At some point, no one has ever been happy with their family. It may be because of a bad decision, a terrible misunderstanding or an inevitable situation. It could be a lot of things. But in my family, it was something simple yet irritating: rules. It felt suffocating. And because of it, I was hardly allowed to do the things I wanted to; like hanging out with friends for one.
I can seemingly recall how often I felt left out; from the clothes I wore to the things I didn’t have. And in fact, no one would believe me if I told them I don’t and will never have a Facebook account. Apparently, I am not age-ready and responsible enough to have one. And even if I will be in the later years, it wouldn’t be that much of a hit anymore. It
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Apart from the matters regarding grades, she said that he saw the four of us (my mother, my siblings and me) playing hide-and-seek, late one afternoon. That day, the sun just went down and we were waiting for my dad to pick us up from school. It was the perfect time to play hide-and-seek. When our dad finally came, each of us lined up to kiss him on the cheek like we always did. But because I knew there were still people around, I kissed my dad quickly. As my mother continued telling me what happened during their talk, she said that my adviser suddenly burst into tears. How he wished he had a family like ours: perfect. Upon hearing the whole story, I went numb then guilty all of a sudden. How can that be? What exactly did he see in us that day which made him say that it was perfect? I felt ashamed. My teacher was hurting and I wasn’t feeling anything at all. Aside from the fact that he is a guy, I couldn’t imagine him crying over such a thing. I couldn’t even imagine myself crying over such a thing. But I know for sure that my family is anything but perfect. I couldn’t understand. Not yet.
During class devotion time with our adviser one day, our point of conversation moved from the day’s scripture to matters about family; something I wasn’t that thrilled to be talking about then. When it was our adviser’s turn to speak, he retold of the time when he saw us playing hide-and-seek
Even tho many are lucky to have their parents together and grow up in one family that was altogether, I was lucky to grow in a divorced family and I say lucky because I have become stronger because of this situation and even tho I have become stronger, I have also learned to cut off the slack off myself. I grew up with 3 older male siblings and we were not the type to get along and share, some of us would help each other and the older tell the younger how to survive through different circumstances but I was left out.
What makes a person happy? Happiness is an endless path in life. Everyone has a different opinion about what makes them happy. People have always been attentive to the issue of what makes humans happy. However, getting a large amount of money is a pursuit for many people, especially the young generation around the world. In the article, “Get Happy” by Walter Mosley, he states how, “Happiness is considered by most to be a subset of wealth” (87). Quote above explains how money is the first thing that comes in person’s mind that make them happy because with the money one can buy anything he wants. Money is one of the most important things in over lives because we need it to have a home to live in, food to eat, clothes to wear, and to get
People travel through life with what seems like a single goal: to be happy. This may seem like a selfish way to live, however this lone objective is the motivation behind nearly all actions. Even seemingly selfless deeds make people feel better about themselves. That warm feeling experienced while doing charitable acts can be described as happiness. But what is authentic happiness? There is an endless possibility of answers to this question, and man seems to be always searching for the solution. Although one may reach his or her goals, there is always still something one strives for in order to be happy. In the book Stumbling on Happiness, Harvard psychologist Daniel Gilbert takes the reader through
Happiness: a Human Disease -- An Examination of the Allegorical Theme of Existentialism in the Happy Man
As I endured the prospect of creating a genogram, I allowed myself to reflect and interpret the history and impacts that affected my family. During my review of my genogram, I was able to consider my family within a multigenerational, diverse, and socio-political context. By creating a genogram, a dialogue was started within my head and with my partner about which family traits, issues, strengths, and resiliencies made me who I am today. Subsequently, this dialogue made me aware that being raised in a small family has many advantages along with some disadvantages when acquiring information about influences and the history of preceding generations. Consequently, I did not have to contend with many conflicting recollections but I did have to rely mostly on my own memory, public records, and journals to piece together my genogram. Although all things discovered and recollected are not always fortunate on the surface, they subsist as basis to my personal resilience and strength as a gay man.
Having a sense of meaning and purpose to life can come from discovering our life purpose and living out our personal mission and vision. When we are living for a purpose, we can develop a greater sense of meaning for what happens in our life, and a positively correlated topic with this is religiosity. Having a spiritual or religious relationship seems to aid in the cultivation of purpose and meaning. Most of these variables are interrelated and build on one another, and they can be learnt and developed if we are willing to put in the time to grow in these areas .
This was a hard subject for me because happiness is quite difficult to define the true meaning, because it's different in each person's eyes. Yes, there's comfort in having things like food, shelter, and healthcare that money provides us, but does it offer true happiness? Before we can answer this puzzling question first let's understand what true happiness is. Happiness, true happiness is an inner quality. It is a state of mind. If your mind is at peace, you are happy. If your mind is at peace, but you have nothing else, you can be happy. If you have everything the world can give - pleasure, possessions, power - but lack peace of mind, you can never be happy. This quote is by Dada Vaswani, now I know there are thousands of quotes about
I remember our last goodbye, the last words exchanged, the ending of something beautiful. People you care about have big impacts on who you turn out to be. They guide you, teach you, protect you, love you, hurt you, but most importantly they are there for you. He was gone before I could even blink. And left me all alone. But family helped me through this journey and one day I hope to help others like others have helped me.
I woke up and it was a new day, where everything was normal, but it wasn't, my brother wasn't there. Over the years I grew up with my brothers and two dogs which one looked like a fatten up sausage ready to be eaten. I learned to love and live with them. They were my best friends and I spent most of my days with them. Playing history games or other similar games which they were a massive part of my life. One day that all stopped when the wind died down all was left was me and my final brother. (2)
I’m not happy. It’s shouted from toddlers’ mouths, complained from high schoolers jaws, and mumbled through the lips of a nine-to-fivers. There isn’t a magic pill to make these people happy, but that doesn’t mean it's not possible. Creating a life of happiness can be done through a mix of science, engagement, and a drive to achieve the goal of lifetime happiness.
Getting away from problems of a great feeling when said problem has been bothering you all week. Some background info on my experience i went up to shawano for a week with my extended family which consists of five of my cousins two of which are younger, Bryce is my seven year old cousin and Declan is my four year old cousin, my three older cousins who are Kaitlyn, Marissa, and Conner, Kaitlin and Marissa are twins who are sixteen and Conner is thirteen. On that thursday which was the very last full day of our week we decided to leave them behind and the four of us older ones decided to go to our secret sandbar to go swimming because we were fed up with Bryce and Declan running the show. Enjoying life is one of the key things to living a happy life, Don’t feel like others need to control the way you live your life.
I still remember the smell of her rose garden, the sun trickling in and casting shadows from between the leaves. To this day, the smell of roses takes me back to the first truly happy time in my life. It was in my grandma’s garden that I would spend the long, lazy days of summer, playing with toys, her reading to me, and just generally enjoy being in nature with the person I loved the most. My grandmother took an inordinate amount of pride in her garden; she was as attentive and caring to it as she was with all living things. I can vividly recall the soft, leathery skin of her strong hands as she helped me navigate the world through a child’s eyes, always listening, always patient.
Today was going to be one most irritating day for my family and we didn't know it. We thought our family holiday was going great there hadn't been any of the arguments that cause my mother to say “that it pack everything we are going back home, i have had enough”. Even if she had said that i would highly doubt that she would get the car all packed to drive ten hour back down the road.
On a Friday night almost nine clocks. I and my family were getting the table dinner ready for our guest for tonight. Everyone seems to be happy that we have company coming in. the bell door rang, I rush to the door to open it. Thomas Jefferson - "The Founding Father" arrived. I was honored to have him in my house. I expected all of them to come together at the same time, so we don't have to wait for others in order to eat. I took him to his seat and I told him to make yourself at home. The doorbell rang again, I opened the door. There was C.S. Lewis, his Holiness the Dalai Lama, Gretchen Rubin and Jennifer Michael Hecht standing in line. I was like thank god they came at the same time. I took them to their seats. Before we began eating I told them how happy am I see them and to eat with them. Everyone started eating, While I was eating I was thinking about how happy am I. I asked myself why am I happy right now. Then, I asked everyone at the table, what makes people happy? Is it freedom, money, or pleasure and desire.
No one can’t meet a family like mine’s. My family is well diversified. Every family member plays an important role in all my family’s lives. In my family, there are four people: my father, my mother, my little brother and me. My father is one who brings money home and is also responsible for organizing and planning family trips. My mother is the one who is in charge for making meals and makes sure everyone eats at the appropriate times. My little brother is the pet of the family. He actually doesn’t have any responsibilities, for he’s the pet. I am the rock of support in my family. I always go beyond my parents’ expectations. I also support my younger cousins and little brother, by being a role model that they can look up to. Another