Parenting mistakes: Amy Tan's "Two Kinds" In Amy Tan's story "Two Kinds," excerpted from the author's longer novel The Joy Luck Club, a Chinese-American daughter Jing-mei (June) is forced to play the piano, because her mother is determined that her daughter must become a prodigy at something. Rather than responding to her daughter's needs and interests, Suyuan Woo instead imposes her own emotional needs upon her daughter. In the intensely competitive environment of the Chinese-American community
Parenting has been referred to as one of the hardest yet rewarding things a person could experience in his or her lifetime. Parenting does come with its ups and downs; parents often go through a series of emotional turmoil’s, feelings of defeat, regret, guilt and most of all fear. Right alongside of these however, parents also experience pride, joy and fulfillment. The parent and child dynamic between a mother and daughter are especially sensitive, yet the bond between a mother and daughter has been
parents and children. However, as time goes on and generations drift apart, different methods of behavior develop. The tensions between parent and child define the conflict in Amy Tan’s Two Kinds, Anzia Yezierska’s Children of Loneliness, and Gish Jen’s Who’s Irish. These conflicts explore the cultural gap between the two--the way they act differently, their behavioral differences, and their different thought processes are all conflicts found in the short stories. Although there is always love and
class, culture, and generation differences. Based on the two stories of Amy Tan’s, “Two Kinds” and Tillie Olsen’s, “I Stand here Ironing” we see these two perspectives that derive from different maternal upbringings of the children in the stories. What is found between them is the conflict of being too little or heavily involved in a child’s life has had more negative outcomes during their childhood than positive. The mother in “Two Kinds”, is culturally accustomed to raising a child to be obedient
misconception is that Asian parents brutishly force their parentally-defined ideas of success onto their children. This misunderstanding is further made salient by Amy Chua’s Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother. A memoir of her life raising two daughters, she writes about how most Chinese mothers are superior through their “tiger mom” parenting style, one that often lacks nurturing and is sometimes even seen as abuse by their western counterparts. This silly stereotype is, of course, unsurprisingly false
When we think of parenting, the first thing that comes to mind is that it is a process of raising a child from an infant to adulthood. What we do not immediately think of how everyone does it or how differently everyone does it. The main goal is raising the child, but the way you do it plays a great role in how that child turns out. There are different impacts that form who we are as individuals and our parents play a huge role in that. Our culture also helps us become who we are. Cultures vary from
Point of View in Amy Tan’s Short Story, Two Kinds In her short story "Two Kinds," Amy Tan utilizes the daughter's point of view to share a mother's attempts to control her daughter's hopes and dreams, providing a further understanding of how their relationship sours. The daughter has grown into a young woman and is telling the story of her coming of age in a family that had emigrated from China. In particular, she tells that her mother's attempted parental guidance was dominated by foolish hopes
Amy Tan’s short story “Two Kinds” describes a Chinese immigrant family who hope of finding success and an overall betterment of life in America. After losing everything in China, Jing-mei’s mother, Mrs. Woo, tries as a minority house maid in the 1960s to provide all the opportunities she can for her last daughter. This short story revolves around the interactions between the Jing-mei, who desires a ordinary life, and Mrs. Woo, who seeks only the best from her daughter. The values of these two characters
What should a person look for when searching for their identity? A crucial component of a person’s identity is shaped by their relationships with others, particularly their mother. In Amy Tan’s The Bonesetter’s Daughter, there are two main mother-daughter relationships that play an integral role in the novel. The novel consists of three generations of women, and their relationships with one another significantly impact who all three become. LuLing’s relationship with her mother, Precious Auntie,
Richard Russo's "Dog" and Amy Tan's "Two Kinds" are stories that illustrate the negative impacts parents sometimes have on their children and the unintended consequences that occur as a result of their parenting. In "Dog," Henry Devereaux grows into an adult who has difficulty connecting emotionally with others, a man who is not easy, and though entertaining, is not comforting. In "Two Kinds," Jing-mei was a failure many times over in her mother's eyes, finally dropping out of college and only