Mother as Motivator of B.Ed. Trainees for Education
Patel Dharmi Baldevbhai
Assistant Professor
Shri Mahavir Vidhyamandir Trust B.Ed. College Pandesara, Surat.
Abstracts:
Motivation is the desire or drive within a person to achieve some goal. Mother’s role as a motivator is challenging for her child’s educational development. Objectives of the study are to know the qualities and to know the thoughts of mother as motivator for B.Ed. trainees. 147 trainees of 10 B.Ed. colleges affiliated with VNSGU, Surat were selected by Purposive sampling technique as a sample for present study. Researcher used content analysis method for analysis the qualitative data. Finding of the study are: Qualities of mother as motivator are Kind, tolerance, have patient, selfless, have feeling to give service, religious, peaceful, soft hearted, polite, hardworking, mixing nature, simplicity, loving, positive thinking, helping nature, emotional, accurate, strong will power, skill of cooking, maintaining social relationship, wariness regarding her child. Helpful in teaching, gain higher education, have high aim, gave knowledge of religious books, have carrier as teacher, give instruction to read, taken care of child interest, reading, educational problem, make them understand regarding importance of education, promote child to take part in co-curricular activity, Praises through word and instruction related life.
Keywords: Mother, Motivator, Education
INTRODUCTION:
Motivation is the desire or drive
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