Where I found my personal legend cannot be found at the time of my childhood. In fact, I didn’t do much of anything in my childhood. Growing up, and even now, I had a vague sense of what I would be doing when I’m older, as if I was looking through a lens that’s stuck on a blurry aperture. Whatever career interests I had were fleeting and unfitting. During my childhood, I lived in Hanford, an obscure farm town just south of Fresno. I spent my days being raised by my grandmother, sitting alone in my house and eating dinner alone until my parents came home while the same news channel played on TV. It’s nothing depressing; I even remember enjoying the solitude. I had a few friends, although I saw them as how people see most of their friends on social media: I do not really know who you are, but I sort of do, I guess, even if I have known you for years. Regardless, I was happy with being alone most of the time. This is the source of my introversion and the intensity of my self-awareness. Nevertheless, my strong sense of self-awareness doesn’t always mean I’ll know what to do, and it doesn’t mean I’ll be okay. …show more content…
I moved into a new house, went through the end of elementary school, and then moved on to middle school. In early middle school, I had gotten everything done on time and it could be said that I had a lot of positive traits about myself. However, you know those embarrassing phases people went through at different stages in their adolescence? Well, I went through them too, but somehow simultaneously--which was awful. I was incredibly awkward, but I was also quite pretentious; an embarrassing combination. Whatever embarrassing thing I said or did was great in the moment, but later on it turned into a horrible memory that I kept thinking about at night, wondering if anyone remembered it. The rest of the time I was brimming with anxiety, always avoiding to do something that I would subsequently
When someone is alone, people will see them as an outsider, having no friends can send out this vibe. However, to some, they may seem alone, but to them, they may see others as alone. Back to the scenario that was brought up earlier, if a kid is reading outside alone, some may think he is lonely, but to him, he is just relaxing, and reading. Also, to him, he may see another kid playing basketball on his own, the kid reading probably thinks that he is lonely, and an outsider. These people, might just like to be alone. For me, personally, I like to be alone sometimes. Being in public can be a real drain mentally and it is good to have the time for just being by oneself, no worrying. However, there are days when I realize, that occasionally, being alone is not chosen by someone, sometimes, people are just alone and lonely, at that moment, they may be begging to be social, and have closer relationships with people they know. This is one of the ways that outsiders are misunderstood, people might think that they want to be alone, which is a common occurrence, but just because they are alone, does not mean that is where they want to
In life, there are many times where an individual may feel alone. Personally, this past week can attest to that notion. Moving into a college dorm, saying goodbye to my loved ones, and taking on a new chapter in my life, have all been accompanied by a new set of emotions that I have never felt before: homesickness, freedom, peer-pressure. However, looking around everyone seems happy, and it feels as if I am trapped in a space that no one else appears to be in. But, internally they may be battling the same struggles that I am. That is what can be drawn from “The Wisdom of Sociology: Sam Richards at TedxLacador,” the idea that behind the facade, our personal struggles are all connected.
When people are still in the stages of cognitive development, the way society acts toward them is considered very important and very hard to get around. A display of this can be seen as the subject in films, books, articles studies, and everyday life. In an article on the subject, Psychology Today said, “loneliness is a major recipient to depression.” So, under these circumstances it could be viewed as hard to cope well enough to produce any beneficial thoughts and ideas. However, being an outsider takes a lot of willpower and coping as it is, and it can be shown that no person is ever truly alone though they may feel like it. With this type of willpower and unrestrained environment creativity can flow within an outsider and be exposed to society and benefit
I spent most of my days watching television and eaten chips. I saw my mom and dad at night and my brother during the day, not one else. I rarely went out with my parents on weekends and spent most of my time alone. I even spent a New Years Eve alone, well with my dog. This time alone was not one with lots of self reflection. It caused depression and lots of social anxiety.
The summer before I started 7 grade, was long and intimidating. I threw an end of the year party and my friends and I were playing outside. My friend Sia was jumping on the trampoline and she became frustrated with a soccer ball so she kicked it off and it landed right into the fire pit. Ever since then, my friends and I have joked that the flaming ball represents our junior high experience. There have been numerous accounts of where I have fallen up the stairs like a few days ago, went to the wrong class or made a complete fool of myself, especially in math class. 7 grade was just the beginning of two gruesome years at the junior high. At first it was an intimidating school, which I thought had secret hallways and now I can stroll down the halls without being afraid of some teacher screaming at me or students towering over me. Although, I guess students still tower over me so not much has changed. I’ve learned from my numerous mistakes, became a better student and person overall in the past 2 years.
That day I learned something the hard way being scared on a ride. Most people might think about that ride being fun but when being on a ride with having drops you get scared. Especially if you haven't rode any rides that drop. When the place says its suppose to The Happiest Place on Earth!
Music has always been emotionally evocative to me since I was young. I am always able to recall just how extreme the atmosphere and mood can be enhanced by music. Whether at a bitter-sweet moment in a TV show or at a heroic moment in a video game music is always there to multiply the emotions of the scene tenfold. Even today I find myself recalling emotions and feeling them all over again whenever I listen to a particular piece of music, especially so for ones that went along with a highly memorable scene in a show or game. I wind up pumping my fist in the air all over again if inspiring, or fighting back tears if morose. I never knew why music affected me so or how, and so after learning of this assignment I decided it was time I looked into it. Why this story matters is simple. It is simply the reason I ever asked this question. I wanted to know why music could affect emotions to such an extent, and why it could leave such lasting impacts.
At first when you told me to start thinking about what my personal legend was and how it could not be what you want to be when you grow up, I had no clue what mine would be. Ever since the start of high school, I have spent more time researching my options for the future and feeling uncertain about my future more and more that I never stopped to think about what could make me live a satisfying life. Luckily we read this book and do this assignment because it made me start to think about what my personal legend in life could be. After thinking for quite a while I decided that my personal legend right now at least would to be as happy as possible throughout the rest of my life and cherish every moment possible, especially with friends and family.
I could talk wonders about my family, but let’s face it the good stuff tends to bore us while the bad things tend to call our attention. My family has it all, the good and the bad. I would say my family should have its own reality television show where every week the viewers would stay tuned in because my family is dramatic, let me clarify that, my family is super, mega, dramatic. Plus, what Hispanic family doesn’t have drama, right? My family has it all, the chisme, drama, and jealousy. I am making my family sound bad, but in reality they are not. My family is very sweet, loving, and caring. Not only do those qualities belong to my family but I tend to come from a very supporting family, even though my parents divorced when I was 15.
To me, I was just a helpless little 7-year-old that they had ripped me away from his friends, family, home and life in Costa Rica, a relatively unrecognizable, spanish-speaking country in Central America, and moved to this rural, musty little town in the middle of nowhere, Texas in who cares, USA. We had had this same overly-emotional conversation 2 dozen times before-or that’s what it seemed like at least-but it was this 25th time that convinced me that if I didn’t choose to adapt to my new environment by becoming more outgoing and extroverted then I would end up becoming some outlandish, depression isolationist who was not useful to any aspect of society, and that thought, to this day, is the most terrifying thing I have ever
For most of my life, I had been the definition of an introvert. I was afraid of anything unfamiliar. The thought of meeting strangers would make me cringe. In the first grade, I cried for the entire year. I cried walking to school, and I sobbed on the way home. When my parents sent me away for junior high, I clutched on to my sister’s sleeves as if I were being sent away forever. Then one day, I changed. Perhaps I was sick of being the shy little girl always hiding behind others’ back, but I decided to do something different. I volunteered to host school assemblies, acted in dramas, and decided to study abroad to America. I suddenly had a new outlook on life.
younger self would aspire to be or look up to. Whether the deed big or small, like finding a cure to some sickness or just buying someone a coffee. Being a better person, learning and growing are the foundations to my own personal legend.
I Am Legend is such a great movie, in my opinion. Will Smith did such a wonderful job in it, but as you stated it does fall in this week’s topic. I Am Legend does have similarities to Jesus’ story, with him being the only man on Earth that the disease does not affect and his blood being the only thing that can stop the disease that is spreading. When you describe I Am Legend in this manner, I think it would definitely be a good way to start a conversation about the good and the evil in the world.
Everyone who is such a seeker should read this optimistic book of one who seems to have succeeded in the process of turning a potentially base life into a golden achievement, a true alchemist’s
Well, please don’t consider me the usual teenager. Yeah, I go to school, get good grades, play a sport, and have a couple friends, but there is one thing that sets me apart from the rest of the people I go to school with. I love to be alone. The definition of loneliness reads “sadness because one has no friends or company”. The hair on my skin spikes up as I read these words,