Personal Note On Self Love And Confidence

How can a person overcome depression is a common question in society. Though, what many do not consider when responding to this question is how a person's self esteem contributes to depression. Self esteem revolves around a person's feelings about themselves. If self esteem is not focused on in a person's life, it can contribute to negative feelings about oneself, which can be a continuous feeling throughout a person's life. With a low self esteem, people lose confidence in their decision making and therefore start to not believe in themselves. Thus, building a positive self esteem should be focused on in a child's adolescents because it is a time of major development in a person's life. Therefore, with a positive self esteem from a young

Every story has a beginning … This is the beginning of a little girl who would not accept herself because she did not look like every other little girl, that girl was me. Growing up I was always the big girl, the girl that was heavier and just bigger than every other girl. Knowing that I did not look like every other girl in my classroom growing up, it hurt. Knowing boys liked them and not me hurt even more. Looking back at it now what hurts me the most was what I did in order to be “liked”. Confusing love with lust was what made me feel beautiful. Being a 14 year old girl being told she’s beautiful, sexy, and simply perfect for the first time is actually dangerous. When you are told those things and yourself does not believe them, you start to need those compliments, they help you get by. But receiving those compliments comes with a price. There is no sugarcoating this, when I was younger and clueless the one way I felt pretty was by getting compliments. The ones giving the compliments

Self confidence is the foundation of success, achievement, and happiness. Unfortunately, the foundation of self confidence can become shaky and unstable if someone that you look up to as a role model hurts your self esteem and courage. One of the biggest role models in my life used to be my first club soccer coach. He seemed brilliant, passionate, and willing to work with my team. This man soon became the complete opposite of what I hoped he would be. I soon realized that he was a two faced liar and one of the most awful people I have ever met. Little did my ten year old self know he would be the downfall of my self confidence and he would slowly destroy any passion I had for the sport I loved all with only a few words.

A person with a strong sense of self esteem will have a more positive outlook on life and will be strong enough to handle difficult situations through life.

To have a positive outlook on life we all have to gain confidence physically and mentally. We can attain self-confidence overtime; we need it in order to be successful in life. Although, it is difficult in our society to attain high level self-esteem due to picture perfect images, plastic surgery, and surreal role models. Low self-esteem is not only in women it is in men; everyone has some sort of low self-esteem because as humans none of us are perfect.

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feelings and thoughts fueled my low confidence. People say if you fake it enough, it eventually becomes like second skin. I decided to fake confidence. I continued my bubbly facade. I looked in the mirror and repeated to myself that I’m allowed to love myself.

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I’d shrunk from a waist of 36 to a 32 and sprouted from 5’4 in height to 5’10 which was taller than most boys in my grade. I still wasn't ripped like the Hollister models, but I began to grow in self-confidence which was the importance of the my journey through school . I began to care less about what others possessed that I didn't and spent more time appreciating what I naturally had all along. I can't swim, but I'm a good long distance runner. I’m not the best athlete, but I have a 4.0 GPA. Also I don't have the most expensive material to wear, but I have a keen sense of fashion that sets trends from the simplicity of thrift stores. I suppose my newly discovered confidence proved to be a success, because shortly after my realization a nice young lady felt compelled to be my girlfriend. After some sessions of texting, it became an offer I couldn't decline. In the midst of understanding myself, I began to think of the quote my grandmother use to recite by Malcolm S. Forbes which stated,“Too many people overvalue what they are not and undervalue what they are.” when I decided to place less value upon what I wasn't and appreciate what I was. I found out I wasn't missing anything all

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I have my flaws and I know what they are, but why be bothered by ever little things wrong with you. There are many different reasons for why I am this way and it is the relationships I have formed over the years. I have some of the best friends I could ask for even after graduation from high school. My friends are extremely positive about themselves in a humble way, seeing other people’s positivity really reflects on yourself and how you want to view not only them but yourself. In high school teens are usually trying to find themselves, they look for “the crowd” they want to fit into and id say I found myself an incredible one. As a younger teen I found it extremely hard to fit in and I was overly shy. But once I found my crowd, I found myself and fit right in. A positivity in higher self-esteem is that my romantic relationships have never ended badly. I have always stayed friends and in touch over the years no matter how bad it was. I find myself to not dwindle on the past but to move on, some things happen for a reason even if its not the best situation or was the right way to handle

“Love yourself, girl, or nobody will.” Self-love is a struggle for most no matter if a girl or boy. We have to learn to appreciate about

You and only you are responsible for your fate. Life is no fun if you spend it hating yourself; this stifles any progress you hope to make. Once your confidence is up, you will stop making the terrible mistake of comparing yourself to others. You will already be comfortable and happy with who you are.

This definitely showed in my social life; I was a social butterfly. When I transitioned into middle school, I started hanging out with the wrong crowd. They would tell me we were best friends then spread rumors around about me. They would tell me, sweet as they could be, how ugly and how dumb i was. Without thought, I started to internalize it. Only during my ninth grade year, when i was meeting new people did i realize how horrible they were for me. I stopped hanging out with them, but i never stopped my feelings about myself. I always had immense anxiety that other people saw these unforgivable flaws in me, too. I felt these feelings were a sign of weakness, a sign that I didn't have confidence. I thought these feelings were something i should be ashamed of. I became an expert at hiding my emotions, and I was so excited, yet surprised when i had my first real boyfriend. For once, I told somebody how i was feeling; he told me it was okay, that he still liked me. That was shocking to me. We went along fine for a while, walked home every day together, until the middle of 10th grade. I saw how he was looking at other girls and doing things for them he had never done for me. My insecurities flared and I fell into a deep darkness, depression. I clung to him, I didn't want to lose the one person that said my flaws weren't that bad. I started acting hysterical, desperate,

Insecurity drills a hole into a person’s heart, minimizes their integrity, and accumulates as plaque build up, hindering any kind of future growth. Just as any human being’s growth is stifled by the insecurity within them, the United States as a whole suffers the same from its own tremendous amount of insecurity. This lack of acknowledgement of self-worth causes a ghastly chain reaction; people tend to pursue the wrong ideals, become corrupt, and inevitably lead themselves to their own demise. Insecurity is a route to destruction, and America is speeding down that road to dissolution.