An instance in which I conformed to social norms or to peer pressure and did something that I later regretted is, whenever I was a Sophomore in High School I hung around the wrong crowd. This group of people was always influencing me to do bad things. One time we were driving around, one of the girls I was with decided it would be a good idea to cruise around the neighborhood and egg a bunch of cars. I kept saying “no, I’m not going to throw any eggs.” This girl said, “come on don’t be a goody goody, just do it.” So I did. I threw three eggs, all at different cars. I did this because I felt like I had to in order to conform to the group. This is also an example of normative influence because, I conformed to fulfill other people’s expectations, …show more content…
My personality has evolved as I have grown into a woman. Ways that my personality has evolved are, I have become a more confident individual. Being the age that I am today, I am able to socially interact with not only individuals but a group as well. When I was fourteen-years-old I was quite anti-social, and didn’t interact with other people unless they interacted with me first. Today I am more aware of other people’s personalities, I am able to figure out if someone has a genuine, annoying, etc. personality. I am able to understand their feelings whether they are upset, angry, etc. when I was an adolescent I was unsure of people’s emotions and I couldn’t figure out how someone was feeling, or acting. I feel as if my personality has changed for the better as I have aged. Another way that I am a different person now than I was when I was fourteen-years-old is, I have become more mature. Being mature means that I am able to take constructive criticism without letting it effect my emotions. Now that I have evolved as a mature individual I have realized that putting others before myself is a pathway out of silliness, it is moving beyond your own wants and starting to live to address the issues of others less blessed. Whenever, I was younger I would tend to be immature, and didn’t take anything seriously. My attitudes on all situations were extremely irresponsible, at the age of fourteen I was not fully developed as an individual. I believe that this is because my brain had not been fully developed either. Evidence that I found to support my claim is, “Adolescents who are experiencing these brain changes can react emotionally, according to Ian Campbell, a neurologist at the U.C. Davis Sleep Research Laboratory. Mood swings, uncooperative and irresponsible attitudes can all be the result
It seems that the people we surround ourselves with have a significant affect on our own behavior. Asch's study concluded that on average participants answered basic questions 37% of the time wrong with confederates, but only answered 1% of the time wrong when they were left alone. The extend of conformity indicated by the study suggests that if we surround ourselves with positive people and disregard negative people, then that can dramatically improve our lives. Normative and informational social influences can push us to either be more or less successful in
Throughout human societies, the pressure to conform to mainstream actions and ideas often pressures people to submit to societal norms rather than following their own desires. This idea of conformity versus following one’s own desires is explored two poems, “The Road Not Taken” and “Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening”, by Robert Frost. Both poems explore the process of making a choice and the corresponding outcome. “The Road Not Taken” portrays an individual at the moment of decision. The poem clearly indicates that the choice is final and that the desired path, here the unconventional one, should be taken to achieve success. Similarly, “Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening” considers the unfortunate aftermath of making a decision that did
As we know, norms are social expectations that guide our behavior. In this paper, I will discuss norm violations that I’ve observed, and my own personal norm violation that I committed. I will describe what happened, what was done, and the reactions of the people around when these norms begat. I will also discuss the significance of folkways, mores, values, and sanctions to my observations.
The Psychological Explanation of Conformity The article reviewed for this assignment “The Psychological Explanation of Conformity” was written by Song, Ma, Wu, and Li in 2012. In this article, a study was conducted explaining the psychological explanation if conformity. Conformity was defined as the change of actions or attitudes caused by the pressures from some real or notional group and occurs when the subject demonstrates the same behavior or attitudes as the object (Song, Ma, Wu, and Li 2012).
As we know, norms are social expectations that guide our behavior. In this paper, I will discuss norm violations that I’ve observed, and my own personal norm violation that I committed. I will describe what happened, what was done, and the reactions of the people around when these norms begat. I will also discuss the significance of folkways, mores, values, and sanctions to my observations.
I decided to break a social norm in my house by asking my parents for their permission before doing anything in my own house, for example I would ask to use the restroom or if it was okay for me to get a drink. I only asked for permission to preform those two tasks. After a day it was very obvious to everyone in my home that something was going on with me, but when confronted about what I was doing by my family I refused to conform to their group pressure and inform them. Everyone in my household urged me to conform and stop asking such ridiculous questions; conformity is behavior in accordance with socially accepted conventions or standards. Examples of conformity can be found everyday in life from the way we dress to the way we talk, a specific example is when one persons’ clapping
The act of conforming to a set standard of laws, social norms and to behave in a certain manner is just a few ways in which setting a single standard to conform to; controls the way our societies function. Through the film “15 Million Merits” by Euro Lynn; she demonstrates the issues in which conformity can have on a society. Through the act of humiliating one another shown through characterization, the idea of a life that revolves around merits; shown through setting and finally through the increasingly growing influence mass media has on civilians shown through symbolism. By using these issues Euro Lynn is able to satirize our own society.
“Should I be conformist or nonconformist? Should I embrace the system, or do things my own way?” We are left with lots of questions to think about, but consider all this.
Conformity is a concept that has been heavily researched in the field of social psychology. Conformity is defined as a change in behavior, beliefs, and attitudes due to group pressure perceived as real (encompassing the presence of others) or imagined (encompassing the pressure of social standards) (Myers, 2010, p. 192). The concept of conformity is a powerful influence on the tendency for people to arrange their thoughts, perspectives, and ideas with others, especially when in a group. This takes away from a person’s individuality because they want to feel accepted by others and therefore, a person will accomplish this basic need of approval through conforming.
From the time we are very little, the number one source for correct facts has always been on the news. Yet after recently learning about conformity involving informational versus normative information, it opened my eyes further to understand how influenced society is as a whole. Another similar example that has been growing recently is social media. Instead of flipping on the news stations, it is just as popular now for individuals to look up information on the internet. Although just like how news stations are biased and only hold true to the sources they support, as do websites on the internet. What is worse about the internet is that people nowadays can post anything they would like either on social media or the internet. All it takes is
When it comes to most social situations, group or peer pressure are almost always present in some way. Generally an individual receives the most pressure from one’s primary group. However, as one gets older, the secondary groups become sometimes more prominent and can change the obligation. There is a certain dependency that one has on each group, hence the obligation, and if everyone in that group was supporting a choice that was against an individuals beliefs, they are more likely to overlook right and wrong and go with the group. In todays society being needed or belonging is valued and I think that this is a factor in conformity. Additionally, in society’s norms, we are our groups. Each group could be completely unrelated, but we would
First, let me offer my sincere condolences on the death of Rehteah Parsons, and commend you for seeking out evidence-based methods to reduce bullying. The heinous nature of the crimes against Rehteah and the humiliation she experienced after them only increase the gravity of the situation at hand.
It can be seen in our everyday lives how easy it is for people to conform to the social norms of a group or society. Wayne Dyer once said “When you're just like everybody else, you've nothing to offer other than your conformity” and I believe that this statement couldn’t be more accurate. Recently, it has become more acceptable for people to express their individuality and showing one’s true colours is being promoted. It is better to be a unique individual than to conform to society because conformity destroys personal growth and development. We need to express our originality and by conforming to what others want us to be, we squander any chance of achieving self-acceptance. People are more likely to conform is when they are placed in a group setting. An individual will not want to break the group unanimity so they will conform to whatever decision the group comes to, even if it goes against their beliefs or values. I firmly believe that if we pay less attention to what others expect of us and expressing our individuality, we can offer more to society and develop and grow as human beings.
One subtle form of social influence is conformity. Conformity is a change in one’s behavior due to the real or imagined influence of other people. The aftermath of conforming ranges from heroism to tragedy. If we are uncertain about how to think or what do, we may rely on informational social influence. Informational social influence is the influence of other people that leads us to conform because we see them as a source of information to guide our behavior. We conform because we believe that others’ interpretations of an ambiguous situation is more correct than ours and will help us choose an appropriate course of action. Private acceptance is conforming to other people’s behavior out of a genuine belief that what they are doing or
It is a proven fact that when people are around a group that are doing an action, they can convince other people to do what they are doing. This idea of peer pressure is the driving force behind group related sales. The more people around you buying a product, the more desirable it seems and the more willing a person is to purchase the product (Berger, 2017). The key idea when fashion advertising is to put it in a place where a large audience will see it and be influenced by each other to buy the product. Groups of people have the power to decide whether or not a product is worth the price when there are cheaper alternatives to the luxury brand. For this reason, conformity is a major factor (Taylor & Costello, 2017). In ecosystems, cooperative behavior or behavior that puts the group or society first rather than the immediate needs of the individual is common not just in ecosystems but society as well. This behavior can be translated to sales and marketing as it relates to the luxury fashion industry. When individuals are in a group setting, one is more likely to follow the predetermined leader or the majority rather than form their own opinions (Brede, 2013).