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Persuasive Essay On The Sunflower

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Forgiveness The Sunflower opened my eyes to more about myself and my opinions. I did not expect to look at the situation differently. After reading the responses my opinion changed slightly. But overall I still believe one thing. Forgiveness is something everyone deserves, not for the perpetrator but for the victim. Thursday March 2, 2017 my boyfriend and I starting having trouble. On that day we decided that we needed to take a break, give each other space. To help heal the pain I went out with friends, and he looked to other girls. Going out with my friends helped until I was left alone. I decided he would be the best person to help heal my pain. We arranged to hang out that night, but he had already got the “fix” for his pain. The …show more content…

I continued to check his phone, worry and belittle him. By April 2, we did decide the break and space was only making things worse. Even still, I was left with hate in my heart for well over three months. Finally on September 7, 2017 I forgave everyone in the incidents, on that day I realized that if I never forgave him we would never work out. I started by forgiving him then I moved onto forgiving everyone else. It is and has been a hard long journey, but it was necessary. When all of this first happened I do not think it was the right time for me to forgive him. But now that I have seen all the good that forgiving does, our relationship has been able to progress past all of that. On October 1, 2017 the same boyfriend changed my life forever when he asked me to marry him. I said yes of course! Without forgiving him and the girls involved none of this would have been possible. My viewpoint on forgiveness is it is very important. If you can not forgive people you hold hate in your heart. With hate in your heart you will never fully be happy. I believe forgiveness is very very important, because to live your life to the fullest you can not keep hate in your heart. Everyone makes mistakes, some bigger than others. Eventually you will not have anyone to talk to if you can not forgive people. Your goal should be to live life to the fullest, it’s hard to do that with no one to talk to. This affects the victim because if they do forgive these people some

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