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Personal Narrative: An Inevitable Norm For American Society

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In the United States we can be so self-absorbed and have no regard for other people and their feelings and well-being, it is a distinguishable norm for American society at this point. We always ask ourselves “What do I want?” or “What can I gain from this?”, but we never ask ourselves “What do they want?” or “What can they gain from this?” This is where Japan separates itself from the United States. The people in Japan hold such high esteem for everyone they know and meet, while we can hardly treat the person next to us with even the smallest amount of admiration and generosity.

I noticed that every Japanese citizen I met had something in common; they all had an understanding and value of the Golden Rule. The last night of my short homestay in Kumamoto was a grand display of this. My host family and I ate sukiyaki –– a dish that is usually eaten during the winter time ––, enjoyed some small fireworks and sparklers and even tried many different cakes. I was about to say something funny …show more content…

Shirane deserves more credit than she’s given for everything she has done for Japan and San Antonio, but I don’t think it’s what she wanted. She told Beth Costello that she wanted to create the exchange program that four other students and I had the honor of going on. So, she got what she said she wanted. Yet, I know Mrs. Shirane and I share the same idea of making people happy: making sure everyone is cared for. This is the foundation of the real purpose of the exchange program. She wanted to show students what life was like in Japan so that they could come back into their communities in the United States and plant seeds of generosity and kindness that will make change unto other people. She wanted this change to affect the future so it will be brighter and we can leave the world a better place than when we joined it. We are living out her vision, so in the end, we will regard every aspect of all the people in our

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