
When an individual demonstrates respect for another, they give value to their being and principles. Respect for young children must be something that comes from inside of a person who believes that children are worthy of our time and attention as individuals. Magda Gerber spent her life encouraging people to not only respect babies, but to view them as active participants in their own development. Teachers and caregivers should always keep in mind that respect is a significant component in best practices and for meeting the developmental needs of infants and toddlers (Swim, 2008). Some ways that they can show young children respect is by validating the children’s feelings and providing a high level of safety and by avoiding rushing children’s development and overstimulating children. In order to develop positive relationships, they can use “developmentally and individually appropriate strategies that take into consideration children’s differing needs, interests, styles, and abilities” (“What are Positive Teacher-Child Relationships,” n.d., par.
The success of the Montessori method depends on how the environment us set up, it is essential that it is prepared and simplified for the students’ understanding.
The next quality of becoming a good student is the type of behavior you must show. Being respectful in the classroom is important because if a student is sent out for
We can help the child attain independence by giving opportunity for him to work with the materials by himself, by directing him towards a given end to develop his will, by giving him constructive work to help him in developing discipline, by letting him know and have an understanding of what is good and bad and also giving him freedom to reveal himself completely by playing only passive role.