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Personal Narrative: Failure Is Not An Option By Gene Kranz

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Gene Kranz once said “Failure is Not an Option”, and later wrote a book with the same title. In space that is certainly of the highest priority, however in life failure is a reality. Failure will inevitably happen to all of us. My biggest failure and greatest disappointment and the one that has bothered me the most, was a failure on my part to communicate effectively. I was adopted as a toddler and have not grown up around my biological family, although I have always known who they are. Two years ago, I got into an intense argument with my older biological brother. During this argument, we both said things that we regret and wish that we had not said. Tragically our argument ended and evolved into a separation that was just recently resolved, …show more content…

I know that I needed to be the bigger person and reach out to him, not knowing what to expect. I also know that I had to follow my heart regardless of what his actions might have been. Failure is only failure if you do not allow yourself to learn from it, and I learned a lot and grew as a person, when I was honest enough to ask myself: “How could I have handled this better? “. I also learned not to ask yourself this question if you are not prepared for the answer. I knew immediately that the first thing that I needed to do was some very serious soul searching and admit and acknowledge all my own mistakes to my brother in person. One on one, face to face is always best when trying to resolve any issue. Admitting your own mistake has a way of opening doors to an honest dialogue to begin. If you cannot admit your own mistake then you have truly not learned from it. You must own up to your own actions. I know now how important it is to think before you act or speak. Reaction may not always be a good action. I am learning to be silent when silence is needed and to find the right words before speaking. Words spoken in anger or haste will cause pain that can last a lifetime if not

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