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Personal Narrative: My Day With Cardiomyopathy

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For most teenagers a normal day with their parents would include an activity like shopping or fishing. For me a normal day with my dad would last an hour at the most because of his cardiomyopathy. Cardiomyopathy is a heart disease which causes swelling, fatigue, and abnormal heart rhythm. In order to try and reduce the symptoms my father has had multiple surgeries. A good chunk of my life outside of school was being with my dad and helping him while he was recovering from the surgeries. I knew my dad needed help so rather than hanging out with my friends I devoted my free time to him. There was a time when my father couldn't get out of bed by himself. My Grandfather and I would have to help him walk anywhere in the house. I would have to cook dinner and clean the house for us. I knew he wouldn’t be able to jump out of bed and everything would be back to normal. There was times when I had to bathe him, change his clothes for him, and do his laundry. Even now that my dad is recovered from his surgeries fatigue still kicks in and we can really only do something together for …show more content…

Helping him change and bathe was strange for both of us. The last thing I wanted was for this situation to ruin the relationship with my father because of the help he needed. It took a lot for my dad to ask for help bathing and changing -he would try himself first. I remember a time when my grandfather and I were sitting at the table waiting for my dad to call for us and instead we heard something in his room fall and then he called us into his room for help only for us to find him lying on the floor. He had a fear of losing his dignity so when he did ask me my only thought was to make sure he was as comfortable as possible. At the end of the experience my father and I are still close and I learned how to keep a relationship strong even in the lowest of

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