The Things I Carry Everyone has something that makes them someone. Without that special thing we would be no one. These things are what make you, who you are. These things can be physical or emotional or just an idea. These things are what you carry with you through your life. I carry my respect for solitude. As a person I would not be the same if I did not have a respect for solitude. I would be a completely different person than who I have become. My mama has taught since I was young that I can do anything I need for myself and I don’t need anybody to support myself, but she will still always be there. By doing these she didn’t just teach me independence she taught me to still be happy in solitude. I don’t have to have someone else with me to have a good time or enjoy life. That is something I still carry with me. When I was little I didn’t have ever really have a friend. I would hop from friend group to friend trying to fit in, but it never really worked. I guess you can pretty much call me a “floater.” So every weekend when everyone …show more content…
I can go hang out with my friends on the weekends and be happy but, I could still stay home and watch movies all weekend and be happy as well. Most my kids my age hate sitting at home all weekend, but I think it's relaxing. I spend all week at school doing work with a bunch of other teens my age at home in solitude I can reflect and I can get away from school and drama. Solitude may not be a real person, but I've carried it through my life like a friend. Solitude gives a person time to think and reflect on what they've done. Solitude is hated by some, but some can appreciate its true greatness. Every since I was little I was taught that solitude was not a bad thing, and that is something i've carried with me my whole life. From 7-13 years old and I have still not lost my love and respect I have for being able to be in
Thoreau, while not expressing his view as dramatically as McCandless, also viewed isolation as a positive experience. He believed in being able to be entertained even while in solitude, and that the loneliness with being “alone in a crowd” is more likely than the loneliness that comes with solitude. He believes that becoming part of the mass of society is what culminates loneliness, that the need for constant communication is no more than a need to gossip (Thoreau73). He believes that with independence, one can find oneself. Thoreau often mentions that the company of others isn’t needed, stating that if you “follow your genius closely... it will not fail to show you a fresh prospect every hour,” (Thoreau73). This means that if you rely on yourself when enveloped in boredom, you will find entertainment in something more times than not. He strongly follows this philosophy, even cleaning out his cabin or doing housework when bored (Thoreau72). Thoreau often set all his furniture out on the lawn, scrubbing
Why is solitude looked down on society? It should be advised by people to start engaging in the concept of solitude. Henry David Thoreau and Chris McCandless were both transcendentalism that believes in the key fundamental idea that the human body should partake in such as solitude. Henry Thoreau was a transcendentalist that practiced the form of solitude throughout his life. He left society and moved into the woods to be removed from the confines of society. Along with Thoreau, a more modern-day transcendentalist was known as Chris McCandless. McCandless journeyed to the wilderness in Alaska to be able to experience a minimal amount of human interaction along with the solitude that comes with it. The concept of solitude should be
Many people in today’s society are striving to find more peace and patience in their life as the world around them moves at a rapid pace. Many things can bring a person this peace, but arguably the greatest asset to incorporate into their lives would be solitude. Solitude brings much needed quiet time where humans are free to talk to the Creator of the Universe about anything they want and be humbled by the Lord’s presence. Although solitude can be perceived as boring and pointless, this discipline creates quiet time with the Lord where believers can develop and renew their souls, connect deeply with him, and establish a blossoming relationship with God.
I believe the overall message of Henry David Thoreau´s “Solitude” is to differentiate solitude and loneliness which are totally different. It is more of a state of mind than something real. People around by other people would feel more loneliness than people who are physically alone. For Thoreau being in solitude is the best way to discover your mind and spirituality and is the best way to know yourself.
Oftentimes, people confuse loneliness with the state of being alone. When looking at the overall big picture, it is easy to forget that loneliness is temporary. People are not alone because even back in primitive times, they bore a natural instinct to strive for companionship in order to survive. Human imagination creates companions in cases of extreme loneliness which contradicts the state of being alone. Due to societal and family standards, others in society make it practically impossible to be alone. Mankind often goes through life without realizing the overwhelming amount of human contact and support. People are never alone, they are just simply
Like most my age, I am always equipped with a smart phone. Many would deem it necessary in this day and age. Some people get them as young as 10 years old. I only carry one per my parent's request. Not to say that I don’t enjoy the perks of having it with me: access to any answer for any question that might be asked, the capability to talk to my family and friends at any given moment throughout the day, and plenty of applications to screw around with if I find myself with extra time. It weighs almost nothing, so light that at any given moment I will panic because I worry I lost it. It holds a different kind of weight though. It is heavy in the moments that it is “lost”, when there is a fear that it is not with me,
Similar to Thoreau, McCandless does not associate being in solitude to being lonesome. Throughout his journey, McCandless avoids forming close bonds with others because it distracts him from his final goal of independence and transcendentalism. This lack of intimate relationships frees McCandless as seen through the journal entry he wrote before walking into the Alaskan Bush. He writes proudly that for two years he has roamed with no company and no comforts. He calls it, “Ultimate freedom” (Krakauer 163). The fact that he considers it more of a freedom than a loss to live in solidarity shows that like Thoreau, McCandless does not feel lonely when he is alone. According to his sister, Carine, even when he was younger, he was fine with being alone. She said that although he had friends, he could easily entertain himself and never seemed lonely when he was alone. Another instance in which McCandless’s dissociation of solitude and loneliness shows is in a letter he writes to Ron Franz, a man he met near Salton City. In this letter, he tells Franz to step outside his comfort zone and live a more adventurous life. Towards the end of the letter, he states, “You are wrong if you think Joy emanates only or principally from human relationships,” (Krakauer 57). This approach is how he is not lonely in solitude; he is capable of finding joy in things other than human contact.
Many times in my life, I have wanted to be alone: whether it be in my bedroom, relaxing in my backyard, or watching Netflix. During this personal time, I can decompress following a rough or stressful day. At times, I envy people like the Transcendentalists who always strive to be alone with their own thoughts. The more they focus on their own opinions the more they believe in them. Moreover, Ralph Waldo Emerson states “To go into solitude, a man needs to retire as much from his chamber as from society. I am not solitary whilst I read and write, though nobody is with me” (Emerson). A true Transcendentalists does not hide away with literature or Netflix, instead, they have no outside forces influencing their true thoughts. Contradicting ideas, in
Rilke talked about solitude in letter eight. As I grow older, I gradually understand that everything will not be smooth, it is hard. There will be many things we cannot avoid, such as solitude. Nowadays, solitude has already become a regular phenomenon in our daily life. For example, when I walk on the street, I always see a person walking alone, eating alone, shopping alone, or even goes to concerts alone. As Rilke said, “ Solitude it always becomes clearer that this is at the bottom, not something that one can take or
Ascher makes the difference between loneliness and solitude clear. Solitude makes a person more aware of themselves and they are much happier than people who are lonely. Ascher uses many descriptions and details to prove her
It also does not require lots of input to live after his own opinion when a man lives alone, but the “great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude
Through solitude, we have the opportunity to retreat and be alone with God. We are away from the hustle and bustle of our chaotic days. We are not concerned with work, school, or family, which allows us to rid ourselves of the noise pollution that effects “the sacred within.” During times of solitude we can readjust our focus and thoughts on love for ourselves and our love for God. We can center ourselves and as Narsinha Mehta writes, “They are pure in thought, word, and deed. Free from greed, anger, and fear, These are the real lovers of God.” (Easwaren, 1982. P. 148). This time in solitude allows us the ability to confess our faults and motivates us to seek God.
The novel, Wild, also dealt a great deal with the concept of isolation. Cheryl, the main character, hiked 1,100 miles of the 2,663 mile long Pacific Crest Trail, completing a 94-day journey. Although Cheryl, unlike PI, bumped into a few people over the course of her journey, she was for the most part in complete isolation. She too learned some valuable lessons causing her to grow as a person through her own extreme isolation. Cheryl’s exploration of her own solitude is demonstrated when she writes “Alone had always felt like an actual place to me, as if it weren’t a state of being, but rather a room where I could retreat to be who I really was. The radical aloneness of the PCT had altered that sense. Alone wasn’t a room anymore, but the whole wide world.” (p. 98). This shows the full extent of the aloneness Cheryl feels on the PCT. She states that in a way, she had always been comfortable with being alone, but the extent of the isolation she is now feeling, true aloneness, is much more extreme the the slight solitude she often felt in her old city life. Clearly, being alone in the wilderness is a far different experience, one that she can learn much different and more
Once in a while, people tend to seek solitude and take a break from their rumbling social lives, but as the adage goes, too much of everything is poisonous. Past evidence from researchers has suggested that too much solitude can be unhealthy and the psychological effects of this can last a lifetime.