What has made you the person you are? A question then naturally occurs and it is a question that many are afraid to ask. The question stands, did God author the events that would shape me into the person I am? The reason most people do not want to consider this question is because this includes the good and the bad circumstances of our lives. Most people have something in their life that they wish they could change. Some would change a conversation they didn’t have or perhaps the words they should not have spoken. Either way life deals us blows and years, even decades after we can look at these events and ponder how they have changed us.
The moment of conception is the beginning of life. As such, this very moment defines so many different
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This makes this category particularly interesting to analyze. My life has had many defining moments that have pushed me in one direction or another. One of the first defining moments that I can think of is the moment I was born into a family with a mom, dad, and older brother. This moment forever formed my view of the world. I grew up in a life of being cared by two parents who abundantly provided for me. They worked hard for what they had, and because of their work I never had to want for anything. This lead to my natural understanding that this life was about comfort, I thought that life was having a nice house to come home to, and a boat to take trips out on the weekend. The first defining moment of my life was the family of ease that I was born into. Another defining moment in my life is the moment that I was placed into special reading classes. In my mind this marked me as a fool. From that moment on I began to struggle to prove them wrong. From that moment I would study harder than all of my friends, because I had to prove to myself that I was capable. This singular moment instilled in me an inner need to strive and work hard in order to improve. You could say that I have been trying to prove myself as a good student ever …show more content…
This was the moment my brother’s drug abuse began. This changed not only my brother’s life but the entirety of my family dynamic. As we discussed in class, family is the greatest influence on teens. However, out of this time of darkness a passion was sparked within me. This passion came out of horrid circumstances, but amongst the drug abuse and mental diagnosis developed a passion for counseling. As I was the family council to my mother, father, and when allowed brother. I remember the day of his diagnosis. He was fresh out of high school and had been delving deeper into drugs. I will never forget when my mom and dad left in the middle of the night to go get him from a gas station hour away from home. He was having a bad reaction to whatever he had taken and as a result ender up in a rehabilitation center. I will never forget my mother telling me that my brother had bipolar disorder. This brought to light all of the things he had struggled with since childhood. Through it all, from the drug addiction to the sleepless nights, I was my mother’s stability. She leaned on me for support. It was in those many moments I learned the necessity of counseling in the darkest of times in
A defining moment is a point at which a situation is clearly seen to start a change. Defining moments can happen at any point in one's life. In class we read multiple of stories with different defining moments. The two that stuck out to me were “ I Want to Be Miss America” and “Here’s Herbie”.
In addition, another representation of a significant moment that I have experienced is when I fell in love with theater. I never perceived when I first stepped on the campus of parkway middle school of the arts that my life would transition forever. I initially came to the parkway for their preeminent dance department, unfortunately, all dance classes were full; the only department left was theater. With the warm welcomes from my classmates, I soon felt comfortable and confident enough to audition for the school musical "High School Musical". Surprisingly I was chosen for one of the leading roles as Miss Sharpay Evans. Characterizing this leading role was not as effortless as it seemed. The cast spent weeks rehearsing the musical, memorizing the lines, songs, and dances. This was a tedious process. Since this was my first show I grew frustrated; I didn’t become conscious that it was normal occasionally for a show to have a few tough rehearsals. I desired to flee the production because I felt as if I wasn’t benefiting the crisis. My astonishing teacher Mrs. Terl conversed with me and inspired me to grow resilient, instead of feeling afraid I grew fearless even if the show was to fall through I was
Throughout life I’ve experienced a rather unpleasant childhood with the absence of my guiding figures: my parents. Seeing them rush in and out of the house to go to the hospital with my younger brother shaped me in a way nothing else could have. It made me who I am today, as well as aspired me towards what I want to be one day.
After reviewing my life, I have decided my life defining moment was when my family and I moved to Texas from Oklahoma. I consider this move my life changing moment because it changed so many things in my life. This move set the stage for an entirely new life for me. Moving six hours away from the only home I knew certainly called for many changes.
Everyone has an event in their life that helped changed them in some way or stood out to them in some type of way in their life. Rather if it is, something like a birth of a child, a death of a family member or even receiving a job. A significant event in my life and helped me grow as a person was when I decided to pack up and move to Houston, Texas. My move to Texas may have been short but in that short period it helped me to grow to be more independent and to provide for myself and much more. When I made the moved to Texas, I moved with family members that I knew but I was not close with it.
Similarly to Christy Brown in My Left Foot, everybody has experienced significant moments in their lives that have shaped the people they are. There is one specific moment in my life that stands out to me as a substantial event in determining my character as a human being. Likewise to Christy Brown finally being able to use writing as a form of communication, I was finally able to appreciate how lucky I am and realize that many other people are not as fortunate. When I was in fourth grade, I stepped outside of my comfort zone and unknowingly gained information that was difficult for me to comprehend at the time, but ended up having an immense effect on the way I view other people. That very day, I learned to treat everybody with kindheartedness because you never know what he or she may be going through in his or her life.
As I look back on my life, as short as it has been so far, there are a few key events that I recall that have shaped me most as an individual and secured my different places in life. I was born in Roosevelt, Utah. In this small town of just under 7,000 people I never truly was able to find out who I wanted to be. The community was heavily influenced by two main factors, the Mormon religion and a very conservative culture. If you were not a part of one or both of these influences you generally would run in an outer circle. I found it hard to figure out who I wanted to be as I battled with the cultural norm as well as my own internal struggles.
Life begins at conception; science tells us that a human being begins at conception. "The term
Our familial background started with my brother; he is the inspiration of my success and the reason I am daily pressured in my educational life. My brother passed through a difficult stage in life where his diagnosis with depression, social anxiety, and situational anxiety had a toll in our family because it was something we were completely unprepared for then. The worst decision he made was his self-diagnosis to drugs. He became a drug addict to cope with the pain of bullying at school because he was in ESOL and co-taught classes. This was a continuous downward fall for my family over the course of 6 years until it reached its breaking climax when my brother was 22. He stopped taking drugs, saw himself in the mirror, and was unable to recognize whom he was. The realization of not knowing himself overtook him to the point of wanting to commit suicide. My family came together to see what we could do make things better. At 14, I realized that I now had to be the backbone for my family. My parents’ discouragements shadowed me as to follow me with figures of pain. My role in my family changed as well. I was now the sole hope for my family to strive in a foreign country and make a name for ourselves
As an adolescent myself, I unexpectedly lost two close family members shortly after my parents’ divorce. As my mom struggled with finances, gambling addiction, and hoarding, I attempted to help by taking on financial and household responsibilities. My older brother, typically a pillar of support, was sent to complete an inpatient addiction program. I increasingly turned to alcohol, smoking, and excessive sleep to dampen my feelings of despair and anxiety. Meanwhile, I missed over 25 percent of my high school classes, was a frequent patron of my dean’s office, and had grades slipping further down the alphabet.
exact moment of when the baby is considered alive. Some of the answers include: the moment the umbilical cord is cut and the baby is breathing on its own, after the first trimester, and from the moment of conception. “Since the nineteenth century, the official doctrine of the Church has been that ensoulment (life) occurs at the moment of conception” (Ayd 49). It was Pope Paul VI who insisted “that from the moment of conception life must be guarded with the greatest care and that direct abortion is morally wrong” (Ayd 49). However, no one really knows when the actually time of life begins and people will continue to argue against each other with
Physicians, biologists, and other scientists agree that conception marks the beginning of the life of a human being—a being that is alive and is a member of the human species. There is overwhelming agreement on this point in countless medical, biological, and scientific writings.
As I sat in my car, I watched, through teary eyes, into the door of an apartment while my parents tried to calm my older brother down. At the time, I did not have any idea why he was acting the way he was, but later at the hospital I figured out it was an overdose of LSD that was causing the irrational behavior. Looking back on that day now, I still remember the frigid air and the silence when I walked into the hospital room where my brother, Brandon, was laying with an endotracheal tube down his throat.
Life seems to take many twists and turns that somehow mesh into each other to form a chaotic knot of happenings. All of these occurrences are supposed to shape you into a wiser more experienced person. Many people can even pin point the exact moment in their life which was forever changed by a single event. When that event happens it becomes an unforgettable memory for you and teaches you a lesson that becomes one of the basic guidelines in your life. The event that forever changed me and was most significant to me was when I decided what I planned on doing for the rest of my life; choosing my major. I knew exactly what I would plan on doing my
The Developmental Science textbook states that “From the moment of conception throughout life, a person’s growth is consisted by the influence of others.” I think the quote is particularly applicable to this question. The video highlighted several attributes the individual perceived themselves to possess. These attribute were most likely fostered at some point in that individual’s development by their peers or their parents. Thinking back, I think a trait fostered in me was persistence. My parents from an early age said that if you are going to start something you need to finish and do it well. My mom liked to use this saying, in particular, when it came to chores, but they also told me this when it came to academics. My parents from a very