My Story Of Hyper-Flexibility

I remember watching old home videos of me and my sister and observing the contrast of our personalities even though she’s older than me by just one year.I specifically remember in one of those old tapes, my sister being loud,talkative and outgoing rambling about a bumblebee and me sitting in a corner attempting to pull the phone cord out of the wall.It was evident that I was the more shy and quiet sister.Around age five is when my character started to bloom due to my exposer and love of dance.

As any good parents, my mother and father wanted my siblings and I to have the best education we could possibly afford; thus, unlike all my cousins, all three of us attended private schools. My sister, Ysa, is seven years my senior and she was the ideal child, always got perfect grades, kind, hardworking, and obedient. In contrast, my brother, JP, who is

My sister and I, 28 minutes apart, are fraternal twins. Twins have a very special and unique bond. However, being a twin isn’t just rainbows and sunshine, it’s much more complex than that. It’s the feeling of constant comparison in every aspect of our lives. We were never invited to do activities as individuals, it was both of us, or none at all. I can tell you about the time I was 4 years old and I cut my sisters hair off so my parents would pay attention more to me, or at our 5th grade dance recital when everyone complimented her on her smile and I cried because they didn’t compliment me.

In life people are often compare each other for relative success, and so often and conveniently siblings are compared to each other. We see this comparison in Christiana’s Henriquez’s novel, The Book of Unknown Americans with the characters of Enrique and Mayor. Between the two brothers, one has clearly accomplished more great feats in his parents’ eyes, him being Enrique. Throughout the book the accomplishment of Enrique is felt acts as a burden towards his younger brother, Mayor. Mayor, try as he might, is not his brother and this is seen through Mayor failures to meet the standards of Enrique presented in the book. There is a sibling rival between the brothers created by their father Rafael Toro. An advancement of knowledge on the subject of sibling rivals can help us to further understand the situation of the brothers, by examining the studies of some scholars on the effects older siblings have on the younger siblings. Rebecca Webber’s “Two Sibling, One Spotlight” focus on how the older sibling set the goals for the younger siblings. Zeng-yin Chen and Ruth X. Liu work “Comparing Adolescent Only Children with Those Who Have Siblings on Academic Related Outcomes and Psychosocial Adjustment” research allows for an insight of real life academics of only and children with siblings generalized results in an academic test; presenting a significant difference between the two. Jensen, Alexander C. and Susan M. McHale “What Makes Siblings Different? The development of Sibling Differences in Academic Achievements and Interest” argues that more academically successful older siblings generate higher expectation of parents to push the younger sibling to achieve similar academics goals. Though most of the data indicate that the older sibling usually outperforms the younger siblings – academically - I will argue, this sibling rivalry is not a negative but rather if anything is positive for the younger sibling.

The world spins on the basis of comparison. For example, one often seems to differentiate between eating a meal at Chicken Express or Raising Cane’s. It may be that Chicken Express has better sweet tea, but Raising Cane’s chicken has a better flavor to it than Chicken Express. As I was sitting in a booth at Raising Canes with my family, I began to compare my two siblings: Salvador and Sebastian. Even though my siblings both are males and love football, their similarities stop there.I found many contrasts that stood out to me about them such as- their obvious differences in physical appearances, the love and dislike of books, and their introverted or extraverted personalities.

In “I’m Not My Brother; I’m Me,” author Peg Kehret expresses the expectations passed down from her two older brothers and the negative impacts these expectations had on her. From my point of view, I fully agree with the author. In my case, I have a 23-year old sister who is the epitome of perfection. She graduated top of her class in both high school and university, is athletic, and is currently working on Wall Street in New York City. In addition, she is very diligent at Chinese, public speaking, and ultimately anything related to school. As a result of this, as one can imagine, I constantly live in her long shadow. My sister is a very goal-oriented person and strives to reach them. She knew exactly what she wanted to be and the path she had to take to get there at a very young age. Throughout

Kit sat in a corner chair, during one of her mother’s doctor appointments. Her mother was perched on the center exam table. Kit pointed out to the doctor that her mother was acting odd, belligerent, even though she was snippy before, her mother, was acting more childlike sticking out her tongue when the doctor tuned his back, becoming angry when she was asked questions. If the conversation wasn’t about her, she became angry and demanded they spoke only about her.

Growing up in a house full of girls had its challenges. My two sisters and I argue on a daily and me being four years older definitely put an hinderance on our relationship. Being four years older made it difficult for our relationship because we went through difficult defining times in our life at the same time. When I was starting high school they were starting middle school, when I was trying to find my place in the world as I go through college their still living in la la land as they make their way through high school. Those difference of the point we were in life made it difficult and still makes it difficult for us to understand how each other feels in the situation it makes it hard to understand why

One of the narrators of the story is Libby Strout who is a round, dynamic protagonist. Libby changes tremendously from beginning to end. She learns to love her body no matter what. Even though the girls around her are "prettier and thinner" Libby chooses to not compare herself. All of her struggles just keep adding up, but she decides to fight. Dealing with her mother's death was one of the hardest things she had to overcome. She was afraid and she hid from everyone. After being stuck in her house, Libby knew she needed to get better. She lost a lot of weight and felt ready to go back to high school. Everyone laughed and pointed at her, but Libby held her head

Virginia Shreves, also known as “Ginny” is a self conscious sophomore who struggles with her weight. She has a love interest that she makes out with every monday, he is known as Froggy Welch the Fourth. “But Froggy and I don 't score high on the communication front. Especially once we 've stuck our tongues into each other 's mouths. I think it 's because we 're not boyfriend and girlfriend or even friends, for that matter.” 4-[9] She is so self conscious about her weight that she wears baggy clothing and never shows an ounce of skin. At first she didn’t know how to feel about Froggy, after all who could love the chubby girl who wears an extra large? Virginia’s mother, Dr. Phyllis Shreves is an adolescent psychologist; Phyllis has a problem with obsessing over Virginia’s weight. Virginia’s father is constantly complimenting the thin figures of woman which makes her feel unsatisfactory for not only herself but her whole family. “But I can 't help wishing she 'd accept me the way I am. And I can 't help wondering whether if I were thin, I 'd get invited to these fancy dinners as well.”6-[35]Virginia has a beautiful, thin older sister, otherwise known as Anais Shreves who is a rebellious individual.”It made sense at the time. But now it dawns on

Showing flexibility is understanding what changing conditions mean in the organization. As a member’s skills, we will roll with the punches; and will adapt to ever-changing situations. Will not complaint or get disturb for something new being tried or some new approach taken. All considerations of different points of views and compromise will be looked at when needed. We will not hold rigid to a point of view and argue it to death, especially when the needs to move forward to make a decision or get something done. Will stand firm in our thoughts yet open to what others have to offer – flexibility is the name. Will constantly show commitment to the members and the organization. We will care about our work, the members, and the member’s work.

As an identical twin my mother has always pulled a few strings to have my sister and me in the same classes throughout elementary school. We were absolutely inseparable. Transitioning from elementary to middle school was a milestone for me. Every class I was placed in was different from my sister’s. I was friendless, and at

I come from a four-person family. My mom and dad have always been in my life therefore they are the people who raised me. After seeing my parents have a successful marriage, it has influenced me to want the same thing in life and having my first marriage be my last. I have an older sister who is 23. While growing up, me and my sister had a very close relationship. As we grew up, we started to drift apart. I learned a lot from being the youngest child. While being 3 years younger than my sister Taylor, watching her grow up and deal with situations taught me many personal life lessons. Watching her grow up taught me the good and bad things in life and helped me follow the right path. While going through school, I already knew what to expect when it came to the class description and the teacher just by having my sister go through it just a couple years before me. Even though being the younger sister, my whole life is all I know, I couldn’t imagine

I have 3 siblings; two brothers and one sister. My sister “Isha-27”, Little brother “Ishmael-10”, and my older brother “I.B-18”, we all grew up and spent the most of our lives with each other. I think I’ve always known that I was a little different from my brothers and my sister, but it's okay because we are all different in many ways. Now my story on how it's like living with 3 siblings with personalities are all different and how we all like certain things but we all manage to live together in harmony , my older brother is more into sports and my little brother is more into video games; my sister is more into reading a writing and more i'm more into math and science. At times it gets extremely annoying living with them

The family unit across the globe is valued by almost all cultures as the most important social structure in which humans form the tightest bonds. Now significant evidence to suggest that within the family structure the relationship and interaction between siblings is the most impactful relationship of a human’s lifetime. Researchers have only recently become interested in the unique relationship between siblings. Siblings have been found to advance one another’s social, emotional, and cognitive development (Mcguire and Shanahan, 2010). Researchers are now are posing the question, “Are our relationships with our siblings the most important of all?”