I have always considered myself a great student. When I lived in the Dominican Republic I was the best student of my class. I won several math competitions, and the relationship with my teachers was great. I was invincible, or at least that's what I thought until I moved to New York. Moving from the Dominican Republic almost convinced me of something my sister said a few months after I left, “some people are smart only in Spanish.” I asked myself who could possibly be smart in one language and stupid in a different one, but later I found myself being that person.
In the summer of 2013, my mother told me that I would be moving to the United States, for reasons that she didn’t disclose to me. In the Dominican Republic, children are raised to never question the decisions of their elders, so I did as I was told. Later, I understood that my parents knew that it didn’t matter how hard I worked in school, we would never have enough connections or money to find me a good job or for me to assist to a good university in my country.
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When I asked him to repeat how to get to my next class, he spoke agonizingly slowly. Waaalk all the waaay dowwwn until you seeee room 115 and make a lehhhft. I felt so stupid, especially because I was still late for every class.
The first days of school became the saddest days of my life. Not only was I missing my parents, but also I was intimidated. I was used to getting the best grades at my former school; here in New York, I was something different, somehow less. I neither liked nor understood what was happening to me. Because of my inability to speak fluently, and without inventing words, a few weeks after trying to fit in at school I decided to give up. I limited my social life to talk only to Spanish speakers, I did well in every subject except for English, and I lost all my interest in learning proper
The pilot said, “Ready for take off!” I was dreading those words and the day in which I had to leave everything behind. How could I leave Colombia? My house? My family? My friends? My whole life?
My parents are one of the perfect role models, through their motivation and inspiration, they strongly influenced my decision to be in college. In "The Book of Unknown Americans," by Christina Henríquez, Celia, Mayor's mom said, "When we left Panamá, it was falling apart. Rafa and I thought it would be better for the boys to grow up here. Even though Panamá was where we had spent our whole lives. It's amazing, isn't it, what parents will do for their children? (57)" Based on the quote, I understand that they moved to the United Stated because of the future of their children even though they had to leave their hometown. So did my parents. At first, my mom didn't want to go to America because she doesn't know the language, the weather is too different from Vietnam, and there's no family in here except my dad and me. But
The first day of school was the worst day I’ve ever been through in my childhood time, I cannot communicate
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I’m truly a fortunate teenager. I didn’t doubt at all that I wanted to come to the United States of America. My initial plan was to do as much as I could during junior year and share my findings back home like an ancient explorer. The big question was, should I stay for senior year? Would you do it? Do you have the courage? Step on my shoes for one second. Step in my mother’s and grandma’s shoes too. If I decided to stay, that implied to major things. Firstly, that graduating from an U.S high school would no longer allow me to go back and study in Mexico right away. If all of a sudden, for any reason, I wanted to quit, I would have lost my time and would have lost awesome moments next to my close friends and family. At the same time, not going to college here couldn’t even be considered. I’ve known since I enrolled in elementary school that I would attend University. I’ve always known that I wanted to be a professional. This meant at least two more years here, two years away from my beloved Mexico City. In my mom’s point of view, since I’m her only child, she probably misses more that anyone. Can you completely fill in the void of a missing Child or a Family member you
I was brought for the advantages America offered. In Mexico I saw how people tend to live with only 600 pesos a week, I witnessed how dropping out of school was seen as normal, and I saw how people are expected to marry young. I saw how 12-year-old were already acting like 20 years having boyfriends after boyfriends. To make it even more controversial they had boyfriends that were around 6 to 10 years older than them. School in general is not as supported as it is here. The government has no involvement in school expensive. The parents are expected to pay school tuition, uniforms, supplies and etc. Not being able to finish school, are the small details why my parents came to this country. They were in hope that their children would not live the life they once had. They wanted and expect better education for their children, an educated that would obtain them the opportunity for them to avoid jobs that they had. I still remember when I told my parents that I got accepted a university, the tears in my mother’s eyes and the pride in me fathers face made me realize that I was making them proud. I was making their sacrifices worth it. Once the three other acceptance letters came in, that was the conversation they would have with everyone they would see. As the first generation to attend a university, everyone supported me when my parents could not take me to the orientations my older cousins would come with
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11), a bible verse I discovered online while searching for inspirational quotes and had put up on my wall hoping to give me some form of inspiration. I remember being asked if I had wanted to move to Puerto Rico, unaware of the consequences, I said yes. “What could go wrong?” I asked myself, the reason of my agreement was to expand my first language, meet new friends and have fun. Moving out of Boston, saying my goodbyes to the dearest to me: my father, my sisters, and my nieces became such a heartbreaking realization of what I was letting go of. Moving into Puerto Rico, during the first month after I arrived, was what felt like the worst decision I had ever made. I felt miserable. I knew absolutely no one. I was scared to speak. I didn’t adapt to my surroundings and the culture itself as much as
A topic that’s very controversial to me is poverty, seeing it first hand in my home country really changed the outlook I have on my life. It shaped my dreams into achieving more for myself, doing something outstanding. It has inspired me into pursuing a tougher career choice to be able to assist all my needs in the future.
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