Did she just say college isn’t the place for her? What am I going to do? I can vision it now. She won’t have an acceptable job, new car, not to mention, a nice house.
Honey, I know it’s difficult. However, we can get through this. Can you push it through one more semester and see how you feel then? You will enjoy college if you give it another chance. You are just in a difficult position right now. In fact, all colleges around the world are challenging. They prepare you for success. If you work for your degree, then you will invest a large amount of money.
What is wrong with her? Does she even want a decent career? Maybe this is my fault. I wasn’t supporting her like I should. I should’ve been there for her. Was she worried I wasn’t
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I didn’t know you were so unhappy with college. I can help you push through it. I went to college, and I struggled too. I don’t know anyone that doesn’t struggle. It’s normal to want to give up and quit, but it doesn’t help. After you escape this hard position that you’re in, you will be so relieved. Why don’t you just stay here? You don’t have to pay electric bills, water bills, or anything. Living by yourself is a lot of responsibility. If you think you are having a difficult time now, try paying a house bill with a job that doesn’t require college. You can stay here while you finish college. It will be easier for you.
I know she will regret not going to college if she gives up. Should I let her quit or should I keep pushing her toward success? I need to decide what is best for her. I understand that she is struggling, but she will be miserable without her college degree. I still think it is better for her to continue. I know she can work it out and earn her degree.
Please don’t quit. You will regret it if you do. College will get you a fantastic job with a good pay. All you have to do is finish it out strong. It will make a gigantic difference in your pay. You don’t want to look back and say I quit college, therefore, I have an average paying
In the article, “What Is College For? (Part 2)” written by Gary Gutting we see a description of his ideal vision to improve education and the intellectual culture of our citizens. Mr. Gutting emphasizes that preparing students for employment should be the job of the elementary, middle and high school rather than college. He argues that higher education is basically unnecessary for the practice of many professions.
Moving back in with her parents was just a minor setback for her. It actually help her make a business plan, that she was able to talk over with her parents. They even agreed to front her some money to get started, but she wanted to earn her own portion first.
2. She is right regarding taking classes to acquire new skills that could get her a better job; however she has to take care of all the other aspects of her financial situation in order to do so. Once her net cash flow is positive, she can start planning going back to school.
Now, the problem with most blogs and arguments today is that even though we acknowledge that there is some kind of problem without ever actually offering a solution to the issue. That is not the case here because the solution to this problem is quite simple. Do something, anything else really just don’t go to college! Now true college was made for some people but for those who feel like the alternatives might be for them, there is a book out there call 50 Alternatives to College. It is written by, yes, a college graduate named James Altucher and while it seems a bit absurd that a graduate would want to tell others not to go, but it is because he went that he can say to others not to go almost like a savior in some regard. Think of yourself
There is no way I’m letting my daughter call a quits in college. She’s only 18 years old. She just started not long ago. Has she not ever heard of working hard or adjusting after awhile? I think I’m simply failing as a mother. Could I really have failed at raising my own child?
Her work experience has allowed her to gain some insight on how the degree can enhance her knowledge of the industry she loves. At this time, she decided to stop putting the degree off in order to achieve her goal of being a CPA and to give her a sense of being fulfilled. This degree would also give my family a potential business to add to what we already have. Furthermore; this is why I chose Grand Canyon University due to the program they offered and my enrollment Counselor Vivi
Over the years I have tired going to college. Until now, things haven’t worked out. I
This is the second time I've been to college. The first time I dropped out when I was 19. Now I'm 24 waking up on Tuesdays and Thursdays with the same idea in mind. I've never been a morning person because of my narcolepsy. And I've never been a star student. So, whenever I get in predicaments like these I wanna runaway. I want to finish
Third of all, you have to change your attitude toward school. You have to want to finish school; you have to think about the money you are spending to go to school. For example you are paying for every class you take and if you fail a class then you are paying for the same class again. College is a major step from high school. I personally wasn’t ready for college, but this being my second year I understand what I have to do to finish school. I understand more and more why education is a major issue in life, especially a college education. Entering college you have to change your game plan to get where you want to be in life.
She has reasonable plans for which she works hard and started to pay off her debts.
When it comes to college I sometimes wish that I wouldn’t have rushed to get out of high school. There is so much that comes along with college that I’m not use too such as: sharing a bathroom, waking up on my own, and sharing a room with a stranger. When I first applied to Arkansas Tech my roommate was my best friend, but after receiving a scholarship for $20,000 she decided to go to Philander Smith. After hearing the news, I was happy that she was able to receive a scholarship worth that much, but I was also angry and sad at the same time because we were officially splitting apart. The part that I hated the most was being kicked out of the room I applied for and being put into a room with a stranger. Moving into the room was very awkward
To her it was the best experience that she had at that point in her life. So lastly when the point came up when i had asked her ,about her coming of age.It happened the year of when she was becoming a junior,when she had dropped out.Because, of the summer before when something badly happened with our family.And, even though it was over, people kept making , false accusation of other things that hadn’t happened and it was just to much to handle.So she dropped out of school and decided that she could just get a job and move off island.But when she started to hang out with the wrong people that she had met on the internet.My mom, put her in job corps ,they told her that doing nothing will not help her life get better.But after when she realized that she could still pursue to become a nurse.She started to care because she wanted to see places and learn how to help people and that’s what made her realize her coming of age.Lastly when the interview was done, i realize how hard it must have been on her , but also how education is very important, and that you should never give up on what you want to do with your life, because there is always a way.You just have to try and work hard because nothing just gets handed to you.And, if you think that something
The concept of leaving home and entering a community of unfamiliar faces can be scary for any incoming college student. Within a matter of few short weeks, home goes from the house that you grew up in to the room you share with a stranger and live out of. The main purpose of college is to prepare young adults for the professional world. For many first year student’s college is the first time that they are living without some type of parental supervision. This is meant to help them grow and mature in to a full adult and prepare them for professional life. The more a student feels at home at college the more that they will rely on other people for their own well-being, as they did at home. I can agree with the “The Sheltering Campus: Why College is Not Home” and “How to Get a Real Education” ideas of students becoming too dependent on administration for their interactions on campus and not helping themselves find their own identity. From my own personal experience thus far in college, I do find it extremely important to find a place you can be yourself.
My middle daughter came home in the 9th grade, crying because her teacher was unhappy with her. Why was the teacher unhappy? Because my 14-year-old daughter did not know what she what she planned to major in when she went to college. What the heck? I was (at the time) 38-years-old and didn 't know what I wanted to do with the rest of my life. How on earth is a 14-year-old supposed to know that? Three years later she came home angry (progress, I think) because her counselor was pushing her towards a $38,000 a year college, rather than the $11,000 a year college that she had chosen. Because she felt that her counselor was not terribly bright, she did the math for him. The $38,000 a year college had offered her an $18,000 a year scholarship,
Knowing that I was not academically ready for college was one of the scariest times of my life. I was afraid of failing and having to go back home with disappointment. I would ask myself, “is it even worth going to college?” High School was a time where I relied on others. I was only cheating myself and did not realize I was not getting a proper education. Once I began my studies at San Jose State everything became completely different. I knew I had no one to help me out to and I also knew I could not take the easy way out. I actually had to try. I began to pay attention in my courses. For once I was committed to complete all of my assignments and worried about deadlines. It was not easy at first and it still isn’t. It is only getting harder and will continue to do so throughout my four years. So far I have definitely seen a difference in myself and my learning experience. I have seen a great development in my ability to express my ideas and be able to analyze a text while criticizing effectively. As well as my learning experience in a college setting. I finally understand the purpose of the course and have had an outstanding professor who has taught me a tremendous amount of information this semester. I know now for a fact as long as I keep putting in my effort it will only get better from here. The knowledge I have acquired was possible because of the homework, essays, and the in class activities my professor has assigned throughout the semester. Not doing my homework in