Personal Narrative: The Decision To Become A Foster Family

It did not take long before I realized how lucky I was for the situation that I had grown up in, to see how I could use it to shape my future into one that went against every negative thought people had, or every negative comment people made towards my future. The past was the key to my future. I spent years in foster care, and years being treated like just another case by social workers, never feeling like they really cared or understood me. That is what needed to be changed, and that is what I was going to do, become a social worker, and revolutionize the way foster kids, abused, or neglected children were treated. No kid should feel like they are just another case to be handled, they are brilliant individuals who are waiting for someone to show them how to not only escape the past, but how to achieve their own dreams. I promised myself that I would never give up on that dream of helping those children in need. It was in the past that I found my courage to return to school, to prepare myself for a worth wild

In todays’ society many Americans never think about our foster care system. Foster care is when a child is temporarily placed with another family. This child may have been abused, neglected, or may be a child who is dependent and can survive on their own but needs a place to stay. Normally the child parents are sick, alcohol or drug abusers, or may even be homeless themselves. We have forgotten about the thousands of children who are without families and living in foster homes. Many do not even know how foster care came about. A few of the earliest documentation of foster care can be found in the Old Testament. The Christian church put children into homes with widowers and then paid them using collection from the church

Everyone loved it, it was my first time playing, but because I’m not in foster care I’m suppose to answer all the questions that apply to my life, if I get one that is specifically about foster care I am to pretend that I’m in foster care and think about how I would feel in those situations. The kids really started to open up about their feelings of frustration, loneliness, abandonment, confusion, and many others, these were just a few that were repeated. At 7:30 p.m. the kids left and we put the room back together. During our meeting we found that the siblings were no longer at the same foster home anymore, one of them had to be moved out. This explained a lot of the behavior that was experienced tonight, one of the girls went off in the Volcano room beating Max, the giant stuffed man, with bats, tying him up with ropes, and making a whip for him. This also can explain the little boy’s attitude toward doing the activity. We came to the conclusion that these kids need Healing Hearts more than they know and we can’t give up on them even when the going gets tough, because it will get tough.

The cops found me after three days. They decided it wasn’t working for me living at that other house so they moved me to different foster home. I’ve been to three different foster homes in the last month and a half, and now I’m on my fourth. I guarantee you I won’t last long here either. I’m already leaving this place without their permission.

Foster Parent One: Shelly was born and raised in Avery, TX. She is the biological daughter of Delores Jackson and David Monsiviaz. Shelly was adopted by her maternal aunt and uncle, Eura and Woodrow Hicks at the age of 3, Shelly’s mother was killed in a car accident and her father was not accept by the family due to his ethnicity. Shelly reported she was informed by her adoptive parents that her biological father was dead as well. When Shelly was an adult she searched and located him, however she has never contacted him because she feels that should have been his job.

Twenty-one year old Claudia Felder lives in Chino, California in a lovely home, with three sweet dogs, and most importantly, a family. One would never think that this well off young lady was once living a life inside foster care. She entered the system when she was just three years old, when most preschoolers were busy having play dates and learning to color within the lines. Claudia’s earliest memories instead were of her mom being beaten in a motel room. After that experience, Felder entered the foster system and stayed there for the next ten years. With not enough foster families in the system, she was bounced around wherever a bed was available. Her lack of a consistent foster

Foster care has been around for years, it is a place for kids with no families to go or for kids who's parents didn't want them. It isn’t all bad. When someone gives up a child, they are giving someone who wants a baby/child and can’t have any, a chance to be a parent. There are a lot of problems with the system. That is why people should keep an eye on the child, they do not understand why things happen to them. If one foster child says they are getting abused someone should watch them and they should have surveillance cameras in all rooms of the home to ensure that the children there are not mistreated. For at least a month or two.“Parenthood requires love, not DNA.” -Anonymous (“Foster Care Services”)

Over the years, foster care has evolved into something much greater than in the past. It has become modernized and more diverse. There are three different kinds of foster care; emergency care, traditional or regular care, and therapeutic needs. The system helps children who have or are suffering from abuse or neglect. “Children in foster care may live with unrelated foster parents, with relatives, with families who plan to adopt them, or in group .

One of the ways foster care is inhibited is that the separation of the child from their parents and placement in a foster home can be traumatic for the child. In some instances where the child is not safe in their home, the first choice may be to remove the child and place them in foster care. Both the parents and child have a hard time accepting the situation. This separation causes conflicts and resistance from the child (Crosson-Tower, 2014, p. 316). Other myriad adjustments, such as lifestyle change, new school, new friends and neighbors, and at times a new culture, also inhibit the effectiveness of foster care placement. Foster care can create an environment of

Foster care is a big problem in america. In America, many Americans never think about our foster care system. Most families have not had to think about foster care or what would happen if their child got placed in it. Foster care is when a child is temporarily placed with another family due to certain circumstances. A child could have been abused, neglected, or could have not been able to stay with a parent because of personal issues (having to serve jail time or having to go to a drug helpment center). Normally the child parents are sick, alcohol or drug abusers, or unable to take care of them self neverless a child. There is one thing that people need to realize is that these children deserve good homes. Most of the children being placed into homes have not done anything to deserve what they are going through. They deserve people to love them and take care of them. Thats whats the foster system is for. To make sure that if something goes wrong or happens in your previous home that a new family is ready to help and provide care and support. People who want them and will be kind and

My parents are divorced, and have been since I was about seven years old. I hardly remember what life was like before then. But despite my parents separation I have never been without proper care, and in this way I am fortunate. On any given day, there are nearly 428,000 children in foster care in the United States. The average age of a child in foster care is nearly 9 years old, and in all states in the US at least 50% of the kids in foster care are males. Until now, I personally, have never known much about the process. I have a few friends who were adopted and I’ve watched a few seasons of the show The Fosters. But I hardly think that qualifies as quality knowledge about the issue. What I have learned is this: Children are suffering in

The creation of the foster care system was with the expectation to support in the child's safety and health in their personal homes. When children experience child neglect and abuse in their homes, Child Protection Services (CPS) will have to become involved and remove the child from their homes. Once the child is removed from their homes, they become a fart of the Child Welfare System for the protection of the child. Children are placed in foster care homes with foster families. A foster home is a household where a child or children are raised by someone else other than their biological or adoptive parent or parents. It is fortunate when these children are removed from the abusive state of their personal homes. However, some children who are placed into foster care homes continue to receive further abuse.

Over the past several there has been increased focus on the foster care system with implementation of new policies and pieces of legislation to support this population. Although, initial services and support was extremely broad with the intent to meet the needs of the entire population, the youth exiting foster care due to age limitations shed light on the need for more specific legislation for this population. It is clear that youth “aging out” (Dworksy, 2008) of the foster care system are in some ways forced to transition into a role of independence much differently than the general population. There is typically no chance for this population of youth to return to the foster care system for support even if they are completed unprepared for the transition (Geenen & Power, 2007). Clearly, specific populations of foster care youth are in need of special attention particularly those aging out of the system. These youth are believed to encounter adverse challenges in areas such as incarceration, drug use, education, and homelessness. In the hopes to address the issues of homelessness in youth several pieces of legislation have been passed and amended over the years.

Neglect. Loneliness. Disappointment. These are some of the many emotions kids face while they are in foster care. Many kids don't receive the help they need to learn how to cope with these emotions.

Foster care is very beneficial and common in Ontario, it provides many great benefits for families, and children in need. Under the Child and Family services act foster care is defined as the placement of a child or young person in the home of someone who receives compensation for caring for the child but is not the child’s parent. All children who are having troubles at home do not just get thrown into foster care, there is a process that is brought into families having difficulties by the Ontario’s Children Aid Societies (CASs). They work hard to analyze behaviours in a family, and try and keep a family together and the children at home, until seen that the family is unfit to support and provide for the child(ren). At that time, the children are taken until the family proves