My View Of Arranged Marriage

Arranged marriage may sound strange in the United States as it is impractical in this country. According to Gagoomal. Arranged marriage is broadly defined as unions in which people other than the bride and groom, typically parents or other family members, play important or decisive roles in determining who marries whom I strongly believe that the arranged marriage is a good choice and beneficial because an arranged marriage is believed to guarantee a mate for us, more stable compared to a love marriage in terms of love, and leads to perpetual happiness. it is difficult to find a mate nowadays especially in the United States because people are very busy with their work and have no time to find life partner. This is due to the job prospect as many countries are rapidly developing.

Both arranged marriages and romantic marriages have good and bad points. Cultures such as India, Japan, and Ethiopia have had arranged marriages since the dawn of time. In America we allow our young adults to make their own decisions on whom to marry. Would Americans accept the practice of parents deciding whom they are going to marry without considering their wants or feelings? The answer is an emphatic NO! Americans are hopelessly romantic and fiercely believe in freedom of choice. Arranged marriages would never be accepted in American culture.

Arranged Marriage vs. Free-choice Marriage"Happy marriages begin when we marry the ones we love, and they blossom when we love the ones we marry" (Tom Mullen, 2005, p.1). It is argued that free-choice marriages based on love or romance, offer more independence and freedom as compared to arranged marriages where the man and woman are chosen by the parents and so there is pressure and is not so suitable and independent. However, no marriage is necessarily an ideal sort of marriage. Therefore, it becomes difficult to predict the ideal sort of marriage. The decision is upon the individual, whether he or she wants to be part of an arrange or free-choice marriage. There are two main types of marriages that are practiced in various societies and

A common issue seen with this is the concept of arranged marriage. Some might think that this tradition only happens in third world or foreign countries. This is not the case. A journalist from Harvard, Anita Jain, writes about her difficulties and her parent’s persistence to get her married. Anita said, “My parents, in a very earnest bid to secure my eternal happiness, have been trying to marry me off to, well, just about anyone lately.” Although this could be seen as her parents trying to help her and find her a spouse, think if it was you in that position.

Love is portrayed in society as a perfect bond between two people and that they live happily ever after but that is not always the case. In the story “Once upon a Time in a Tent” written by Tim Neville talks about his time living in a tent in his backyard and his journey through his three relationships. In the story “The Arranged Marriage” written by Mira Jacob she talks about how her parents are in an arranged marriage and never showed any affection towards each other.

In Their Eyes Were Watching God by Zora Hurston, a former slave named Nanny perception of a classic marriage is if the marriage provides security, protection, and wealth. Other people view marriage in a different perspective such as class or race, or maybe even to break their insecurity of being alone. To Nanny's personal view of marriage, being safe and well fed is enough for a wife to live. Nanny's perspective of marriage was deprived from the harsh living conditions during her time as a slave. She now has this thought that race isn't an issue, and that class is the only security a women can receive from a spouse.

Sociology: Arranged Marriage Introduction For my sociology coursework project, I have decided to carry out an investigation on family. My research question is; "is marriage still important amongst the Asian community?” I think that what my project is based upon is interesting because I would be able to find out different views on arranged marriages. I would also find out if there’s a contrast between younger Asians and elder Asians on views on marriage.

Leaving out instances of forced and underage marriages, the concept of having someone else choose your spouse is particularly straightforward. They have an exceptionally low divorce rate, around 6% or so according to “The Daily Cougar”, a news website run by students at the University Of Houston. The forum has been around since 1928 and since it is run by a University, the writers of the article are college educated, many of the articles are very balanced so it's a relatively reliable source. They focus on many aspects of the couples lives including personality, values, wealth, and even astrology for those who practice hinduism. Unlike with dating, various limitations are put up first in order to narrow down the pool of potential suitors and increase the likelihood of a successful relationship, in turn often reducing the amount of time it would normally take for a reliable match. The pressure is instead turned towards the parents who may spend years ensuring that the families and the couple are compatible rather than giving that responsibility to both individual partners. Shanthi Seshadri depicts her arranged marriage to CNN by saying,“They grew together because it was new and awkward and special for both of them. And no matter what came their way….they stayed together and they dealt with it.” A view

When you think of arranged marriages you will probably have an image of a 16th to 19th century picture going on in your head since that’s when it was really common and normalize back then, but that’s not always the case because even now in modern times arranged marriages are still practiced throughout other places and countries such as India, Japan, and China. Some keep up these old traditions for their religious beliefs and others for their own personal reasons. As we step into modern times though, a new type of forming a relationship has had an uprising for the past decade or so which has come to be known as online dating. Some may feel like online dating is different from arranged marriages and in a way it is but in many ways, online dating and arranged marriages have the same structure just with fewer people involved.

Nowadays lots of people encounter divorce in their lives. Statistics tells us that a divorce rate has been dramatically increased in the USA over the last century from 29% to 55%. Thus it turns out that every second American marriage ends in a divorce. This is an extremely sad statistic! What are the reasons for such a striking change that made a divorce a usual outlet? Is it connected to our advancement in technology or a lack of communication? Whatever the reason, we must change it.

In American culture the view on arranged marriages are not looked at very favorably. This is because we have grown up with the knowledge that when it comes time to marry we will have chosen our spouse of our own free will. The match will be a love match and one that is chosen through our own needs. Young men and women in India grow up with an opposite view on marriage. They know that when it comes time to marry their parents will find them a suitable mate and it will be considered scared and a lifelong commitment (Agence France-Presse.) A total of 74 percent of respondents from across India voted in favour of traditional "arranged" marriages, according to the poll by private television channel NDTV. In the Hindu faith, marriage is

“ In the name of God, I take you to be my wife/ husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until we are parted by death. This is my solemn vow.” In an arranged marriage, two complete strangers come together by family, religion, or ethics to become spouses. Stating these meaning packed words, the two vow lives to one another while barely knowing the other. Yet, that is whom the parents have chosen, so that is whom the person must wed. When this takes place self-choice becomes eliminated and God-given rights become invisible. Arranged marriages should not be lawful in the United States.

Marriage is the supposed “vow of love”, that roots stem from traditional and oppressive gender roles. In the older days, men would head the entanglement and the women followed behind, leaving substantial room for incorrect ideas of partnership to fill the couples’ values. Many men and women still marry today but, more younger generations are realizing that it is not necessary to live a successful life with your partner. With the newer ideas of feminism circulating many women are realizing that it is not beneficial for them and is a metaphorical restraint. While some people believe it is a beautiful kinship of love and two souls becoming one, others see it is a death sentence for autonomy and freedom.

Marriage is a union that has been around for as long as humans have walked the earth. The human race depends upon the union of its members, and as such, the subject of marriage has been an issue that receives more intense scrutiny and attention than many would likely believe. In today's day and age, with humanity continuing to move in a modern direction, many argue that marriage is a union that should be entered into freely and should be based exclusively on the love between two people. However, I argue that arranged marriage, which has taken place throughout the ages and throughout the world, is a union that offers its observers a marriage based in support, longevity and love, and is an institution that should not be frowned upon.

In India, marriage is a mean that relies on the parents' decisions. For example, Marriages in India are arranged marriages, they are forcing two people to get married. Marriages in this country is not a relationship of love for two people, but a connection between two families. Moreover, in this type of arranged marriage, the husband and wife have never met each other, and they have to live as a lifetime term with a partner that they don’t even know before. Indian family said that “Their kids will love and understand each other when they spend time to live together. Even though the arrangement of marriage in some countries