My Guide to Attracting Guys

This is an assignment that I did for my Introduction to Sociology class. We are required to watch a movie and talks about what sociological perspective or theories that demonstrated in the movie. I chose the movie 'How to lost a guy in 10 days' and incorporated the functionalist views into the characters of the movie, as well as gender roles and expectations. For instance, girls or women are believe to like jewelleries as compared to current issues in the world. Therefore, Andie's idea of writing an article about the current issue for the magazine was rejected because it was said the 'no women will care about current issues, they only care about jewelleries and gossips.' Therefore, gender roles and expectations are clearly depicted in the movie.

In the article “Bros before Hos: The Guy Code”, by Michael Kimmel he writes about many different standards and ideals that young men must live up to, to be accepted in today’s society. The article talks about genders, at different ages sixteen to twenty six and how it is directed towards anyone that wants to know more about genders and how it can relate to masculinity and men. It was also based off of a book that he had written in the late two- thousands. According to (Kimmel) young men must live and abide, by a set of rules known as the spectacular “Guy Code”. The “Guy Code” was created to help understand why young men feel and act the way they do, and how masculinity may be perceived in their cultures. The code has been instilled into many young men around the world by their peers, family, and media at the age of four, or maybe even when a child has developed somewhat of a understanding. Being taught how to be masculine at a very young age is important to teach your child, it helps them discover who they are as a person, and who they are supposed to be perceived as, and how to find their inner virility as a young male. Kimmel also uses exemplification to help explain how the “Guy Code” is a collection of attitudes, values, and many traits that are together to help compose what it really means to be a man. The code lets us know how men are not suppose to cry, and how they are not suppose to be or act like sissies. But how men must be very

I am sure you can make out any excuse to have his attention - but in my experience the best one is simple "Hi" and a smile.

I thought I had covered up nicely. He would never know that I liked him; that is, unless he caught me staring intently at his face during one of my never-going-to-actually-happen-outside-of-my-head make-out sessions with

A Raisin in the Sun by Lorraine Hansberry tackles several social issues, including racism, assimilation of the African American race, and sexism. In the play, gender roles were reinforced and challenged by both male and female characters. Beneatha Younger, a smart woman that seeks education and aspires to become a doctor during the 1950’s, is naturally a victim of gender stereotypes. However, although she and her dreams are constantly being belittled by the men in her life, she stands up for herself and fights against the stereotypes.

Rules of Attraction by Simone Elkeles is her second book that comes right after the Perfect Chemistry being the first. This book talks about Alex’s youngest brother Carlos and how he was also involved with such gangs and violence, taking the same steps as his older brother Carlos decided to take the wrong path in life which brought him to much troubles then what he already had. Carlos also attends high school where he falls for his professor's daughter, soon gains strong feeling for the girl and realizes how she might want to pursue a relationship with him but he is held back in all the troublesome, Carlos afraid to lose such a unique girl like the professor's daughter and doesn’t want to involve her or her family into the trouble he himself

whistles, laughter and an oh so "brave" young fellow who is hungry for some action.

Dating has changed so much over time. With advances in technology, it’s easier than ever to strike up a conversation with someone new. However, in the past there have been scripts to follow, or an order to do things in. For example, someone would ask the other person out, they would start dating, get married, move in together, and then have kids. In today’s world, there is no set script. Many people are doing things differently, and in different orders. As people are becoming more and more tolerant of differences, dating is evolving to include things it never used to. With this all happening, dating and hooking up in today’s world is as messy and confusing as ever. Learning about it while also experiencing some of the same things first hand while at college has been interesting.

Be laid back and witty. - Don't come on too forceful or strong. Ask a girl what she's up to, how her day was, and be silly and cute. If you want to flirt, do so lightly. You want her to like you and to know you are interested, but you want it to be comfortable so you can strike up a friendship.

And to do this, you need to have the mindset where you really believe that you’re a highly desirable guy. If you walk around thinking that you’re just an average nobody, how’s that going to work to make women want you? It is not. So, you can see that mindset plays a huge role in being able to seduce women.

Dorothy, Dorothy oh Dorothy can’t you see? You’ll never meet a guy like me. Everyone else is simply too the same. Think out of the box, don’t be ashamed!

My guess would be that you are not being completely honest with yourself insofar as your personality is concerned. I’ll take you at your word that you are “above average” in the looks department. And I also assume you are not socially awkward as you say. But your personality is somehow saying “keep away I’m not interested,” or “I’m looking for a very particular guy,” so don’t ask me out unless you’re that guy. With the latter inference, John may have nailed it when he said you simply don’t remember when the “wrong” guys have asked you out. I personally imagine that it would very difficult at your age not to remember (or have had) at least one “right guy” ask you out?

Take time for yourself, groom yourself well and take time each morning to dress well so that you are prepared all the time. Not only this helps to attract men but also gives you the confidence when a guy approaches you.

A guy has only a few body languages which indicate he is into a girl. Try to read his body language to easily find out about his feelings.

No doubt you know how to entice a man, but sometimes you just want to make every dude idolize you. Communications expert “swears” that flirting tips will turn you into that girl.