Obsession to Love “There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved” (“George Sand Quotes”). Since the beginning of time, part of human nature is to desire love and affection. However, this desire goes beyond physical appearances. Love possesses people and can make them do unimaginable things. In F. Scott Fitzgerald’s The Great Gatsby, unreciprocated feelings turn Gatsby’s initial lust into an obsessive desire to love.
In the beginning of their love story, Daisy’s beauty captures Gatsby’s attention. “The officer looked at Daisy while she was speaking, in a way that every young girl wants to be looked at some time, and because it seemed romantic to me I have remembered the incident ever since” (Fitzgerald 75). Gatsby’s clear captivation is even obvious to Jordan Baker, who does not know him at that time. The fact that a complete stranger notices this about Gatsby emphasizes a blatant desire for Daisy. Though the war calls Gatsby away immediately after meeting the bright eyed woman, the young man in love does everything in his power to return home as a successful hero. “He did extraordinarily well in the war. He was a captain before he went to the front…” (Fitzgerald 150). Gatsby goes to war with one thing on his mind: Daisy. His motivation throughout the war is not for survival so that he can return home to Daisy, but is for impressing Daisy in attempt to earn her affection. No matter Gatsby’s attempt, his success in the war does not come quick enough for him
While most people chase love, few know that it is foolish. One should not chase after love, but allow it to find them naturally. Obviously, Gatsby was none the wiser about that bit of advice. In the story, we see Gatsby chase after his supposedly long lost love, but is she truly his love? With how little time they spent together, how much they’ve grown throughout the years, and all that has happened in both of their lives, does Gatsby truly love Daisy, a married mother of one? Their star-crossed story is the perfect example of a hold on the past destroying a future. This essay will explore their strange and twisted romance while supporting one simple fact. Jay Gatsby was not in love with Daisy.
He has gone to great lengths to make himself appear as appealing to a girl who never proves herself to be worthy of sacrifice. Gatsby creates a facade for himself in order to appear as a man who- in his mind- would be worthy of Daisy’s affection.
‘Obsessive love has the capacity to drive a person to insanity, leading to irrational behaviour, alienation and despair’
Gatsby’s love forms before he leaves for war, to a young woman named Daisy. “She was the first ‘nice’ girl he
The novel, The Great Gatsby, by F. Scott Fitzgerald, depicts the story of a young man named Jay Gatsby who goes to great lengths to win over the love of his life. The text portrays the desperate actions that Gatsby takes to win Daisy Buchanan's heart through various examples. The novel's central theme highlights the extreme measures that individuals may take in pursuit of their desires. In F. Scott Fitzgerald's "The Great Gatsby," we witness the destructive power of love and obsession.
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