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Not Him, Not Me

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Not Him, Not Me, Not Us

Like most “normal” people, I’d hear about or see on television, how this person and that person was diagnosed with Cancer. Yes, I’d feel sorry for them, but as the saying goes, “out of sight out of mind.” I’d often turn the channel when I’d see commercials about people with cancer; especially the ones that were targeted towards smokers, like me. Once again, I’d say, “That’s not me”, “I’ll never let that happen to me”, and “That could never happen to me”! Well, that’s not the way Cancer works. I found out the hard way in May 2014. What started out and felt like a beautiful, spring day, definitely was not. My husband (fiancé at the time), had left for work around five a.m., as he normally did since starting his new …show more content…

Success, I get someone on the phone who has heard, and she immediately puts me in contact with his supervisor. After talking to his supervisor, I still have no more information than what my husband said in the text, but the supervisor does tell me that he definitely needs to see a doctor ASAP! At that time, they (the supervisor and my husband) are on their way back to the main office building, which is where I am to meet them so I can take him to the doctor’s appointment that I just scheduled. I finally arrive at the main office and pick him up, and we are on our way. He starts telling me what happened; he woke up that morning, more tired than usual, which he blamed for his weakness and fast beating heart, he was just tired, but he didn’t feel bad enough not to go to work. Upon arriving at the job site, and starting to work is when he realized, something was not right; he could barely take two steps without it feeling like he was running a marathon. His coworkers started to notice that he wasn’t his usual self, and when they saw his heart beating through two shirts and a work vest, they immediately called the ambulance. The EMT’s checked as much as they could, with their limited tools, and couldn’t find anything specifically wrong with him, besides a slightly high pulse. Now, we have arrived at the doctor’s office, where he tells what happened,

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