Perfectionism As A Dynamic And Multifaceted Personality Trait

Perfectionism taught me motivation, determination, persistence, and to have strong drive– qualities that most people find redeeming and can make me a great candidate

Perfectionism is feeling anxious about a project because you want it to be perfect, so you stress over and procrastinate until the last minute. It is not being able to walk away from a task because you always feel that it could be more perfect. It is thinking that it’s unacceptable to make a mistake and that your achievements and accomplishments define who you are. “Perfectionism is a personality disposition characterized by a person’s striving for flawlessness, and the setting

It’s been three hours while I sit here and stare at the blinking bar, symbolizing the fact that I have nothing. My page is blank, but I promise you, my thoughts are not. Thousands of ways to start this essay have run through my mind, but none of them are sufficient. Which, I suppose, is where I will begin. Perfectionism, as defined by Merriam-Webster, is, “a disposition to regard anything short of perfection as unacceptable” (“Perfectionism”). It is a trait that numerous people might regard as desirable or something to be proud of; a word used to describe oneself on a resume to impress employers. However, I see it much differently. Perfectionism is a fight for something unobtainable, a cyclical trap in which disappointment reigns, and

Perfectionism is the essential idea that by achieving something great or being loyal to a concept, a person, or an organization, one is able to create a code they can follow to pursue or to achieve perfection. Take in for example Geoffrey Chaucer's Canterbury Tale called The Pardoner's Tale, where a Pardoner; who is a man associated with no church and only pardons for money; tells a tale of greed, betrayal, retaliation, and death. He proclaims that the moral of this story is the Latin phrase, Radix malorum est cupiditas, which roughly translates to the love of money is the root of all evil. In addition, there is the epic poem Beowulf, where the titular character, known by all as the

Perfectionism is conceptualized as a multidimensional construct (Ayerst, Flett, & Hewitt, 2012). As cited in Ayerst, Flett and Hewitt (2012), Frost, Marten, Lahart and Rosenblate {I am working on getting access to this source} view perfectionism as a cognitive construct focused on concerns about making mistakes, posessing high standards, and doubting one’s actions. Additionally, Frost and colleagues also understood perfectionism as involving two

Perfectionism can be defined as an individual’s determination of extremely high standards of performance and behaviour. Hagen (2016) suggests that perfectionism stems from a genetic predisposition combined with environmental factors and an individual’s life experiences.

Do you push yourself to be the best? Do you get mad at yourself for not doing the best? Do you delay assignments till the last possible limit because of fear of rejection? Do you feel horrible when work isn’t done to your best ability of when minor failures seem like catastrophic ones? These are all signs of what is known as perfectionism (Pacht 1984). If you seem to agree with most of these things then you might be a perfectionist. According to Webster’s dictionary, it states that perfectionism is "a disposition which regards anything less than perfect, unacceptable." Many people in the world suffer from perfectionism. So is that case of Mike Bellah. His perfectionism lead him to a lifestyle where he lost

Dependent variables were asked for both perfectionism and depression symptoms. Participants responded with scores on the depression subscale containing 13 items measuring sadness, hopelessness, and loneness (e.g. “I just don’t care anymore.” and “No one understands me.”) There was approximately equal numbers of true or false and 4-point Likert scale items (Never=0, Sometimes=1, Often=2, Almost always= 3). The other key dependent variable for perfcetionsim asked participants to respond to a 22-item self-report scale with two subscales measuring SPP (“My family expects me to be perfect”) and SOP (“I want to be the best at everything I do.”) Participants rated the items on a 5-point Likert scale where 1 was not at all true for me and 5 was very true for me.

Students experiencing perfectionism will suffer academically because they would rather not complete or attempt to do their work or

Because of this inductive thinking, it influences us to believe in this imaginary standard of perfectionism everyone tries and hold themselves to due to how we were raised. Being ridiculed and penalized for being uneducated about the slightest,which makes individuals afraid of wrong or having to be corrected. Society has put such a negative connotation on being wrong people don’t see the positive of being wrong or challenging evidence of your own to see how much of what you believe in is

Since the last check-in, I have read chapter three and chapter four of How to Be an Imperfectionist by Stephen Guise. In chapter three which is entitled "The Poison of Perfectionism", the author goes into detail of the negative effects of having a perfectionist mindset. The ideas that stood out to me the most are that there are two kinds of perfectionist, ones that are never satisfied and ones that are hindered from completing things if they think failure is an option. Depending which category, you fall into, I think I am more towards avoiding things that do not have perfect outcomes, they can prevent you from experiencing life to its fullest. In chapter four entitled “The Freedom of Imperfectionism”, this section talks about the benefits of

During my freshman year, what I viewed as the worst possible event happened, (PAUSE) I got a B on my report card. I know that sounds dramatic but freshman me thought my world was ending. I now know that a B is a perfectly acceptable grade and that it's not the end of the world. But this raises the question, why did I think that a B was such a bad thing? Last year I worked on figuring out why I viewed B's as a bad thing. The end result of my thinking was that I am a perfectionist. Merriam Webster Dictionary defines perfectionism as “refusal to accept any standard short of perfection.” The reach for perfection can be painful because it is often driven by both a desire to do well and a fear of the consequences of not doing well. The problem is

Perfection is impossible. There is no one in the world who has not failed at least a hundred times. However, the hard part is learning from that failure and growing from it. People tend to bury their failures and try to hide them almost like a time capsule, hidden inside for a long time until someone finds it again. They are afraid of someone finding that time capsule and expecting treasures and spoils, but to be disappointed to only find worthless failures. We view failure as something that is worthless and disappointing and see success as a treasure. We expect something good out of anything we’ve worked so hard for and are returned with disappointment, as we can’t always succeed . We need to learn to realize is that failure is good and allows you to achieve success, if you let it be a learning experience. You need to overcome the fear of failure, persist your way through challenges, and know where you want to be in the end.

Perfectionism is when one sets very high expectations often in an “overly critical manner” (Frost, Marten, Lahart,&Rosenblate,1990).

Perfection is a deadly sickness. It is a wicked plague which clouds the mind, destroys focus, and eliminates any value you may hold for yourself. We are all told that perfectionism is, well, perfect. A flawless way to live where you make no mistakes, avoid any challenges, and are loved and cherished by everyone around you. But this cruel mindset is like a collar that chokes fun and kills passion, constricting joy and creativity in favor of the one and only best decision. The decision that will get you perfect grades, a perfect reputation, and nary an ounce of criticism. Now, while this might seem good, I can tell you for sure that it’s not. How? Because I’ve tried it.