Have you ever wondered what it feels like to be a wallflower? As in the advantages and disadvantages that comes with being a wallflower. In the book The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky, the protagonist is Charlie, a boy who is very shy and antisocial, he was named a wallflower by his friends. This title comes with it's own advantages and disadvantages of course. As we go through this story we see many times where it is a bad thing to be a wallflower for Charlie however, it does also come with some advantages. Like for example, he can understand people's feelings and their problems and he stays quiet about it not telling anyone else. The disadvantages are that due to being a wallflower he is very lonely, & he is often lost in …show more content…
All he wanted was a friend or someone to keep him from being alone. Finally his other disadvantage is he doesn't know what to do around people due to the fact that he has no friends. When Sam confronted Charlie about his feelings for Mary Elizabeth Charlie didn't know how to respond to her “Charlie ... after that thing with Mary Elizabeth at the party and us dancing at the club and everything ...” I didn’t know what to say. Honestly, I was lost. (page 199). Now because Charlie wasn't and still isn't very social he never learned how to respond or act on his feelings towards others. So in conclusion Charlie's life as an wallflower isn't the easiest thing out there for him with social awkwardness that he has it makes it so much harder for him. If Charlie was more social he wouldn't have these problems but he also wouldn't be the wallflower he is called to be. It's very important to take close attention to the text because he can say he feels alive with his friends but he could really feel alone or lost in his
This quote was chosen because Charlie desires to be loved, treasured, and essentially wanted like any human being would, but unfortunately his love was received in the wrong manner.
The response to this inquiry is "severance and the Civil War." The southern withdrawal was the aftereffect of a longstanding battle over the issue of subjection, and particularly the issue of slavery's venture into the western domains. Long stewing, this issue initially turned out to be really troublesome with the Missouri emergency regarding the affirmation of that state as a slave state in 1820. Settled, as different emergencies including servitude, by a political trade-off, the emergency from numerous points of view set the phase for future confrontations over the issue. The expansion of the cutting edge American Southwest through the Mexican War prompted another emergency, this time over the issue of California's affirmation as a free state
Charlie was known to have the personality that was always bright and talkative. Charlie had the lowest skill level out of all his “friends” and he didn't understand how real friends should treat one another so he never thought anything of it. Charlie felt good about himself but he wanted to be smart and know what his friends and other people around him knew. He was ready to learn and he wasn’t scared because he pushed fear away; he just wanted to know what it was like to comprehend what was going on in the world. The
[Keyes, 299] As an intelligent member of society, Charlie has a certain moment when he becomes frustrated once he understands the world he lives in, when he thinks of how “Before, they laughed at [him] and despised [him] for [his] ignorance and dullness; now, they hate [him] for [his] knowledge and understanding. [Keyes, 293]” These emotionally alienated members of society believe that they can alienate themselves, believing they can be happy alone. This happens very often. Society, in this way, doesn’t like to own up to their pain, and as such, alienates themselves. In this way, they connect to Charlie
‘The Perks of Being a Wallflower’ fits into the romance and drama genres, but the movie truly shines in its role as a coming of age film. ‘The Perks of Being a Wallflower’ tackles the hardships and pain that growing up can sometimes make you feel, and depicts high school in the most realistic way I have seen for a while. Other coming of age films like ‘Clueless’ and ‘Mean Girls’ portray high school in a sort of innocence, with issues going on in the protagonist’s lives only occurring during their times at school. This film doesn’t sugar coat things. It shows Charlie’s struggles from all different angles of growing up and
When Charlie was intelligent he often got irritated at the doctors because they weren’t as smart as him. He had also dealt with a lot of emotion with Miss Kinnian, Charlie was in love with Miss Kinnian. When he regressed, he was embarrassed to see her because he thought she would think he was dumb. When Charlie was at a diner, he saw a kid with disabilities, and everyone was laughing at him and so was Charlie. He was upset with himself that he laughed at him because that kid was him before he had the surgery to make him smart.
Charlie begins to hang out with Sam and Patrick and is getting in the routine of going to football games and then going out afterwards to celebrate. Afterwhile he catches feelings for Sam and the way he expresses them further deepens our understanding of his depression. Instead of going with the flow and not telling her about the dreams he had about her, he professes his love for her in the form of sharing his dreams and telling her just how he feels. Perhaps, this isn’t all his fault because when Sam tells him that she’s too old for him, he becomes obsessed with his love for her and can’t stop thinking about how perfect she is in his eyes. The only thing this confession has done for him is make his feelings grow and send him in a downward spiral of
Charlie, also has a peculiar speech pattern. Despite being a young teenager, his language is somewhat outdated; and he has a sardonic sense of humor. He shifts from “fancy” vocabulary to a more simple type of speech on a regular basis. In his first letter of Part 4, he describes someone’s face as “ashen”; but he had previously described his family members using the words “nice” and “fat”. Surprisingly simple speech from someone so seemingly contemplative. He, Charlie, is also very “matter-of-fact” about things. He does not say things that he does not believe to be true; and if he’s unsure, he states his ignorance as a fact. This is easy to see in Part 1 when he states, “I am really in love with Sam, and it hurts very much,” like it was an immovable thought or an unchangeable
I think that The Perks of Being a Wallflower is exceptional in its class of literary works mainly because Chbosky chose to push the limits of teen fiction. Most young adult writers are afraid to further explore the world of drugs, sexuality, and depression in too much detail. What most writers fail to realize is that high school vividly explains all those things. Young readers are ready for a book that seems to understand that too. Chobosky did a wonderful job at developing and defining each character. He made them seem real, which helps readers relate. Although many may think that the number of controversial issues discussed in the book makes it negative, the book is really about finding yourself in the midst of chaos and peer pressure. Charlie eventually
If this story was a narrative, there would be more thoughts of Charlie’s in each situation. As he closes the day or, writes about a previous day, it is impossible to record all his thoughts; to add to this, he knows that others will be reading it and has admitted that it is hard for him to openly admit everything (Keyes 59). Although these are rather minor problems, each affects the story in small ways. The story is so focused on Charlie and he doesn’t know everyone’s stories that it causes him to be blindsided and not understand why a character acts the way they do. This is most prevalent when Burt tells Charlie about Professor Nemur wife’s character (Keyes 152). At this point, Charlie learns that Nemur’s wife has a lot of control over his career and without her, he wouldn’t be where he is now. Other details, like these, would help add to the story to give a more complete view of each character.
Charlie is very far from what most people call normal: he is shy, introverted, awkward, independent, paranoid, confused, respectable and kind; showing many examples of this throughout the book. He keeps to himself for the most part and is constantly in his own head. Aside from the many negative traits he also has many attributes: he is a loyal friend and listens to the people he talks to, he is a caring person and comforts those in need. However he has his flaws as well: Charlie can get very angry and upset at others which causes him to lash out with violence or sadness, he is extremely sensitive, crying frequently and constantly questioning himself. Several of his peers labeled him as nerd or a weirdo, which damaged
The Perks of Being A Wallflower is a book about the changes teens go through as they mature and the obstacles they face during this time. Charlie comes across changes in his relationships, his own stance in his family, school, and friends, and how he thinks of himself. He learns about his past and makes changes towards how he thinks about himself and why he is who he is.
Charlie was a man that did not know how to stand up for himself. He allowed his peers to bully him, and treat him like he is worthless. Charlie thinks that if he allows people to laugh at him, and tease him, they will become his friend. He thinks “Its easy to make frends if you let
Loneliness is a feeling that everyone will experience at some point in their life. Loneliness can be felt even when you’re in a room full of people. In “The Perks of Being a Wallflower,” the characters, including Charlie, are no exception to this feeling of being lonely. Teenagers are probably the age group that has this feeling the most. This a time in life that you are changing, the people around you are changing, and you’re finally growing up and maturing and each person handles these changes differently. We each will feel this as some point as we grow and realize that the things and the people that we have grown accustomed to won’t be there anymore because it’s time for us to experience new things in life.
The Perks of Being a Wallflower is a coming of age film about a 15 year old boy, Charlie, who has been through much trauma. As a freshman Charlie is left with no friends, because of the suicide of his best friend Michael, but he has the support of an english teacher who inspires his dreams of becoming a writer. Eventually, step-siblings Sam and Patrick discover that Charlie is lonely and in need of a friend, so they take him under their wing. Sam, Patrick, and their group of friends have much wisdom about life, because they are older, much of which they share with Charlie. Under the wing of Sam and Patrick, Charlie becomes more excited about life. Although, he still struggles with the side effects of past traumas, and dreads the day his new friends leave for their lives after high school.