The situation of loss was my own family. A little background about my extended there were all heavy smokers and non-diagnosed alcoholics. My grandparents died within 6 months of each other. My grandmother died unexpectedly, leaving my grandfather alone to drink himself to death. They left behind five daughters and three sons. The loss of my grandparents impacted their children in different ways. Most of which, four daughters and a son, did not change their way of life and have died from cancer, strokes, or liver disease within 15 years of my grandparents’ death. My father along with a brother and sister took it upon themselves to quit smoking and drinking. My father started running and working out the local gym his was in good health. Even with the lifestyle changes my father had he still battled colon cancer, however he has been in remission for the 10 years. My father’s brother and sister do not to have any major health issues they are in their late 60’s. I have twenty cousins that are alive. The cousins do not seem not be excessive drinkers although a few do smoke. …show more content…
The death of grandmother included arguing about where she was going to be buried. I think stress in my extended family brought out feelings of anger and resentment. The death of my grandmother took the family by complete surprise. No one had prepared for her death. I remember going to my grandparents’ house after her death and my grandfather just sitting at the dinner table with his bottle of gin. I guess they were all in denial no one appeared to know what to do. I’m not sure if anyone tried to help my grandfather or if he just did not want the
I have lost my grandpa and have not gotten over the idea of it. When I was in the sixth grade, my grandfather was very sick; he could barely walk. While my grandmother and some other family members went uptown for some household things, food, and medication, I was told to take care of him. Yet, I wanted to play with my friends outside. He told me to go ahead and play, but for some reason I just got mad and slammed the door and left. Around nighttime, I seen an ambulance pull up to my grandparents’ house.
On 09/12/2016, I Deputy Daniel Pruitt was dispatched to 52455 West Highway 16 for an unattended death compliant. I arrived on scene st 6:45pm and meet with Creek County EMS unit 40.
The year was 1943, I had just turned fifty years old a week ago on April 20th, When the Germans came. The Germans built barbed wire fence around the town that I made my living in. We were not allowed to anything and had little space and food. Then came the order, trucks were filled with humans similar to cattle to be sent to internment camps. When the trucks were full the rest were told to remain put for when the trucks came back. Everyday the trucks came and everyday more people left. On the fifth day the ghetto looked like a ghost town. The rest of the residents, including me were loaded onto the trucks. A few people were shot in this process, they were the lucky ones. On the ride I wondered how I got here, then I remembered
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Loss, it changes you. I cannot describe it or explain it. I am struggling with it. We as a family are struggling with it. I have decided to share one piece of how our family decided to celebrate my mother’s life at her funeral. We laid her down to rest on December 5, 2015, if you can call it that. More days than not it doesn’t feel that way to me. As we worked through the specifics we struggled, as a family and individually. We are all in a place together, yet we are individuals. We are dealing with the biggest loss of our lives. Each taking on a task for social and personal fulfillment. Each taking on the responsibility to ourselves to not regret decisions made during this time, or disappoint our mother’s life and memory at this memorial. We knew that so many others have been touched by such a beautiful woman’s kindness and genuineness, yet getting past our own grief to plan seemed to much a load to carry. We were and are not prepared for this, it had never been a fleeting though in my mind and I could not imagine it being a fleeting thought for anyone else.
The one thing we must constantly remind ourselves is that death is not the end of our life. We cannot and we will not forfeit what beautiful and precious time we have left wallowing in the darkness of a life ending. I know that the pain is real and I know that sometimes the everything is just too loud and enormous and overwhelming. But we must carry on and we must endure and we must live without ever being held back.
April 6, 1997, twenty years ago our family lives was drastically changed, with the death of my husband, father of my children. Mike was only forty-two years’ old when he passed away from a heart attack. Mike went to the hospital complaining of chest pains; he was observed in the hospital overnight, and some tests were taken of his heart. He was released from the hospital and three days later he died in his sleep from the widow maker heart attack. With the history of heart disease in the family, his grandfather/father passed away from heart disease at the age of forty years old. Waking up that morning and finding Mike has passed away in his sleep; was very devastating for our family, his mom, brothers, my sisters, and brother-in laws. At the time of his death, I was thirty-six-years old, a stay home mom, and our children Amy, was eleven years old, Kristina, nine years old, and Vincent seven years old. The hospital did not take any responsibility of his passing; we received no social services or any explanation from the hospital why the tests didn’t show any results of heart disease. Now my status is widow/single parent unemployed raising our three children on my own. Not knowing what the future holds for us.
My struggle was when I hurt my wrist when I was 12. I was playing basketball at Spiece Fieldhouse for my SportOne team. We were playing a pool play game for a tournament on a Saturday and the tournament was on Sunday. I sprained my wrist falling on the floor.
I’ve had many family members of mine pass away, but the one death that I am going to share is the one with my grandfather, Daniel DelCasale, on my dad’s side of the family. It wasn’t the first death of a relative of mine, but it was the first death that had an effect on me and that I remember having a reaction to. Both of my grandmothers passed away by the time I was six years old. I didn’t go to my grandmother’s funeral on my mom’s side because I was only five years old. I did, though, go to my Nana’s funeral, but I don’t remember going or anything for some reason.
Gibson’s second seizure came a few days later as he sat at the top of the stairs, a place where he commonly went to relax. The shaking started again.
Though some may say, myself included, that the death of a family member is one of the hardest, toughest, traumatic things to deal with, it also comes with a good side. That good side is that it brings people together to not only mourn over a loss, but to celebrate the life of someone great. One can either sink from a situation like this, or one can rise. I feel like my family and I chose to rise from this. We were all changed in so many ways. My grandma, Veronica, was especially changed the most. She and my granddad did absolutely everything together. They
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What is the only cause of death in the top 10 in America that can not be cured, prevented or slowed down? Its Alzheimer’s and it’s a terrible disease not only because of what it does to the victim but also what the family has to go through. My grandfather was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, I would go visit him in the hospital every day until this one time it just got to hard, it tore me up on the inside and it changed my view on life for a while.
When I first laid upon the floor and paid attention to my body, every part seemed to be on edge and tense. Even as the voice began to speak, I realized that I was focusing too hard on the instructions and not enough on executing them. Therefore, I had to begin again, in which I began to take deep breaths and with each release of breath, let the tension melt away. I noticed my neck was placed too flat on the floor causing tension, so I pulled my chin up, leaving a little arch to be more relaxed. I was personally surprised at how lose my back felt as it is usually the place in my body that I feel most tension. However, I did notice as the time got longer, some tension was appearing at laying on the floor for a long time.
The pain hurts so bad, like a sharp pain down my leg every time I try to run. It's hard, running is my passion and I can't even do that! Even walking is hard, a numb pain just there waiting to become stronger. So that pain in my leg while I try to walk to class and think of what the word cephalopod means for my lovely biology test to keep my mind off my leg. Then, of, course stupid Tristan O'Brien had to slam into me and knock my lovely organized notes all over the floor.