As human beings we are constantly adjusting to the increasing speed of the 21st century. More times than we can count we find ourselves losing our minds, and more importantly our patience. We sigh when forced to wait in line at the post office…well at least I do. We curse our computers for being too slow and honk our horns at slowpokes in traffic. Time certainly has a rightful place when we think about it, but it’s absolute insanity to think that everyone and everything should move at the pace we dictate. Most of us, myself included, could learn a thing or two about patience. I am a firm believer in the phrase “Good things come to those who wait.” Even though it is hard to wait for things, let’s face it, when have we ever rushed into …show more content…
It was hard at first, I would make them a meal they didn’t like or enforce rules they did not agree with and they would get angry, cry, and shout just as any other child would. However, over time we were able to find some common ground and get along. I was always reminding myself that they were just kids and they didn’t know any better. Eventually we found better ways to communicate and listen to each other. I didn’t really realize it then but those children taught me the beginning of what patience meant. There was one particular day that really stood out to me. Two of the boys were doing their math homework. They were struggling and I could see the frustration written all over their face. So I plopped myself down on a chair and wedged myself between the two of them. “Maybe I can help?” I offered cautiously. They looked at like I was growing two heads and I could see the wheels turning in their minds. After a few moments they agreed. We sat for 2 hours as I explained to them how to multiply and divide fractions. We had become so engrossed in the lesson that I hadn’t realized their mother had returned home. When the homework was finished, the mother took me aside and she said to me in awe, “You have the patience of a saint”. Nobody had ever told me that before. I always thought myself to be an impatient person considering the fact that I could never wait for anything. That was the moment it truly hit me though. It took patience, a lot of patience to be with
This metaphor is emphasizing the idea that if one waits to long to take action then he or she may lose the chance to act on his or her desires. Furthermore, a metaphor that reveals the brevity of life is “Thus, though we cannot make our sun / Stand still, yet we will make it run” (Marvell 45-46). This metaphor describes how time is always moving. It is expressing the idea that one needs to make the most out of the time he or she has because time itself cannot be stopped.
"It takes great patience and love in order to make the kind of progress that benefits everyone." (Mashos) Patience is a needed characteristic in today's society. An example of patience would be my trip to Disney World when I was seven years old. When my parents sprung the surprise that we would be going to Disney World, the trip itself was still a month and a half out. That month and a half was the longest of my entire life. I was so excited and it seemed so far away. Finally the day came and I woke up a ball of sunshine, "Everyone wake up! It's Disney day, it's Disney day!" We packed our bags frantically figuring out what was important to bring and what was not, and then we drove to the airport with the anticipation buzzing in the air. Meanwhile at the airport we proceeded to wait an additional hour to get through security and wait for the plane to be ready to board. On the plane we flew for 3 hours and landed in Orlando, Florida, which is a relatively short drive from Disney World itself. My family and I were
Instant gratification is something that everybody is used to nowadays. Whether wanting to find an answer to a question, needing to add numbers together or finding out if a pregnancy test is positive, answers come instantly. Most people do not realize that earlier generations did not have those answers available in the blink of an eye. People had to wait for things. They had patience and realized that not everything in the world is instant. Society now demands that everything should happen right away and we should not have to wait for anything, but that is making the world full of impatient, entitled people. Since most people do not know what it’s like to not have instant gratification most individuals take that for granted. Instant gratification has caused a lot of problems in society, including taking away face-to-face communication, patience, and certainty.
empathise. They need support to deal with conflict and becoming frustrated by using humour or distract them by talking about something they enjoy. Over time children will learn to interact and
It is easy to embrace someone who is lovable, but it is much more difficult to accept a more challenging child. I would start by demonstrating grace and patience with them, which would include forgiving their mistakes and starting with a clean slate every day. In addition, I plan to provide positive solutions which would benefit both the class and the student. I would never give up on them. Next, I would lead by example by being receptive to each child’s personal space and needs. This would include looking for facial cues and evaluating their actions to determine what a child would benefit from. Responsibility can be demonstrated by being accountable for both my successes and mistakes. For example, if I realized that I gave incorrect information, I would be honest about it to my students. Lastly, service can be displayed by going above and beyond the call of duty on a regular basis. This could mean staying before or after school to mentor a student, or making a point to give constructive positive feedback to every student.
After the second month, we sat down and I told them that from now on they needed to get along and not fight and if I felt that they could have handled the problem better by talking and compromising, their friends would not be able to come over on Friday. Sadly, this went on for a month or so and they finally learned and became best friends, talked with each other with respect, played games, went to parties together. I decided to ground them from having friends over until they learned to respect one another and be respectful to each other. It took a few months for them to learn. Guide children to resolve conflicts by
She was able to understand that you didn’t interact with the children based on their age, but where there at in life and their needs. Mama P’s. nurturing environment seems to be very therapeutic and helpful for those children who might never have experienced anything like that before (Perry & Szalavitz,
Within the article, No time to think: Reflections on information technology and contemplative scholarship, David Levy discusses his perspective on the use of time and technology. He projects his ideas to his audience and basically says to take a chill pill with technology and life overall. Levy writes this article in a very consistent tone but does not fail to mention the ideas that he has and how society should go about them. While writing about his understanding of time, it is easy for his audience to relate his piece to Time Ain’t Money by Douglas Rushkoff in multiple forms. Although Levy and Rushkoff might have different viewpoints on the concept of time, they both go about getting their beliefs across in a familiar and direct way.
When children are going through changes is their lives, it is essential that they receive support from the adults around them so that they are able to deal with the circumstances. Even if the children show resistance, the adults should remain positive and try and assist them.
In “The Nine Billion Names of God” a group of monks believe that once they list all the nine billion names of God they will have completed their mission on earth and human existence will perish. To complete their task earlier than the expected time they utilize modern technology. Although humanity insatiable thirst for knowledge has helped society progress tremendously, it can also be dangerous due to the immaturity that humans possess Being impatient has certainly never brought any good to anyone; it only breeds failure and leads to tragedy. In the story “Mars is Heaven!” Samuel Hinkstons and the other explores eagerness and unwillingness to wait longer before exploring an uncharted planet caused them to rely on family comfort for security; which only lead to failure because they died
Walter Mischel In the 1960s conducted a series of experiments on delayed gratification. In the experiments 4 and 5 year olds were put in a private room by themselves and given a choice, they could eat a piece of candy or they could wait 15 minutes and as a reward for waiting gain an additional piece of candy. Only a handful of the children could wait and resist the temptation of the candy.
Karen Maximos essay My Watch Ticks Differently explains how in different cultures around the world time is perceived differently and how in some cultures being on time is rude and in other cultures being late is disrespectful. The main situation is that everyone has a different perception on time and how to manage it. The writer want the readers to raise awareness about how each individual from different cultures perceive time and to respect how they do it. The writer is trying to accomplish that you shouldn’t criticize anyone on their time management because in their eyes they are right and they feel as if they are on schedule.
Paying a small price in order to receive a better deal in the future is the definition of delayed gratification. It goes along the lines of self-control and self-discipline. It wasn’t until the late nineteen-sixties that the idea or concept was given attention and research. Stanford University is known for experimenting with marshmallows and children at the age of approximately four or five. In these experiments, children were left in rooms alone along with a single marshmallow and told that if they waited until the scientist returned, they’d receive another one. It was found that only one third of these children delayed gratification. A few conclusions were made from these experiments. Delaying gratification has been found to have a positive impact on an individual’s success,
I am writing this essay due to the fact that I failed to show up on time to accountability formation at 0630 on 31July2012. I was informed the day prior of where my place of duty was and when I was suppose the be there. I knew that I had to be at troop no later than 0615 in summer IPFU for PT. I am aware that I agreed to the initial counseling that I was expected to be fifteen minutes prior to any formation. I failed the standards that were given to me by my first line. I am fully aware that time management is basic soldiering task. Failure of this basic soldiering task shows incompetence in discipline. This also shows to others in our troop that my leadership is not keeping
The best laid plans, the most important affairs, the fortunes of individuals, the weal of nations, honor, life itself, are daily sacrificed because somebody is behind time , there are others who