Has it ever been difficult for you to make a choice? Especially if you are not certain which choice is the correct one to make? You are not alone. The two books, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time and The Wave, contain two main characters under pressure to make decisions neither one felt was right. In The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time, Christopher decided to leave his unintentionally abusive father and live with his mother in London. And in The Wave, Laurie, a senior at Gordon High, decided not to perform the inhumane tasks which being part of a popular group, called The Wave, required of its members, despite the threat of iron-fisted violence. Sometimes, other people create compelling arguments in support …show more content…
In The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time, after the police had just finished their interview with Christopher, who they had determined to be a suspect in the murder of a dog named Wellington, Christopher told his father, Ed of his intentions of finding out who really killed the dog. His father's anger provoked attempt to sway Christopher not to begin his own investigation was to “[bang] the steering wheel with his fists” (21, Haddon), causing “the car [to weave] a little bit across the dotted line in the middle of the road” (21, Haddon). Then “he shouted, 'I said leave it, for God's sake.' (21, Haddon) Christopher becomes afraid of his father, after Christopher's father tells him, that in fact it was he the father who had killed the dog. Christopher explained this fear in depth when “..it was 1:20 am but [he] hadn't heard father come upstairs to bed. [He] wondered if [his father] was asleep downstairs or whether [his father] was waiting to come to kill [him]. So [he] got out [his] Swiss Army knife and opened the saw blade so that [he] could defend myself." (123, Haddon) The encounters Christopher has with his father, mirror the experiences Laurie has while interacting with her ex-boyfriend …show more content…
Of course, many teens will never experience the level of nighttime terror Christopher faced from his father in The Curious Incident of the Night-time, or the secretive emotional and physical abuse Laurie faced from her ex-boyfriend in The Wave. But regardless of how learning to do the right thing takes shape for the growing young life of the average teen, standing apart from the crowd and being a unique voice with an equally unique perspective can feel like being inmured and being set free, at the same time. The mind of a wise teen creates social and emotional strain by triggering an awareness of right and wrong, as well as a desire to vocalize this approach. So, sitting back and being quiet about the circumstances is no longer possible. Once the darkness of ones own fear is subdue, and the quiet inner voice is heard by others, the challenges of facing the anger from others begins. Whether a boy is telling his parents he is gay. Or a young woman tells her boyfriend, she is not ready to be intimate with him. At some point, we are all faced with choices which we must make, whether we are prepared to or not. Our inner voice will usually be too loud for us to disregard, and we will feel compelled to be the distinctive individual we are, and say what we are thinking or feeling, reguardless of how we believe others will reciprocate. This requires
Because of his asperger syndrome, Christopher has a difficult time understanding and determining when people are joking. It’s interesting to see him put his fear on stand by until he can decide whether his dad is kidding or not. When he suddenly realizes his dad is serious he makes an immediate and logical connection between his dad murdering the dog and the thought that he might be next.
The horrible accounts of the holocaust are vividly captured by Elie Wiesel in Night, an award winning work by a Holocaust survivor. It describes his time in the Holocaust and helps the reader fully understand the pain he went through. In the text, Elie continuously mentions how he is losing his faith to god. It is evident that he has nearly, if not completely lost his faith during the events of the holocaust. In the memoir, Night, Elie Wiesel’s faith changes because of the absence of God, the dehumanization of the prisoners, and all of the death that surrounds him.
“In our media-intensive culture it is not difficult to find differing opinions… The difficulty lies in deciding which opinion to agree with and which ‘experts’ seem the most credible” (Espejo 11). The perceptions of one age group in society of another age group are built upon assumptions that are made through what is visible. However, rarely is anyone willing to understand the reason behind someone’s actions. Sibling rivalry, the death of a loved one, moving to a new school, competition among peers, and the reputation adolescents have today often end up giving a misperception of society to teens and of teens to society, thus damaging the relationships between society, as illustrated by J.D. Salinger in The Catcher in the Rye.
Shears. Christopher had not wanted to talk to father because he had lost trust for him. He had lost this trust because his father had said that his mother was dead, and that he had not killed the dog. While at his father’s house, he would push his bed up against his door so his father would not enter. In chapter 233, father made a deal with Christopher,”Let's call it. . . let's call it a project. A project we have to do together. You have to spend more time with me. And I. . . I have to show you that you can trust me. And it will be difficult at first because. . . because it's a difficult project. But it will get better. I promise.” At this time, father had bought a golden retriever for Christopher as a symbol of trust. With this puppy, he is showing Christopher that he wants his
Despite self-awareness, a person makes many decisions everyday, even if many are subtle. Getting out of bed, deciding what clothes to wear, and even the attitude you display to others. While there are many factors that contribute to these decision making, a major factor is who your peers are. Peers, whether they be a close friend, family member, or even a teacher, can influence what you aspire to do, and how you live your life. In The Other Wes Moore, peers’s play a big role shaping the lives and decisions of both Wes’s, further leading them to their places in the current world, just as peers have shaped my sister, Katie’s decisions as well. Friends heavily influence teenagers, attributing to teens’ stubbornness. By setting examples to follow, peers either set positive or negative standards that teens attempt to assimilate, gaining either positive or negative traits.
Teens today do not realize what separation of society into “groups” can really mean.The things that seem inconceivable now can become plausible by the classification of “others.” Elie Wiesel’s Night shows that something as small as being classified as Jewish (through a star) can lead to a discrimination and a genocide. What was normal at that time (the star) quickly became terrible. What will the norms today be considered tomorrow? This is the question that teens today fail to realize. Teens today usually have small circles that they are obligated to. Night shows teens that the universe of obligation is something that needs to be readily expanded. If teens refuse to expand their circle, that will lead to a classification of groups.
It has not been too long ago that I still remember my adolescent years. I always remember the unintelligent things I did that I wish could change, but this Psychology class made me realize that all adolescents go through the same things I experienced. Adolescents are known to try to find their identity, go through peer pressure, make mistakes, and try new things. The move I picked that closely represented what adolescents go through was “Mean Girls”. Some of the scenes in the movie seem a little exaggerated, but it has happened in certain high schools even though I had not experienced it personally.
Trust is something that is built over time but can be broken in a matter of seconds. Christopher and his father have a very tempestuous relationship that changes over the course of the novel. In the novel, the Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time by Mark Haddon Christopher's father tries to regain Christopher’s love and trust after he loses it, due to a number of problems that he causes while trying to protect his son that he loves very much. Christopher John Francis Boone, the protagonist, struggles to figure out what his feelings are towards his father as he tries to forgive him for the problems he has caused in his life. Throughout the novel, their trust is tested, as they try to conquer different obstacles that are a result of
First of all, with the use of plot and character as dramatic elements, MacLeod is able to depict the main characteristics of the nature of adolescence, mainly the search for identity and the quest for independence. Among the scientific community, adolescence is believed to be the most crucial period in human development. It is a period of “rapid biological, social and psychological change” (Soto, et al. 330). There are the transformations that define puberty, there are changes in the relationships and attitudes towards adults and peers, and many teenagers struggle to form a coherent identity (331). In the process of discovering their identities, most adolescents become self-centered. Having not yet
Throughout the novel, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time by Mark Haddon, emotions are the most challenging problems of all for Christopher. However, beyond the drama of Christopher’s crises involving feeling, or interaction with other people, we glimpse a more general idea – that dealing with people and feelings is difficult. Discuss in relation to the themes and characters of The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time.
From the time they are little, youths are being trained for adulthood whether they realize it or not. They must get used to the ways of the world if they are to survive in it. Perhaps the most tragic is the attempt to escape. Eady describes the children as fighting what is expected of them by “reach[ing] in self-defense” for a way to express themselves(27). They try to hide behind the wigs, lipstick, and sequins of a life they can only dream of.
In “The C Word in the Hallway”, author, Anna Quindlen expresses her pleas to reach out and end the neglect of teen struggles. Bullying, break-ups, isolation, family issues, academics, and more could result as contributing factors to the hardships of teenagers. Unfortunately, “role models” setting the examples, overlook the fatal outcomes of these hardships. The poor example taught is to mask our struggles and toughen through them. This masking method can only be effective for so long before one cracks. In her article regarding the uprising of mental health issues found in teenagers, Anna Quindlen calls to action on parents, educators, and politicians to emphasize the importance of recognizing teenage hardships, so the teenagers can too recognize
Compared to concrete thinking in childhood, adolescents’ thinking becomes much more abstract. This enables them to partake in self-conception; differentiating between who they are and who they may become in the future (Arnett, 2013). This developmental milestone is presented in The Breakfast Club when the five teens are sitting on the floor, discussing their insecurities. Andrew asks the group, with a horrified expression, if they are going to be like their parents. Claire answers with certainty that she will not (Hughes, et al., 1985). As they imagine their future selves like their parents, they are conceptualizing their feared selves (Arnett, 2013). Andrew also speaks of the false self he presents to make his father proud. This is shown as he admits that the physical pain and humiliation he caused a peer was not something he wanted to do, though he knew it was an action for which his father would praise him (Hughes et al., 1985). According to Arnett (2013), it is during the period of adolescence that teenagers recognize the false selves they present and that their false selves are contrary to their actual feelings and thoughts.
The theme of trusting the wrong person definitely relates to teen lives. I have definitely misjudged people before. I’ve come to regret trusting some people and ever being associated with them. Contrastingly, last year I though a certain person was stuck up. I have a class with him now, and he is one of the funniest people you could ever talk to. Majority of teens probably don’t recognize people for what they can really be. If you aren’t careful people can ,and they will hurt you. This is especially true of teenagers because we are young and haven’t gone through these experiences before. We go through these things for ourself. Without a doubt, all teens can learn from the author’s valuable lesson of how trusting the wrong person can result
In modern-day society, there are numerous people who take pleasure in separating themselves from the typical standards of society; however, there are also people who feel uncomfortable expressing themselves in the own, distinctive ways. Because they feel this way, many adolescents believe that by camouflaging themselves into their peer’s behaviors and beliefs that they will fit in with social norm, accepted beliefs and behaviors in a social group or society, and the reason why they have this mentality, is because of the lack of confidence to express their ideas in their own unique ways. The belief that students and kids have to live up to social norms, are implemented on them by social influences, more specifically, their peers.