Personal Narrative: My First Foster Home

Over 400,000 children were placed into care in the year of 2014, statistics have shown they've also went up. During my experience while being in foster care, i had to leave behind many people I cared about, but i also knew i had a lot of things to learn. I knew i messed up alot, and i knew while i was getting ready for court, there was no more chances. Usually i just got sanctioned for twenty days and up, but my probation officer already told me, she knew it wasn't helping, and more serious things were going to happen. She literally tried everything with me, and nothing was working. She tried gateway, which was a place to go to after school, for supervision at all times, there was reasons for her putting me in their, which was because my dad

As a child I grew up in the foster care system. My formative years consisted of uncertainty and confusion since I was not able to express myself effectively to the state assigned child advocates. During my time in foster care I volunteered to care for the younger children who had special needs. As I began to care for the children especially with neurological brain damage I became intrigued by how little science seemed to know about Special Education or effective treatment. At the age of eleven I started reading peer-reviewed articles such as Neurology journal and Exceptional Children (EC) trying to adsorb everything science related that would provide answers. Several years after I aged out of the system I had a child of my own who was born with severe Autism and sensory integration disorder. My son Andrew was non-verbal for the first four years even after extensive

Everyone loved it, it was my first time playing, but because I’m not in foster care I’m suppose to answer all the questions that apply to my life, if I get one that is specifically about foster care I am to pretend that I’m in foster care and think about how I would feel in those situations. The kids really started to open up about their feelings of frustration, loneliness, abandonment, confusion, and many others, these were just a few that were repeated. At 7:30 p.m. the kids left and we put the room back together. During our meeting we found that the siblings were no longer at the same foster home anymore, one of them had to be moved out. This explained a lot of the behavior that was experienced tonight, one of the girls went off in the Volcano room beating Max, the giant stuffed man, with bats, tying him up with ropes, and making a whip for him. This also can explain the little boy’s attitude toward doing the activity. We came to the conclusion that these kids need Healing Hearts more than they know and we can’t give up on them even when the going gets tough, because it will get tough.

The cops found me after three days. They decided it wasn’t working for me living at that other house so they moved me to different foster home. I’ve been to three different foster homes in the last month and a half, and now I’m on my fourth. I guarantee you I won’t last long here either. I’m already leaving this place without their permission.

Though I never entered foster care as a child and therefore, did not consider this topic directly related to my childhood; I see things differently now. The largest common denominator for the existence of foster care and the primary reason why children get placed is extreme poverty. Although I have gone hungry myself here and there in my life, and I also have encountered financial hardship throughout, it appears as really nothing compares to the histories of these families. The traumas they have endured living through despair and darkness of these circumstances is not easy to put into words. My research took me to different genders, different cultures, and different extremes of personal history. It was really heartbreaking to find out these facts via individual memoirs because it felt like they all sat in the middle of my room, up close and personal. What I do know now without a doubt is that I can clearly relate to the raw emotions which back up any human trauma out there. Any of these emotions are what connects humans all over the world; it gives people the key to relating to one another, especially in the space of suffering, as it will demonstrate through the call for and usage of foster care.

Many people, sometimes, identify foster care as an unsuccessful attempt to help a problematic child. Many people judge foster children because the children have had unacceptable parenting, or other events in their lives that affect their behavior. There are some people whose thinking process about the foster child will turn out the same exact way as their parents. Foster care has its good benefits, as well as its bad ones. People may say foster care is a bad things because it affects the child emotional and possibly physically. The child may start to develop an act of abandonment, doubtfulness, and lack of self­confidence, due to the fact he/she is being taken away from his/her mother/father or have been through a

Each year in the United States, 24000 youth who were under the state care ago out of the system and get discharged because they have reached the legal age (pathway). The literature review indicated that 12 to 36 percent of this population will be homeless at some point after being discharged from the foster home. Among this population of the subgroup, permanency becomes issues. This study will look at the youth who aged out of the foster-care system and the likeliness of became homeless due to housing outcome, using the case study of aged out foster youth housing experience. The study will explore the causal relationship and other links that may contribute to housing instability and homelessness among young people who exit foster care once they reach the legal age (18-year-old). Some definitions have been created in trying to explain the outcome of housing instability.

The Pratt family has started an approved Foster Home where they recently accepted Marjia into their household. Marjia’s mother, Ali, is serving time in prison for selling drugs and physically abusing her only daughter. After CPS has taken Marjia out of the unsafe household of her mothers, Marjia continues to have night tremors and fears that her mother will find a way to regain custody. Since Marjia has moved into the Pratt household, she has developed high anxiety and depression The Pratt family is a Christian African-American home and begins taking Marjia to organized church events. The foster parents, John and Lisa, thought religion would be a curable outlet for Marjia to relieve her anxiety and depression. However, Marjia has grown up in

In his foster home Max learned what it was like to be part of a family. He learned

James was just your average kid, living an average life, doing average things, but not exactly. James is an orphan, and does not live in any foster homes. At the moment he is hiding in a warehouse. He has no friends, no one to live by, and nothing at all. This may seem sad now, but just you wait. James is about to get a friend, his lifelong dream! Not exactly. James has been homeless for one month, eight days, twelve hours, fifty-two minutes, and ten seconds. Moving to our next character: David. David is your stereotypical rich kid. He’s a snobby kid that thinks he’s better than anyone else. He has three dogs, five cats, two maids, a total of thirty fish, some horses, and a racoon. Why a raccoon? Well, David fed a raccoon, found the baby racoons from the dying coon, and took one in and abandoned the rest. You may also be asking ”How many horses?” You get to decide, it's unimportant to the story. Back to the main story.

Taylor has adjusted to her new foster home during this period. The youth is slowing expressing her feelings of current foster placement, bio-family and experiences. Taylor has regressed in her behaviors. The youth left the home without permission and admitted to using marijuana. Taylor discussed her struggles with substance abuse and fear of disappointing her foster family. The youth displays determination to change unhealthy behaviors to increase a healthy nurturing lifestyle. Taylor continues weekly therapy in Charleston County Mental Health. The youth had a family visit with her bio-grandmother at the local DSS office.

I woke up on the couch, screaming with tears running down my face. I tried to stop yelling, but I couldn’t. If I didn’t stop yelling Sebastian will wake up and then Lin and Vanessa will wake up and be furious with me. Suddenly, I hear footsteps coming from Lin and Vanessa’s room. Oh no, I woke one of them up, I quickly covered my mouth. I must look crazy, a teenage girl sitting on a couch disgustingly sobbing with her hand gripping her hand over her mouth tightly. The person who came out the Lin and V’s room was finally in front and I recognized the person as Vanessa. She sat next to me and swiftly encompassed me into a comforting cuddle position.

I think foster care is the next section of growing up in me and my sister’s lives. We actually don’t have to move every year anymore. I think me and my sister never had nice teachers, like they have here, and we have friends that are so nice, but a little immature, but they still are awesome.

I was born into a family that could not support me. My birth parents were very young and did not have the capability to care for me. As a result, I was put up for adoption. I spent the first two weeks of my life in a foster home. However, I was one of the lucky ones. When I was 16 days old, I was adopted by a wonderful couple that I am very privileged to call my parents.

Until I was 13 I had grown up as an only child, so it was a big shock when another kid moved in with us. My mom and step-dad declared it was God’s calling they become foster parents, and a few months later, Geremiah was moving into the room across from me. While they made sure Geremiah had all his physical needs met, it was up to me to help him adjust to living in a new place. Having autism made many of the needed adjustments difficult for him. I had to see that he ate well, kept good hygiene, and succeeded in school. I began to realize that I had the ability to step up and make a difference in someone’s life.