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My Grandmother - Original Writing Essay

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On May 24th, it was a beautiful hot and sunny afternoon. I found myself sitting across from my grandmother named Nancy Parish whom my family nicknamed “Meme”. We met at her favorite lunch spot, Nordstrom’s café, which was a halfway point between my apartment and her log cabin home. My sixty-seven-year-old grandmother told me she was tickled pink and delighted that she was being interviewed for my final paper. For this interview, I decided to focus on her marriage to my grandfather named Wade whom we nicknamed “Papa Wade”. My grandfather passed away from lung cancer about fourteen years ago. He and my grandmother were happily married for over fifty years. My grandmother has always been brief and vague when I would bring up the topic of her marriage to my grandfather. Because their marriage seemed so perfect I always found her discomfort around the topic strange. So, for my interview and own personal interest, I decided to dig deeper in search for an explanation.
My grandmother’s story filled in the missing gaps of her marriage and helped to explain why she treats men much differently from women. Meme treats men as if they are an employee or a personal servant. Although I always found her treatment of men strange I ignored it. I became interested in what I consider unusual treatment towards men a couple of years ago. On my seventeenth birthday, Meme met my family and my boyfriend out for a celebratory dinner. When she arrived at my house, instead of greeting my boyfriend, she

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