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Parenting Styles In I Am Sam

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While watching “I Am Sam”, Baumrind’s parenting styles are displayed in the main characters. The parenting style Sam best represents is authoritative. Sam encourages Lucy to be the best she can be while still enforcing rules. Lucy pretends she cannot read the word “different” because she does not want to progress without Sam, and he forces her to read the word. Sam also knows what is right and wrong and enforces this on Lucy. When Lucy climbed out of the window and walked to Sam’s new apartment, he took her right back to her foster family’s house. Sam may have the mental capacity of a seven year-old, but he is a good parent in my eyes. Another parenting style shown in “I Am Sam” is neglectful parenting. Sam’s lawyer, Rita is always busy with her practice and does not spend enough time with her son, resulting in him being uninterested in her. Rita’s husband is never around and is unfaithful to Rita. Rita not having enough time for her son and her husband leaving creates an unstable environment for her son. …show more content…

The movie ended with Sam telling Randy that Lucy needs a mother figure in her life, and I assumed that the next scene would be the court’s decision. Instead, the ending scene of “I Am Sam” was Lucy playing in a soccer game with her father, Sam as a referee and Randy with her husband in the stands. The film ends with unanswered questions, and makes you wonder what had happened with Sam and Lucy. Many questions are unanswered in the final scene. Did Sam get custody? Did Randy and her husband adopt Lucy and Sam has visitations? Based on the ending of the film I can only assume that the court made the decision for Sam, Randy and her husband to receive joint custody of Lucy. I am satisfied with this ending because Sam gets to be with his daughter who he loves and Lucy has a mother figure in her

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