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My Mother The Crazy African American

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In Amanda Ngozi Adichie’s short story, “My Mother, the Crazy African American,” it presents the relationship between mother and daughter, and their misunderstandings and struggles. Ralindu grew up in Nigeria. Ralindu’s father works in America and three years after his residency was approved Ralindu came to America, and she is now getting used to American culture. This situation has caused problems with her mom who came to America with her. Her mother still sticks to their Nigerian traditions such as foods and their mannerisms. She wants her daughter, Ralindu, to act like her. Adichie illustrates how first young generation wishes to act as a typical American teenager and that induces a disconnection with their original culture which causes conflict …show more content…

She shows how some teens like Ralindu acts like they do not know their own culture. In the story, Ralindu’s mother would always welcome new Nigerians in their city, but Ralindu thinks that the newcomers should not be with them and eating her mother’s dish. Ralindu would rather speak English with the “accidental guest” who are Nigerians than speaking Igbo. Also, in the story, Ralindu was embarrassed in speaking in Igbo when Matt was at their house, “She (Ralindu’s mother) ask if we are almost done in Igbo, and before I say yes, I pause for a long moment so Matt won’t think I understand Igbo.” Ralindu pretends that she does not know much about Nigeria’s language and culture. Ralindu wants to prevent people from knowing she is a Nigerian and grew up in Nigeria. Adichie illustrates in the story that some teens feel embarrassed about the culture they have grown up …show more content…

It explains that Ralindu’s mother wants to signify that she wants her daughter to be like her, following the traditions and manners of a Nigerian kid. Even though Ralindu’s mother kept scolding her about her actions, Ralindu still follow what she to be like, to be a typical American kid. In the end of the story, Ralindu wishes to have a mother like Cathy’s mother who grounds their children as a punishment.This show that Ralindu wants her mother to act differently and be more of a typical American mother like Cathy’s. Adichie portrays how some parents want their children to follow the same culture they grew up with and how it created conflict between the relationship of the parent and the

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