Nine People Lived In Tim's Home Life

All of these little details contribute to Kingsolver underlying message of the varied kinds of families that exist, and the importance they play. Ryan acknowledges that Taylor has always known that a father and mother and 2.3 children don't necessarily make a family (80). Taylor recognizes the existence and importance of makeshift families, and knows what can be gained from the love of others. Kingsolver repeated theme of the extended family and how it benefits and helps one grow, is evident throughout her novel. She uses Taylor to illustrate her belief in Socrates idea of the communal family, and how it is often the best thing for the upbringing of a child.

They met in middle school here at Jefferson. She didn't like him at the time because Tim came to school smelling like manure and she thought farmers were gross. When high school came, they dated for a very long time. They are married now. She has influenced him in more than a few ways. One of the ways she impacted Tim was, she helped make him the best he could be. She influenced him to stay in school and she also keeps an eye out for him. She is his partner in crime. A second impact in Tim's childhood, was his brother, Ted. When he and his siblings were all around middle school age, all the boys had to help move a few of the farm tractors to Tim's farm. Ted didn't want to help that day, but Tim needed his help. He told him he had to and so Ted listened. When Ted was driving the tractor, he took too hard of a turn. It tipped over and he passed away. This impacted Timothy a lot. He blamed the accident all on him and has still yet to forgive himself. He doesn't break out of his shell very often anymore to have a good time because of what happened around 20 years ago. He has gone to a medium with his wife, Lindsey to talk to Ted. Ted told him to have fun more often and play jokes on his family. He even told him to get a tattoo. Tim's third impact was his Grandpa Cota. His grandpa taught him how to do everything on the farm. His grandpa was the person that inspired him to become a farmer and own his own farm. Tim's grandpa was one of the biggest people in Tim's life growing up. His Grandpa Cota was his inspiration and role

Some factors that could affect the development of the children in this family are that Frank is not thinking about his family member’s emotions to his actions or his decisions. The father may not desire to think about what his family would think about his decisions. This could affect the development of the family system because the family members could become disengaged with one another. The members could develop an emotional patterns that would lead each family member to have no desire in what each family member would think about other members of the family.

In addition, Tim is torn between both sides. He asks why Sam has to be not nice to Father and tells him that he had it nice; he had money for books and studies that Father sent him. He asks, “Listen, Sam, why do you always have to get into a fight with Father?” (Collier and Collier, 15). According to later chapters Tim looks up to both his father and brother. The split between father and brother causes his dilemma. After being torn between sides and fighting about the sides, it is evident that war tears families apart.

Thanks to his parents, Tim is now doing better in school. He is facing his consequences by sitting out the rest of the football season. When he does see his girlfriend it is at a church activity or a family event. Parental control is on all the Jenson’s devices. There isn’t any porn tucked under beds or in mislabeled dvd cases. Mr. and Mrs. Jenson are in counseling with their pastor. TJ has a new and brighter lease on life; as well as, a better relationship with his wife and son. They have all learned a valuable lesson in that a Christian needs to add a little Jesus for success in everything they

As the fourth family function, nurturing peer relationships is the most common problem amongst the boys in Baltimore. Because the crime rate is so high in the boy’s town, they have become accustomed to seeing people fighting, drinking and smoking, and being arrested. Richard and his brother, Devon, and Montrey all have a good head on their shoulder, but even that can’t be enough to protect them from the crimes that other African American boys eventually grow into. This reason alone is why the mothers of these four boys try so hard to send them away from Baltimore for a good education that will prepare them for high school and later a diploma, then possibly college. The last family function is ensuring stability and harmony, in other words providing predictable routines for their kids. As the mothers try so hardly to structure a perfect lifestyle for their sons, it is visible that it simply can’t be done in the city of Baltimore. While trying to ensure stability and harmony as a single mother, or a mother under the influence it can be hard to do so and as a result, the kids suffer. The Baraka School was designed for this reason and gives the boys a stable routine that will change their lives completely and ultimately prepare them for the real world. The film shows how much Richard and his brother, Devon, and Montrey’s families need the Baraka School to give

Problems that comes up in this case study appears to child; physical, emotional, mental, verbal and personal abuse, along with environmental factors that created the initial “family secret,” that Dave talks about throughout the book. His parents have their own personal conflicted problems, along with their abused in substances like alcohol. The family social economic status seems to range in the lower class, as Dave’ father occupation was a firefighter and his mother’s occupation is unknown. Physical abuse of children is a nonaccidental injury inflicted on a child (Crosson-Tower, p.180, 2013). Dave’s mother made him sit at the bottom of the stairs with his hands under his bottom, starved and slept with no blanket in the cold basement. His mother’s alcoholic problems made him, his mother’s sole target for frustration and anger, basically as his mother’s punching bag. Neglectful mother were more than likely to used words like shame and sad more than non-neglectful mother during the study (Camilo, Garrido & Calheiros, 2016). Dave’s mother called him “it,” while his

He actually worsen the strain on his mother, and she regretfully has to push him away. Joe’s mother says to Joe, “Now you listen to me, Joe. You will not badger me or harass me. You will leave me to think the way I want to think, here” (89). These mutual hardships creates a stronger bond between Joe and his family and allows the family members to support each other in this hard time. Through this experience, Joe learns how to deal with people in need and have empathy for those around him. Living with a family develops the social skills to exist in the outside world. Joe’s parents provide the familial love and support that is necessary for Joe to mature into a responsible adult.

one parent while living with the other, all create a challenging new family circumstance in which

Timothy’s story is about a sequence, or timeline of events showing how being in a certain environment can help shape a child’s development. Timothy’s behavior from the beginning was a perfect example of how children model after their parents or caregiver. He was exposed to violence at a very young age from his parents, and therefore that was how he learned how to express himself. With his parents out of work and in low paying jobs, the whole family was under a lot of stress. Timothy was spanked as a result of them not dealing with their stress in a

The wife attacks the father by saying, "We've been here two weeks and you haven't done one damn thing with him, nothing, zero. You haven't even been down to the lake. What kind of father are you?" (231). Seeing his parents in such an argument affects the son by making him disconnected and hateful toward his father. When the son came home from school he would find his father "sitting in the dark, hair in his face, bent low over the guitar. There was an open bottle of liquor on the coffee table and a clutter of beer bottles" (231). Coming back to this dreary home life after school and seeing one's father in this condition would be very traumatic. It shows him that his father doesn't care about his job and would rather be at home drinking while reminiscing about his past.

One of the issues that the family is encountering will be financially since they are a lot of members living in the same house. Another family member is Alejandro living with them who works and goes to college. Alejandro is fully bilingual and is trying to help his parents, but dislikes his job and has been feeling emotionally unstable. There is also Carmen who is hearing impaired due to Celia contracting rubella while pregnant. Carmen needs help figuring out what college she wants to attend and how to get scholarships and this will possibly put the family at a financial hardship. There’s also the other daughter Emilia who had Joey and he’s been with parents’ in

«Relations were uncomfortable for many months. The Macedonians raised eyebrows at the late hour at which the newcomers rose in the mornings. The young man sensed their disapproval at his staying home to write his thesis while his wife worked. Ha watched in disgust as the little boy next door urinated in the street.”

The household is a single-family household consisting of the mother a five-year-old sibling. The mother reported because she had to work all the time different family members and friends helped to care for the child throughout the infancy. The mother reported that the child responded well to different people. The mother reported that being a single mother was stressful.

I had always loved breakfast. That’s one of the reasons I felt that my wife was so perfect for me. She was the best breakfast chef in the world. Eggs, bacon, pancakes, french toast, anything I could possibly ask for, she could make better than anybody else. And for that reason, Timothy was a huge fan of breakfast as well. However, after his mother passed, his obsession over breakfast had quickly went away. He never really ate breakfast anymore. Even when I tried to make breakfast for him, he wouldn’t touch it. He claimed he wasn’t hungry, but that was only because he didn’t want me to be upset, or to realize that he was upset. But I knew the truth. That was the thing about Timothy. Although in reality he was actually a criminal, he was a very kind person. He was always trying to make others feel better. However, he also never let anybody talk to him about his emotions. At least not after his mother passed. His mother was a very emotional person. She was always talking about feelings. After all, it was her job as a therapist. I think that is what made him so emotional. His mother. And after she died, he tried to hide that emotion as much as possible. That is when he started to become lazy in school, and started to