On any given day, there are about 428,000 kids in the United States foster care system, and over 100,000 readily available to adopt. Only 53,000- a little over half- were adopted and given permanent homes.(AFCARS data, 2015 p.1) Being that there are this many kids in need of homes all over the country, homosexual couples are a great option for children in need of a home. All over the country, gay couples struggle with discrimination. Although society has evolved to be more open to the idea of homosexuality, there are still people who view them as ¨less¨ than heterosexual couples. In today’s society, adoption is viewed as an opportunity for couple’s to give back and do a good deed. Many times, though, it is not financially possible for families to take in another member. Right now, it is believed that there are about two million homosexual couples interested in adopting.(Gates, 2007 p. 3) With the amount of children in the US that are in need of homes, and the challenges that these kids face, homosexual couples are a good choice for placing these children who are in need. …show more content…
Rather than embrace change, it seems as if people are scared of it. “It’s not quite a ‘heterosexuals only’ sign in the window, but the so-called ‘lifestyle’ of gays and lesbians conflicts with religious beliefs.” (Graham, 2013 p.1) Many organizations have been formed throughout the years to try and help gay couples with the discrimination that they face; and also, try to stop others from discriminating against them. “I have seen gay couples inquire about 30 children and not get one answer back of the interest in their home. That just would not happen and it does not happen with the heterosexual couples we work with.” If adoption agencies wouldn’t discriminate against gay couples, more children would have homes and more couples would be able to create
This article talks about the support of second parent adoption for gays everywhere. They support the idea that children with two capable adults no matter what gender are able and should be able to care for a child. Although they support this, the article does not show any sort of negativity toward the opposite side relating the issue. The site details the rights that the second parent should be guaranteed through an adoption. They also think that pediatricians and other professions dealing with children should get more familiar with learning about gays and the children they adopt. The authors are the Committee on Psychosocial Aspects of Child and Family Health. The people in the committee have many different backgrounds and are advocates for children’s
Adoption is a hard process. It causes a lot of stress and causes people to freak out sometimes. You might not always get what you want but you have to keep thinking positive and you have to hope that good will come out of it. Some people aren’t able to have children so it’s a hard and long process and they have to wait for a long time sometimes to maybe be able to have a child that could potentially be theirs. There are different ways to have adoptions, most people will have an open adoption because they would like it for their children to know who their parents are. In the United States only, approximately 2.5% of all children in the U.S. are adopted. Also, the state with the largest percentage of adopted children is Alaska (Eligon 27-28).
“Last year, 29,471 children turned 18 and left the foster care system without an adoptive family” (“Adoption” 1). Unfortunately for those young adults, knowing the comfort of a stable family was not part of their childhood. Though there is a high demand for children to be adopted, the reality is many are not being adopted. Furthermore, even though there are children that need a good home, state governments are purposely making laws that prohibit certain groups of people from adopting children. States like Florida and Mississippi are both culprits. Two groups that are especially being targeted by unfair laws are gays and lesbians. These unfair laws are clear discrimination, and they should be put to an end
In conclusion, the augment for gay adoption is far stronger and far better supported than those opposed. One must admit that sexual orientation is fundamentally irrelevant to a person’s capacity to be a good parent. The opposition to gay and lesbian adoption has failed to support its
Attention getter: Discrimination against gay men and lesbian women has been socially recognized for hundreds of years and still continues today. Homosexuals have adopted children for many years, regardless of fear and prejudice. The controversy of this matter is why homosexuals are not presented the equal fairness of the process and open opportunity as heterosexual couples who seek to adopt or foster children. There is a certain extent to which the sexual orientation of couples (or single potential parents) seeking to adopt children impede on the opportunity to provide children with a permanent and stable home.
In 2008, President Barack Obama stated there are too many children who need loving parents to deny one group of people adoption rights (eQuality, 2005). A child will benefit from a healthy, loving home, whether the parents are gay or not (eQuality, 2005). With that statement in 2008 from the individual who holds the most powerful authority in the United States, why are gay and lesbian couples today still battling adoption laws? When in fact while trying to adopt and raise children a couple’s sexual
There are currently 107,011 kids in the U.S. foster care system that are hoping and waiting to be adopted, so just imagine how many of those children could be adopted if more lesbian and gay couples were able to adopt. According to lifelong adoption agencies more and more gay and lesbian couples are becoming parents through artificial insemination, a surrogate, or LGBT adoption. It’s hard for same sex couples to adopt because adoption agencies that have religious beliefs against same sex couples reject them, or a state law prohibits same sex parents. Same sex couples face much opposition from a large number of people even though they do not have well supported arguments for their beliefs. Many studies have been done in an attempt to figure
Gay parents are facing discrimination because of their sexual orientation. Twenty-two states currently allow single gays to adopt and 21 states currently allow gay and lesbian couples to adopt in the U.S. (Mallon, 2007, p. 6). The ability of gay couples to rear a child should not be denied only because they are gay. Homosexuals may be looked down upon by society, but they still are humans and have morals. These morals they possess, may influence a child more than those morals taught to a child with heterosexual parents. All over the world, children suffer in families consisting of alcoholics, drug abusers, and sexual abusers (Powell, 2007, p.1). It is not possible that these environments are safer than what would be provided by homosexual
First of all, homosexuals should be allowed to adopt. The goal of our adoption and foster care systems is to provide all children with permanent, stable homes with loving and supportive parents, but discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation, gender identity and marital status hinders that. State governments bear discrimination, economic costs, same-sex couples are denied the ability to build a family, and, most importantly, children in need of loving and permanent homes are left in unstable caregiving situations. Over the years' child foster care has increased by a big number. With all these restrictions on homosexuals trying to adopt children doesn't help the number go down at all. People are trying to start a family and they can't because people don't believe it's right
Gay and lesbian parents are raising four percent of all adopted children in the United States. The issues concerning LBGT adoptions have been sickening to watch and hear about over the years. The love for a child should not be based on the prejudice of others. The discrimination of a same-sex couple has progressed in the last decade, but it has also become more dangerous. Concerns of society has hindered the rights to not only the couples, but to the children they adopt or waiting on adopting. It is more likely for a opposite- sex couple to adopt than a same- sex couple.
Traditionally, a family has been considered to consist of a heterosexual couple and their children, but many forms of family life exist in contemporary society. Homosexual couples have become prominently accepted in modern history, appearing in many popular TV shows and even been inspirations for many hit songs. It has been more than accepted that even gay marriage have been accepted, and it is now legal in thirteen states. So why shouldn’t gay adoptions be legalize too? A child raised by a same sex couple can be just as normal as any other child. Gay couples should have the same rights as heterosexual couples have in adoption. Adoption can do many good things for people, which include giving gay couples the opportunity to parent, and
For generations there has been a constant war for equal rights in the LGBT+ community, many believe this war has come to an end, however it is still being fought with a new battle coming to light, the . Many people believe that there is nothing wrong with same sex couples adopting children and only see the positive, that a child gets a home and a couple gets a family. However, there are people who have a problem with same sex couples raising a family. They claim that it is going against their religion and that they are in the long run, looking out for the child because a child needs a mother and a father. Same sex couples should be able to adopt because the children will get a home and family, it is not hard or difficult of a child to understand
Homosexual Couples and the Issue of Adaptation "Having two mummies or daddies is stupid, but it's better than having none at all" When asked for his opinion on the matter of gay couples adopting and raising children as their own, my eight year old brother replied with the above statement. Children are said to be the harshest critics; their opinions considered whole truths. But is this neutral and innocent view shared by the thousands of children currently in foster care worldwide? If given the choice, would they consent to being taken into the care of a same-sex couple?
Adoption is a process whereby a person assumes the parenting of another, usually a child, from that person's biological or legal parent, and in so doing, permanently transfers all rights and responsibilities, from the biological parent or parents. Unlike guardianship adoption effect a permanent change in status and as such requires societal recognition. Adoption is a good process which helps children in different ways. I prefer to handle adoption worldwide and in all societies regardless from religious point of views.
Another found that the children of gay men were just as sound in health and mind as the adopted children of heterosexual couples (Farr, Forssell, and Patterson 175). However, we unfortunately live in a country where there are more children wanting to be adopted than there are couples willing to adopt. A Washington Post columnist argues “We should be begging gay couples to adopt children. We should see this as a great boon that gay marriage could bring to kids who need nothing more than two loving parents.” (Klein)