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Personal Experience: A Cultural Analysis

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I always found it challenging to say what my ethnicity and culture was. If anyone takes a look at me, they would say I’m Indian. Then I tell them I am on my mother’s side, but on my dad’s side, I’m actually from Pakistan. They only get more confused when I tell them my dad only lived there for 10 years and lived in Sweden for most of his adolescent life. That only tells people what my heritage was, but that’s where I begin to get befuddled. Even though my parents are from there, I was born and raised in the United States. I always had a difficult time defining myself culturally because I had deep Desi roots, but I was also a “normal” American. Just like most American teenagers, I go shopping at the mall, hang out with my friends, go to the movies, and spend hours listening to music off of Spotify. However, I still was different. Unlike my friends who could get Bs and Cs, go out without asking permission first, and wear short shorts, I had to get As, ask several times before going out, and had to stick with fingertip length shorts. Being culturally different from most of my friends always made me stand out in a crowd for both my skin color and for the way I acted which made me seem vastly different from “normal” Americans. When I was a child, I went to a predominantly white elementary school. There was one African American kid, a handful of Asians, and maybe ten South Asians. Because I went to such an undiverse …show more content…

I am an American in every sense. Each year I celebrate the 4th of July, I spend summer breaks at beaches, and I have a normal high school experience with friends, gossip, and textbooks. I am also an Indian in every sense. I celebrate all my religious holidays, I videochat with my relatives in India, and I watch Indian television and movies. Although it was difficult to reach the state of both cultures being perfectly balanced, I finally did reach that state after years of it being

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