After watching the play Our Town for our date, I found myself thinking back on Emily Webb’s dialogue with her mother. Emily asked her mother, “Am I pretty?” and this particular question from Emily stood out to me most. Emily asked such a question not only to feel better about herself, but also to ask if she was good enough to get a husband. I played this scene over and over in my head while walking Olivia back home. “So did you like the play?” Olivia asked gleefully, and I knew already that she loved the play wholeheartedly. I tried my best to provide a legitimate answer.
“I liked it. It held a lot of messages and themes, but I keep thinking about Emily Webb’s question to her mother,” I answered back, and she made a slight smile upon hearing
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She doubted her beauty and the qualities she had, didn’t she?” Olivia asked and looked at me, “What about it, though?”
“I found myself connecting to Emily more than I thought I would. I’ve asked similar questions before, especially when growing up,” I replied with a small smile, “and I didn’t consider myself good enough for the world because I never knew if I could even meet society’s standards.”
“You know Peter, I think all of us face this question throughout life. We live in the constant fear of not being accepted by others. Even I did. But now, I’m not afraid of not meeting these standards set upon me because I don’t care about them anymore. What about you?” Olivia asked, stopping at a streetlight. “I try my best not to let these fears and feelings affect me; and for the most part, I don’t doubt myself because I don’t focus on what others think. I think we just need to accept ourselves for who we are and consider ourselves good enough, right?” I asked with a smile. “Precisely. Without accepting ourselves, those emotions of doubt and fear linger on, making us afraid to do anything in life. But when we feel satisfied with what we have, we don’t think about the things we lack any longer,” Olivia answered back, and we continued to walk to her
Thornton Wilder, a Wisconsin native, is the writer of the Pulitzer Prize winner play Our Town. In Our Town, Wilder tells the story of a town in Grover’s Corners, New Hampshire, and the daily lives of the inhabitants. In the play, the author uses minimal props and scenery as well as including a main character known as the Stage Manager that has the ability to break the fourth wall, allowing him to talk to the audience. This factor of talking to the audience is a major component of making the public a part of the town. Throughout the play, there are many instances in which the Stage Manager uses various cues as well as dialogues to incorporate the audience and develop an intimate relationship to create a true sense of “our town”.
After Emily’s father passes away in “A Rose for Emily,” Emily’s sweetheart rejects her. The only man that her father must have approved of ran out on her, leaving
I was wrong about Catherine- and I’m not embarrassed to say that in any way. But regardless of first impressions, and regardless of whatever is at work in this universe, I’m thankful for what kept us together.
I’m not going to lie, I’m quite scared, and anxious, even terrified, but as Max Lucado once said, “Meet your fear with faith”, both faith in yourself, and faith in the people around you because sometimes a different perspective is a smile away. This belief in others is clearly communicated in Kate Wood’s ‘Looking for Alibrandi’ and beloved children’s book ‘Winnie the Pooh’ by A.A. Milne.
The author feels fearful because, at any moment, people can hurt him if they suspect him of being a bad person. He admits to feeling unsafe and being discriminated against in public places. He does not feel accepted among people.
Emotional support also plays an important role of Emily’s well being. The idea mother suppose to care, support, and value their children needs. Emily needed this nourishment. She needed her mother to smile at her in order for her to feel a connection with the person that she supposed to be able to depend on. Emily’s mother did not know how to communicate with Emily. The mother-daughter relationship has an element of coldness, it lacks warmth. “There were years she did not want me to touch her” (Olsen 262). Emily’s mother inability to interact with her, leaves Emily unloved and in return, she shall not express any love toward her mother. Emily’s mother feels her “wisdom came too late” (Olsen 262). With this thought in mind, Emily’s mother shall never show communication or love to Emily, therefore the relationship shall continue to be doomed.
Although the mother may have been trying to help Emily, the mother should have tried to take care of Emily better instead of sending her off as the only solution. One of the other effects of her mother’s unavoidable neglect is Emily’s failure to be on the same pace as her peers in class. She is at a state of illiteracy that is uncommon for her age at the time which may be a result from staying at home instead of going to class to take care of the household. In addition to the mother’s neglect, having a sister who was the ideal poster child may have caused self confidence problems as she grew older being the odd one out in the family. Emily’s mother should have made sure she was able to take care of Emily first before deciding to give birth to another child. What the mother thought would be the best option for Emily had a more clear negative effect on Emily after she grew older still not having any clear direction in her life.
Miss Emily in “A Rose for Emily”, doesn’t take too kindly to no’s or anything that
she has let herself go over the years she was beautiful in her young days but as she
“Yes mom,” I replied. I already knew this was going badly and I was going to have a long boring spring break.
Miss Emily does not care that she is setting a poor example for the younger generation because she wants companionship, and her contempt for the sexist conventions results in the insanity that, ultimately, causes her to achieve a relationship in the most grotesque
She lifted her head up and looked me in the eyes for the first time tonight. Her large, dark eyes captured me like a fish on a hook. Her eyes cried out pain and loneliness and seemed to see through my superficial persona.
Finally, the author highlights the sufferance that fetters the mother's consciousness. Emily’s mother becomes aware that she was too preoccupied with providing for her daughter and she forgot to provide her with what matter the most, her presence. She is mindful of the fact that that she continuously removed Emily from her life. Moreover, she put a mark on Emily’s behavior and personality. She regrets her conduct, but she is also aware that it is too late to change anything. The mother states, “There were years she did not want me to touch her. She kept too much in herself, her life was such she had to
In spite of her suffering, it is almost shocking how Emily behaves extraordinary well even in stressful situations. When she is left at nursery school, she acts unexpectedly contrary to most kids her age. “‘She did not clutch and implore “don’t go Mommy” like the other children’” (Olsen 291). She prefers to stay at home but even while trying to convince her mother to let her stay, she does it subtly, “‘Never a direct protest, never rebellion’” (Olsen 292). Does Emily behave well by choice? Her mother is worried and wonders, “What in me demanded that goodness in her? And what was the cost, the cost to her of such goodness?” (Olsen 292).
I answered back, “ I just want to know what my mother was like. I was thinking why a person so close to my mother, who she trusted, would end her life just like that. “