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Most Important Moments In My Life

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There are many amazing moments one may miss if he or she is in a rush. It is ok to take the time and treasure the moments that spark life into a reality. One may not realize this until that moment is gone and becomes nothing but a memory. One of my favorite quotes written by me says: “We may have missed the moment, but soon we will have another.” That quote means that there is absolutely no reason to waste potential energy on “What ifs”, instead it would be beneficial to create one’s own moment. My friendships, family, and life challenges are my moments that define me. Live life looking for new opportunities because it is only gone for the moment. Friendships can create the most influential moments in my life because friends give me a new perspective on lessons that I may have never thought of. Friendships can easily change within a short amount of time. Some changes are for better and some are for worse, but in the end, they will change me. I am lucky enough to have a great friend who understands and only wants the best. Who I hang around is just as important as to what I want to be. Friends that do not live up to my expectations do not get to remain in my life. I left my best friend after five years because I knew he no longer lived up to my expectations and I could not be a part of something I no longer wanted to be. Our friendship ended in chaos, but brought on a new lesson for me and a new friendship that keeps me align with myself. Choose the relationships that best suites one’s needs and soon the relationships will choose you. Sometimes these friendships can turn into a family with a bond thicker than blood. Family is undoubtedly in everyone’s life. Weather his or her family is blood or not, family makes up a big part of their life. I was blessed to have a family that loves and supports me even though they do not always know what is best for me. Family to me is anyone that loves and supports me for being me and that want to see me grow. Like anyone, my family teaches me lessons and these lessons make up a huge part of my life. Parents will do what they think is best, but I must decide for myself what lessons I learn from these moments. I have learned that I must embrace every moment as a tool to help

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