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Personal Narrative: How Divorce Changed My Life

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How Divorce Changed Me When I hear the word ‘divorce’ the first thing that comes to my mind is a broken marriage or how the adults are moving on with their lives to bigger and better things, the same thing other people would think of when hearing this word. For me, there is so much more for divorces in a family than the mother and father. Divorces affect the children in the relationship the same if not more than it affects the adults, most people seem to forget that. I have been through two divorces now and I believe it has changed me for the better, and has made me become the person I am today. I remember my fifth birthday party just like yesterday, it was by far the worst birthday I have ever had. I had all of my friends over that I had …show more content…

We were all playing outside when my dad showed up with pizza and that’s when the fight started to happen. I remember hearing yelling and foul language and by that time we had all found ourselves hiding behind the two trees on the side of my house because we were terrified. I was supposed to have my first slumber party that night, but instead all my friends went home and I started to understand how bad my mother and father’s marriage really was. After that, I remember moving out and the divorce process starting. At the age of six I remember going to the rodeo with my dad and this woman, who soon became my new stepmother, Angela. In the first grade, we moved away from all of my friends and family and started our lives over in Independence. I was lucky enough to have a I lucked out step family who truly cared about my well-being and accepted me into their family like I was their own (Angela, my step sister Hannah, and step brother Justin). I loved the …show more content…

When my mother neglected me, and my stepmother took me in, I was taught that blood doesn’t mean anything at all. I learned that no matter how well I thought I knew someone, that doesn’t really mean I know them as well as I thought I did. From that experience, I have taken in that I never judge a book by it’s cover and that I can change someone’s life just by doing something so simple, like showing them that I care about them. After almost three years of being in a state of depression, I’ve finally found the person I am today. I’ve learned so many things and I’ve learned that it’s okay to be upset sometimes. I’m now happy and content with my life and I’m no longer in depression. So whether someone has been through the same situation as me or not anyone can find the true meaning of something even if they were taught the opposite of what the true meaning really

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