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Ordinary People Character Analysis

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Sometimes in tragedy we find our lives purpose. Jimmy dean once said, “I can’t change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination.” This relates to the novel Ordinary People very well as Conrad and Calvin Jarret both tried seeking help and tried to fix their problems instead of pretending they didn’t exist. Conrad went to see a psychiatrist in recommendation of his father and his doctor, His father Calvin went and spoke to Conrad’s psychiatrist. Conrad also tried to communicate with his family more and have a more open relationship with his friends and family. Beth on the other hand did not try to resolve any issues with her family and instead ignored and kept her distance from Conrad and Calvin. All …show more content…

When people in a relationship are faced with tragedy a lot of emotions are running though their mind such as, rejection, anger towards family, the need to be independent, avoidance, and withdrawal. In some cases, communication skills between family member will begin to fade as everyone is trying to cope with their own struggles and accept what happened and why it did. Parents won’t want to go to work, worrying their kids all day, in fear something were to happen. Children won’t be motivated to go to school, extracurricular activities and will just want to drop everything, because they are worried, embarrassed or scared of people judging them for their actions and lose confidence. Early in the novel Conrad decided to quit the swim team because he was not motivated anymore. Tragedy brings out the best and worst in, and we just must learn to accept the changes and stay positive.

Along with that comes with how individuals view and treat life after a tragedy has struck. Once a tragedy has been brought to someone, most are devastated. You don’t something missing until it is gone. When people are faced with situations like this, they begin to not take life for granted and start to appreciate life a little more than they used to. They begin to realize just what life has to offer. Looking sat Calvin in the novel. Before Conrad attempted to commit suicide, Calvin didn’t worry as much about Conrad. Thought he was just your ordinary kid who

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