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Personal Narrative-Befor Before Ties

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It is just a month until TIES opens it's doors for the second year. In one month transgender people and allies alike will gather for a day full of knowledge, wisdom, communication and laughter. We will meet old friends and new ones. We will gather and exchange our experiences and our challenges. We will celebrate our triumphs and mourn those we have lost.

Last years TIES was a very special time in my life. It was my first transgender conference. It was my first time being around so many people who understood something of what I had been going through without me having to explain. I learned a lot. I learned about me, about diversity, about tolerance, and about pride. I gathered resources and accepted guidance. I met people who inspired me and opened my eyes to a world I had only dreamed about. …show more content…

Living in a rural town, I felt like I was the only transperson in a hundred miles. I knew it wasn't true, but without anyway to find each other, it might as well have been.

After TIES and with the knowledge I had gained I began for the first time in over decade to hope. With a renewed energy I came home and I set out on the next leg of my journey. I was going to show the world who I knew myself to be. What had been so insurmountable, no longer seemed impossible and I rose to the challenge and relished the moment as my transformation began again.

It has been almost a year now. I discovered how to love myself and not for any other reason then because of who I am. I am living my dream. I am living as myself. I am not afraid and I am bold.

But for all I had accomplished. I was missing that sense of community I had found at TIES. I couldn't find that community locally so I decided I would help to make one. I put myself out there. I reached out and found a political group meeting for the first time. It was to be a local group of a state wide transgender rights organization in nearby

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