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Parent Adolescent Interview Essay

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Parent/Teacher/Adolescent Interviews Parenting adolescents has never been easy. It may seem harder in this age of too-much-information-and-everything-else age that we live in today, however, the basic principles remain the same. It’s a balancing act of allowing more freedom while having limits that will help them in becoming their own persons. I chose for my parent/adolescent interview, a mother and her 19-year old daughter. According to the mother, one area of conflict with her daughter, would be having a negative attitude and lack of respect. The mother felt during the ages of 14-18 years old, the daughter’s attitude was negative, would frequently talk back always wanting to do things her way. Basically, doing only what she wanted and only if she would benefit from it. Which leads to the second area of conflict, being responsible and doing …show more content…

The mother discussed how the daughter expected to have, just to name a few expectations; expensive clothes, hair and nails to be done monthly, and car payment/insurance to be taken care of. To make this happen the mother would work extra every week and all she asked for in return was for her daughter to do minor cleaning in the house. Eventually, the mother told the daughter she would pay her if she would clean the house one day a week. The daughter accepted her mother’s offer, however, after two weeks the cleaning stopped but the daughter’s expectations did not and the mother continued paying for her daughter’s expectations. Another conflict the mother discussed was a combination of boyfriend issues and driving. At sixteen, the daughter wanted to drive to South Carolina to see her boyfriend due to his lack of funds for gas to make the trip to see her. Having not been driving very long, and never a long distance by herself, the mother

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