One Marriage Under God: Faith-Based Marriage Counseling

This writer would utilize psychosocial assessments strategies that consist of active listening, observing, patience, and making suggestions (Martin, 2014). This writer must keep in mind that perhaps Ricky may not be ready to fully disclose all his information in the first session and it might very well take several sessions (Martin, 2014). This writer would ask, whether if Ricky would be interested in seeking the help of a Marriage and Family Therapist. An MFT would assist Ricky and his wife work on addressing issues from their own points of views in order to cohesively work on these issues. Second, this writer would welcome individual counseling or therapy. The types of therapy that this writer would recommend would for sure be CBT (Cognitive Behavior Therapy) to address irrational beliefs (cheating, not being good enough, insecurities), negative interpretations (his wife loving their son more than him), or thinking distortions (not able to take constructive criticism from his employer, thus he thought that his boss was humiliating him) that are sabotaging the marriage and Ricky’s life (McCarthy & Archer, 2013). Reality therapy would also be beneficial to address basic needs that Ricky has not met (McCarthy & Archer

Parents that are going through a marriage breakdown, divorce and separation can be stressful for all involved particularly the children/young person. They can become emotionally withdrawn and suffer a lack of confidence which can create low self esteem. Due to family upheaval, they may lose focus in their own abilities and suffer mentally. Similarly, children

In the past, I regularly concluded marriage counseling as cliché and often ineffective. I consistently heard people say how marriage counseling was foolish and if your marriage is failing, a professional was incapable of fixing it. I likewise repeatedly assumed a considerable amount of marriage counselors just longed for love themselves, or they would practice interventions which were super far-fetched from what the couples actually needed. I assumed those ideas when I first signed up for this class. Trust me, I had all the stereotypes down. Now, you are probably wondering why I even signed up for this class. I’m incredibly indecisive on what counseling path I wish to pursue, therefore I decided to give this class a shot. I want to pick

In contrast to Crabb, Worthington’s thesis for his guide is: “Hope-focused marriage counseling is a comprehensive and tightly organized theory of Christian marriage counseling based on promoting hope and teaching couples a strategy to build love, faith and work into their relationship.” Worthington’s approach and foundation for marital counseling is two-fold: research based and scripture based. The first part of his approach is evidence-based. He first studied trends and research in the field of marriage and family counseling, focusing on integrative behavioral couple’s therapy, cognitive-behavioral couples therapy, emotion-focused couples therapy, and insight oriented couples therapy. In this research, he found that it is important to change

Divorce is is already a messy situation but the second a child gets thrown in the middle of this situation, it gets even more complicated. It is the end of a marriage for the couple but it is the end of a family for the child. Not every child is affected the same. There are a list of things that change emotionally for kids of divorce. They withdraw, they have a stronger temper, they doubt love, they deal with guilt, and having different coping mechanisms with loss (What). Children of divorce miss out on things like family dinner, which plays a bigger role in childhood development than we think. Statistically, according to the CASA report, Children “who eat with their family fewer than three times a week, 20% get C 's or lower on their report cards (Klein).” Children of divorced parents never

I believe that maintaining the marriage should be the decision of the parties involved when a couple enters relationship counseling because of conflict and emotional distress. I would not want to impose my personal beliefs on my client’s. By having a conversation around what values each client has and what values they each have in common I would allow them a safe space to continue exploring what they want to do as a team. Counselors should not have a greater ethical responsibility to encourage couples to maintain the marriage when children are involved because every family is different and one should not assume that because they have children they have to stay together for the betterment of the family. One reason I would not want to do so is because not all families need to stay together to strive and I would not want to impose my belief that they should stay together when they could make the family dynamic work with whichever path they choose to take. What needs to be done is to have a conversation around the needs of their child and what they believe is the best

Fifty percent of marriages end in divorce, this is a statistic many of us are familiar with. Although it is such a familiar statistic, I’m not sure many of us think about the severity of this figure. This means that one half of everyone who thinks they are marrying the love of their life and will be together forever is mistaken. Going through divorce can ruin individuals and families in the blink of an eye. This statistic is not just a statistic it’s heartbreaking. Think how heartbreaking that statistic would be if it were to increase. Think how high that statistic has the potential of being without marriage counseling. The correct type of marriage counseling has been proven affective for many couples all

Research in the field of couples and family counseling is very limited, one of the many reasons for this is the lack of governmental funding and the fact that relational issues are not view as diagnosable mental illnesses. It is important to note that what little research exists will be of great use to a practitioner. This is because what we can learn from this research is the factors of satisfied/unsatisfied couples/families, communication patterns of a satisfied/distressed couple/family, or if marriage/divorce rates are projected to grow/shrink.

Due to the many incidences of extramarital affairs, the percentage of couples seeking therapy while coping with adultery is largely unknown. Even with the enormous amount of occurrences, as well as clinical research in couple’s therapy, only three earlier studies have delved into the actual usefulness that couples therapy has had on extramarital affairs (Marin, Christensen & Atkins, 2014).

Marriage is hard work and sometimes can become very challenging based on the situations and circumstances that the couple is facing. You make ask yourself “how will the couple endure these challenges such as infidelity, financial hardship, or romantic woes”? Couples counseling has increased over time despite the stigma that comes along with seeing a “therapist”. Studies show that couples tend to wait until it’s too late to seek couples counseling because breaking up is a challenge but staying together and fighting for a marriage is a bigger challenge. Seeking and utilizing couples counseling before divorce becomes an option allows the couple to effectively restore a broken relationship. This paper will discuss the couple’s marriage,

I can't really relate to these post-divorced children, but I know how it feels to live in an unhealthy environment family (parents who fight a lot) It was really frustrating growing up in this environment and the sad thing was that my parents didn't have an idea how bad their fights were affecting me until I was going to my freshmen year of high school. Being home wasn't my favorite thing to do because there was no peace. My mother noticed that older I got the more apart I was from both of them. I remember like it was yesterday, I couldn't handle the fights no more and spoke out how I really felt. My parents were so surprised and worried and I told them about it. They decided to work it out and things changed for the better. They would still

Infidelity is one of the most challenging issues that come up in marital therapy for the simple fact that it usually layers a major issue (the infidelity) over other major issues (finances, intimacy, communication) and each layer involves a unique and, at times, competing set of interventions. The latter grouping is usually very receptive to skills work; once capacity to work through the issues within the couple is developed the problems or issues facing the couple tend to create less distress in the relationship or are resolved, although the issue around intimacy tends to be a bit more complicated. When infidelity is thrown into the mix these other issues are typically not seen as the priority by one or both spouses and even discussing these underlying factors can prove difficult as the infidelity typically acts as a contagion.

Divorce is not only difficult for parents, but even more difficult for the children. It can hit hard and fast but can also be built up from long term damage and stress on the marriage. Children can view their parent’s divorce in multiple ways. They can visually see it, or they can hear it. Children may also not view the divorce at all. Divorce can be sudden, confusing, and hidden. It can be a quick and relieving process, or it could be slow and painful. The relationship could be fought for night after night with little progress being made. The marriage could be fought verbally or even physically. Hurtful words are thrown to bring an end to the relationship and caring words are thrown to keep the marriage alive.

When couples realize their relationship is starting to fail, they will try different things such as marriage counseling. That is when the couple will sit down with a therapist and they will try to work their problems out. Sometimes therapy can help the couples work their issues out and get to the root of their problems. Another solution is a vacation or a second honeymoon where they can reconcile or rekindle the relationship that they use to have. Or even as far as moving away to get a new start on life, to try to get away from the old way of how things use to be and try to start a new life together again.

No matter the severity of the divorce, the relationship of the ex-spouses - or soon to be ex-spouses, or the size of the family, attending family counseling would be a great way to talk through some of the issues each individual has or had with the others in