My whole life it has felt as if I’ve been stuck in the trap of society. Society these days expects everyone to be one exact way, and I’m sick of it. I’m only human, I can’t be expected to have long blonde hair, big light blue eyes, the “perfect body,” and a pretty face. Yeah, I have none of those. My hair is a chocolate brown color with messy curls, I have dull grey-blue-green eyes, I definitely don’t have the “perfect body,” and I’m like average when it comes to my appearance. I’m not saying it's bad to have all of those perfect traits, I’m just saying that people don’t need to waste their time in order to be like that. I am not even going to try to be all of those, because what's the point of looking better just for other people. I don’t …show more content…
Sure, I share traits with them, but I’m still different from them. I’ve never exactly fit in with one exact clique. In high-school, I could’ve fit in with the bookworms, the computer geeks, the smart alecks, the obsessive track and field runners, and the mathletes, but I don’t exactly fit in with just one of those. It's kind of like Tobias’s deal in Divergent where he doesn’t think he is part of just one of the factions, he believes he fits in with the Abnegation, and the Dauntless, and the Erudite, and the Amity, and the Candor. Just saying, if you don’t understand that, we can’t be friends. Anyways, he believes that he is selfless, and brave, and intellectual, and optimistic, and honest. In my case, I love reading, I work well with computers, I could be recognized as smart, I enjoy track and field, and I was part of the math team every year in high school. I am not part of any of the cliques, I just share the same traits with most of them. I am part of my own clique I guess, which doesn't have a particular …show more content…
“You’re kidding me right?” I answered a little nervous. They just laughed. “Right!?” I added. The two men stopped laughing and they looked me dead in the eye: “We’re dead serious.” One of them stated. I had a mini panic attack for a few seconds. I mean seriously, how am I possibly going to survive that? “Well, anyways,” the other began, “we decided that in a week or so you will have to go up into the Columbia Mountain and live up there for at least a month, but you can only bring a limited supply of food and water and maybe like a survival book or something.” The other one nodded in agreement. “But-” I began, but one of them interrupted me. “No buts about it, you have to do it since you agreed.” “I was kidding though!” I screeched. “Too late.”
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Clint Smith presents the view of racial stereotypes that plague the lives of many people and how they negatively affect the freedom of choice and activity, of children and adults of race through figurative language and tone. His father sheds light on the boundaries created by society, and struggles to get the truth through to the naive Clint Smith. Clint Smith was unaware of the weight he would be burdened with through his life, and as a kid, he was only worried about having friends and fun. Clint Smith tries to get the point across that, the line between something being viewed as having good and malicious intent, can be skewed, by something as basic and inconsequential as race. Clint Smith sees and calls out all the stereotypes, and their effects on society in his works.
"America is the greatest and most powerful country in the world, not just because of our army but because of the values of our people” Obama.
Have you ever been judged for the way you look? Have you ever been told that you are not pretty enough? This might be because we live in an appearance conscious world, and unless you have the ideal look you will be judged. This has affected many lives of all ages and genders to try to improve their appearance. We hear everywhere that we need to wear certain things, to act certain ways, and most commonly, that we need to lose weight to be happy and accepted in today’s society. This has caused many tragic injuries and mental illnesses to be introduced into the world today.
Beautiful. Everyone wants to look beautiful, but who determines what beautiful is? Being ugly is a problem that everyone fears. Getting under the knife on a surgical table is an answer to the problem. Eating an apple and only an apple, once a day is the other answer to the problem. The problem of not looking beautiful is slowly wiping out the naturally beautiful men and women. What are you to do when looking like you do, is not beautiful? A great amount of people go to this extent because of what influence them the most – parents, boys/girls, lovers, and friends – tell them. Someone who does not have the crease in her eyelids, someone who hates their fat chin, or someone who
In this world there are many things people are guilty of, one of those guilt’s is stereotyping others , even if it wasn’t meant in a harmful are negative way we all have been a victim or the aggressor . This paper will discuses what stereotypes are, how they affect people and how stereotypes can affect society. However, the common factor in either situation is that no good comes from stereotyping others.
One of the main themes that I noticed when I was reading through the fairy tale texts was the theme of stereotypes. Firstly, what are stereotypes? Stereotypes are essentially an offensive generalization or an over exaggerated view that is used to categorize a group of people. I noticed that in two of the three texts that I have selected for this paper, the authors, Jakob Grimm and Wilhelm Grimm, tend to portray women as being very dependent on men. In addition, to being depicted as being very dependent, they were also shown to be weak and very naïve. My goal in this paper is to highlight the numerous accounts of stereotypes that are cast mainly upon women and sometimes men as well, whether it be fictional or
“Judging by the pointing and laughing, I’d say they were talking about me,” I replied.
I am so tired of living in my own skin. I see all of these girls with hair in rich colors; hair that flows in waves. I see beautiful girls with porcelain-like skin, with eyes framed by long lashes. Straight noses, full lips- all seeming like the picture of perfection.
Once people have been the dark, they learn to appreciate everything that shines. Stereotypes were one of the many darknesses that had haunted me. Stereotypes can consume every fiber of a human being if allowed. Stereotypes controlled me for various years. Eventually learning to break free and not let others control me. The usual stereotype had been “troublemaker”. I had always been told I'm going down the path of a failure and that nothing good could come from my life. A troublemaker is meant to do nothing with their lives and live a “good for nothing” life in a jail cell. The stereotype had become all consuming and took me down a dark path, which would have led to a jail cell. If the path had continued i would not be able to write this essay. Growing up, always having this dark
At a young age, we are taught to adhere to norms and are restricted to conform to society’s given rules. We are taught that straying away from stereotypes is anything but good and encouraged to build our lives upon only these social rules. Recently, stereotypes based on genders have been put into the limelight and have become of high interest to a generation that is infamously known for deviating from the established way of life. Millennials have put gender roles under fire, deeming it a form of segregation and discrimination by gender. Researchers have followed suit. Mimicking millennial interests, numerous studies have been published that detail the relationship between gender, stereotypes, and the effects of the relationship between the two. Furthermore, gender roles have been used as a lens to study socialization; tremendous amounts of interest have prompted studies on the inheritance and dissemination of norms, culture, and ideologies based on the stereotypes that cloud gender. For sociologists, determining the extent of the impact of gender stereotypes on socializing our population has become a paramount discussion. Amidst many articles, the work of Karniol, Freeman, and Adler & Kless were standouts and between the three pieces, childhood served as a common thread; more specifically, these researchers studied how gender roles impact socialization from such a young age.
It is easy to think of stereotypes for countries a person has never been to, but for people who have been to multiple countries, their perspective changes. On Thursday, October 26, 45 foreign exchange students from around the world came to Xavier High School for the annual event of International Round Table in the Regis-Lasalle theatre.
What is the worst stereotype you’ve ever dealt with? Depending on who you know, that can be a dangerous question. I personally live a great life, with people who don’t intentionally splinter my integrity. However, I have been stereotyped, but my mine was a medical one. I was diagnosed at age nine, with a physical disability- Muscular Dystrophy. At the time, it didn’t faze me, because it was only a mere tittle. Notwithstanding, my disease got worse and gradually affected me. It started with me losing mobility in my arms. My doctors warned me that no kid with Muscular Dystrophy would be physically able to play sport, and I was expected to alter my life to my diseases’ needs. I didn’t; I didn’t want to. I played softball at the time and I was pretty
There are many ways to counter your tendencies to think in stereotyped or prejudiced ways. You can try to avoid conflict between groups. You can be competitive without taking it too far. For example, if you and someone else are both trying to get the same job, don’t argue with your competitor. You have to remember that there are other jobs available and you won’t be doomed if you don’t get this job. You don’t have to win all the time, you just have to be the best you can be. There will be other jobs or even games but it’s pointless to argue and waste your time. Also if you’re included in a stereotype don’t get upset, it’s just a stereotype. Show them you’re not in that stereotype. Show them you are better than the normal stereotype. The best
Diversity has never been an issue that I have ever truly had to deal with. Coming from a community with a very diverse population, I normally find it harder to function in a community where there is very little diversity. In my years of living in my community, I have found one thing to be very true, when in a diverse community there is more collaborating of ideas, more creative thinking flowing between groups. Now as I say this, I do not deny that I have dealt with the repercussions of certain stereotypes even within my own diverse community. As a woman, I have dealt with many of the gender stereotypes placed on us from an early age. I have dealt with one stereotype in particular and that is the fact that I am a “ginger”. I’m used to the “ginger
In today’s world, we get lost in the perfect image that is put out there, for women it’s having a perfect face, the perfect body, and an even more perfect boyfriend. For men it’s having a muscular body, having strength as no other, and having the perfect haircut at all times. But how are we supposed to express our individuality if we all look the same? Throw that image away and be the best you. Work to better yourself in the way you are supposed to look, not how someone else looks.