My Relationship With My Daughter

“For parents who are having great difficulty sharing parenting responsibilities without becoming embroiled in conflict, legal and mental health professionals may help to create detailed parenting plans that limit parents’ interactions with each other and structure transitions with their children at a neutral site.”

In order to build positive relationships with children and young people, you will need to take into consideration their age, behaviours and cultures and therefore adapt your communication skills and body language accordingly.

My virtual family consists my partner and a daughter, Nameste Denell (Manis, 2014). The transition from being a couple to being a triad was a bumpy one (Manis, 2014). My partner and I have had some obstacles most of which had to do with money (Manis, 2014). We even contemplated divorce shortly after Nameste Denell was born (Manis, 2014). My partner worked full-time outside the home and I was a stay-at-home mom (Manis, 2014). Nameste Denell was three when Jasmine Leann came along (Manis, 2014). She looked forward to helping and playing with her baby sister (Manis, 2014). Soon after Jasmine Leann was born my partner and I saved enough money to move from our neighborhood, which was becoming overrun by crime (Manis, 2014). We bought

In order to develop a positive relationship with anyone it is important to be able to demonstrate effective communication skills, no relationship can start without verbal communication and the way that we speak to each other is important as it tells us a lot about the other person. In response to this you need to be able to show that you are listening so that you can respond in an appropriate manner. How we communicate depends on the person; it differs whether this be adult to adult, child to child, adult to child the style of communication is always needed to be altered. For effective communication to take place you need to be at a similar level with the person you are communicating with so it doesnâ€TMt appear that someone has more power than the other.

Jazzmine continues to move in and out of her grandmother’s house without updating my wife and I with a new address. She has also been neglecting Dereon medical; Dereon had a fungus in his head for almost a year due to Jazzmine forgetting to give him his daily medication. Within the first month of Dereon living in my home ongoing this summer, the fungus is no longer present. She doesn't seem to care about his well-being, I have often times picked up Jazzmine’s slack when it comes to parenting. Dereon recently wanted to join the little league football team, and I was proud to assist with signing him up, but Jazzmine spoke to me as if this is a hindrance to her daily schedule. To ensure my son continues to work on his social skills and enjoy sports with his brother, I am willing to pick and drop my son off daily for practice. I have established some family members to assist me when I am unable to. It seems as if Dereon is more of a burden than a blessing; she always make excuses regarding school participation, recreation, and parenting as a

The relation between a mother and a little girl can make a tremendous disunity in their relationship since they have diverse perspectives on life, and how they ought to deal with it. In the The Joy Luck Club a fiction novel written by Amy Tan, a story is described of An - Mei Hsu and her daughter Rose Hsu Jordan, who is going through a separation. An - Mei needs Rose to battle to save her marriage, understand the Chinese way, and keep her respect among her family. The relationship between An - Mei Hsu and Rose Hsu Jordan demonstrates that dialect is a block divider, since they don 't comprehend what they need.

So it was important for me to identify and maintain the things that I thought were best to reach my goal of raising my child successfully. I decided that will implement a schedule, be firm on the expectations and acknowledge behaviors that will result in consequences. I had to be fair, remembering when I was young and not having an opportunity to express my feelings and have a say in what was more desirable for me. I made a conscious decision earlier on that I will not put stress of that nature onto my child. Finally, my parenting style will establish a safe boundary between being firm and friendly. I believe that firm communication can exist without screaming profusely and making any child feel as if there inferior to the world. I believe that you do not have to break down some before you will actually build them

During my conversation with my son I had to try and put myself in his shoes. As we set down and began talking my tone was very emotional, I am very angry about how he is living his life at this time. I want him to make some changes and I want to scream at him hoping that at some point he will understanding why I am pushing him to do better. I know at this point that if I wasn’t careful with my tone and the words that I use that I am going to lose his interest period. As we sat and talked I had to stop talking and listen to his reasoning for doing things the way he has been. As soon as he began to speak I got angry because I raised him better. I can’t help but to think about the moral and religious beliefs I have instilled in him that he seems to have forgotten. Even though I was able to listen to my son, I still can’t relate to where he is coming from however now I do have a better understanding. I have always had an opening relationship with my son where he knows that he could tell me anything. He knows that I may get angry at first but after hearing what he has to say, I will take a cool off spell and come back

Ashley’s family history seems to be pretty normal, and both of her parents are involved in her life. Ashley 's parents are not divorced, and she has a younger brother who is age 6 months. Debbie said that they are not experiences any marital or money problems at the current moment. Ashley and her younger brother both come to our center, while her parents are at work. Debbie and her husband work the same hours, and are home with the children the same amount of hours everyday. Debbie drops off Ashley in the morning, and her Father picks her up in the afternoons. Ashley 's parents are very organized in their schedules, and keep a continual schedule for the children, they feel that this is an essential part of their lives to stay on schedule, and to not interrupt the children 's schedules also. Ashley comes to the center 4 days a week Monday – Thursday from 7:30am until 5:00pm. I spoke with Debbie about how her pregnancy with Ashley went and if she had any problems with her pregnancy. Debbie did not have any sort of issues with her pregnancy with Ashley, she said it went smoothly, and that they had planned ahead for having a child and this helped keep their stress levels down. Debbie took

Last night I went to a Pre-k graduation for my grandson. I decided that would be a great place to observe parenting styles. Little did I know that I would be observing parenting styles of the older children instead of the 4-5 year olds. There was a family standing next to us during the ceremony and after. I noticed a 10-12 year old boy talking to a man, maybe dad, maybe mom’s friend? The two of them were communicating back and forth fairly well. There was a little girl in the graduation class that was very out spoken and she was cute, for a little while. My granddaughter made a few cute remarks about the little girl and the lady beside us did too. So Chloe, my granddaughter, ask the lady if that was her daughter. She relied, no, I couldn’t

bonds with her daughter on a daily basis by driving her to school, making her lunches, and helping her get ready for preschool. They do things together as a family and when the daughter gets sick, M.S. takes off work to attend to her. The rules are flexible as her daughter ages, but the rules are known. M.S. stated a big rule at this time is, “Bed time at 8:30.” She allows her daughter to go outside and play with the dogs in addition to play dates. There is currently no reproductive family planning at this time because her focus is on her daughter. Her daughter is active in a dance group that holds a parade and M.S. sews all their costumes together while her daughter dances in the parade. Her daughter is also taking English classes because even though M.S. doesn’t speak English very well she, “Wants her daughter to speak it

I am going to wait until I am mentally and financially stable to raise a child, so that I can raise them without constantly worrying about money, and focus on the wellbeing and intelligence of my child. With distractions like money, I have found it is easy for parents to forget how important it is to give undivided attention to the choices and development of a child. My uncle for example, is one of the kindest people I have ever met, but his desire for money has resulted in absences during crucial moments in the child’s life. This resulted in their child acting out in school, something very unusual for their kid to do. I went on to explain to him, the reason your daughter is acting out, is because she feels that by doing “acting out” is the only way to get the fathers attention. By observing other people’s parenting styles and seeing witch ones work best, it helps me take note on how I might do better. As for my parents, it is my goal in life, to one day be successful enough to pay off all the debts, and all the time they spent on me. Lord knows they have spent enough of me, and I am forever grateful, and giving back to them would mean a lot to

• Communication does appear to open between family members. The children will, when confronted, openly discuss issues of concern with mother.

I hope your daughter is doing well, not only physically, but also emotionally. I really don’t know what I would’ve done if that happened to any of my girls. I am glad you took her away from the situation all together because it would probably help on her physical and mental healing process.

When it comes to raising a kid every parent wants to be the best parent. Many of them wonder if they are giving the right environment for the physical and behavioral growth of their kids. The reality is; most parents do not remain the best parents or at least good parents.